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Any1 been in relationship & felt *USED* after sex?

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has anyone on here been in a relationship (relationship NOT hookup) where you felt *used* everytime after sex???

what was the circumstance/situation and how long did it go on for?
 
Re: Any1 been in relationship & felt *USED* after

HaX0788 said:
Not really. I always have a good snuggy snuggy after sex.
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see i messed around with my guy last night and even though he cuddled with me afterward i felt like it was very "forced" like he was trying really hard . something about it just didnt feel genuine. does anyone know what im talkin about? like he said alot of "nice" things but he didnt really aske me to spend a night (Which he is very forceful of before sex) he jsut siad "lets cuddle for a little bit" and then he would drop little hints like he wanted me to go home like "oh im goign to fall asleep i think"

and then when i texted him last night he didnt text me back

this is the same guy who insisted that we hold hands in public and make out in public and just very affecitonate towards me when we are together
 
Re: Any1 been in relationship & felt *USED* after

I've been used a couple times, but in the moments I didn't care. I don't regret any of it. It was all part of my experimenting and coming to terms with who I am. Now I'm very selective, and I don't sex 'em up unless I know something is going to come of it. I avoid one-night-stands like the plague.
 
Re: Any1 been in relationship & felt *USED* after

CaliSurfBoy said:
clarify pls????
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Re-read the first two words of the snippet I quoted you above -- "I felt."

Perceptive paranoia means that it's all in your head, and you should stop worrying about it. Enjoy the journey. Stop looking for the payoff.
 
Re: Any1 been in relationship & felt *USED* after

RationalLunacy said:
Re-read the first two words of the snippet I quoted you above -- "I felt."

Perceptive paranoia means that it's all in your head, and you should stop worrying about it. Enjoy the journey. Stop looking for the payoff.
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if u really liked a guy wouldnt u reply immediately to his textS?
or wouldnt u think about him i the morning and send him a text?
 
Re: Any1 been in relationship & felt *USED* after

CaliSurfBoy said:
if u really liked a guy wouldnt u reply immediately to his textS?
or wouldnt u think about him i the morning and send him a text?
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I like lots of people but I don't reply to their messages right away if I'm busy and have other things that need to be done. I would ask myself if I am thinking about him or obsessing on him. Be patriotic and tear up your copy of the Declaration of Codependence.
 
Re: Any1 been in relationship & felt *USED* after

No, I do not. We make love,
so I always feel loved, always.

I know I am fortunate, and I
am very grateful.

Shep+
 
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