Anybody here ever gave their STRAIGHT friend a blowjob?

[tomhrdhat]

By the time I was 12 or 13 I made it a rule that I'd never give a guy head unless he was willing to suck mine. It set a tone of respect and ensured that everyone kept their mouths shut. These guys were all straight.

 

[LordShiva]

More times then I can count. Wait....I've done it like 15 times, so I guess I can count them......lol.

 

[timetohavefun]

I suck you off

 

[Mikey0218]

Yes, and it was very, very hot. It took awhile to get him there and to let his guard down and just go with it.

 

[checkinthingsout]

Yes, but I guess he wasn't so straight afterall. Sorry for the length but this is the ONLY friend I have hooked up with and the only dick I have sucked. So I have this friend and we have worked together for a couple of years. I just turned 24 and he is 34 now and married, so a little bit older than me. We started out in the same job since he had been in the military for a while, and I had just graduated college a couple years before. I had hung out with him and his wife a few times, less so now because she had a baby recently. Anyways, his wife wanted to do something special for his bday, so she got myself, him and another guy tickets to an all day summer concert, and tells us to make sure he has fun.
So of course we get drunk, go into the concert and continue drinking and having a good time. The third guy who was with us was someone she knew from work that neither of us knew too well so he was kind of a 3rd wheel, as me and my friend were enjoying the concert, but neither of us had too many friends because we had all just moved to Texas recently. Anyways, we keep pounding beer after beer enjoying the music, and finally its dark out and its the last band of the night. We decide to sit in our seats, and next thing I realize his leg is rubbing against my leg. Me being oblivious I think nothing of it. It happens again for a little longer. Then he puts a hand on my knee and squeezes my thigh a little bit.
Still I am thinkin nothing is unusual. He leans over to tell me something about the band about a minute later and put his hand on my leg, but this time gets really close to my crotch and kind of pulls my shorts back. Now everyone around us is trashed and listening to the music so he does it again this time kinda playing with my boxer shorts. At this point I am frozen stiff with a noticeable hard on, trying to keep it cool, but keeping my eyes straight forward on the artist. Then he puts his arm around my shoulder like he is gonna tell me somethin and leans in and kinda kisses me on the neck, then again just barely on the lips. He still had his arm around me at this point, and I dont think anyone could see since he is 6'3" about 200 and I'm 5'7" about 155. At this point I relax and He leans back to his seat but continues to rub my dick through my shorts with both of us pretending nothing is happening, but both smiling.

Finally we are in the car ride back with the other guy driving and him in the passenger, but the whole ride he is reaching back and rubbing/squeezing my leg. I was in the process of moving apartments since it was my last weekend in TX and I was moving to a new state to start a new position. We tell the other guy to drop us at a friend’s apartment I was crashing at and we would go drink at the bars. Right after the friend left, we get in the car and he breaks the silence and said he had been thinkin about my dick all night and would have never thought in a million years I’d be into dudes. I told him the same, and that I was gay just not out to ANYONE(working on coming out soon hopefully). We go back to my empty apt and lay a towel on the floor and both get naked. We make out for a while then he starts goin down on me. Finally he gets in a 69 position, and I just kinda stroke his dick. He asks what’s wrong and I told him I never actually sucked a dick before, just been a top with most guys. He then says he hasn’t taken a dick in a while, but I could try fuckin if he wanted. I lubed up and tried to fuck him, but after a few pumps he said he was way too tight to take dick right now. So he goes back to suckin me, and eventually I start feelin bad so I just go for it.
Having never had a dick in my mouth, it was a strange feeling, and Im not sure I enjoyed it, but I think I was pretty good at it since I just did what I think guys did on me. After about 5-10 min he stopped suckin my dick and just concentrated on me, and a couple min later he started pulsing and I stopped sucking and he came on his stomach. I felt good that he got off, but I don’t think I liked the whole sucking part. I guess that’s something Ill have to get used to being gay. Afterwards we laid there and talked for another hour or so about how he’d been doing in since he was 15 or 16 to his friends and sometimes in the army as well before he got married. It gotta a little intense with him telling me all these things about his wife and family life, and me telling him about being scared to come out. We eventually left my empty apt and went back to my other friends place and passed out on the futon. I took him back to his house the next morning, and we entered the house as if nothing happened. Damn it feels good to get that out!

 

[DCRacer]

I utterly missed my opportunity in high school when my best friend and I were in the car, and he asked what it was like getting head from a guy ['whoosh' straight over the head] ... 'D'oh!' - damn, damn, damn... I secretly had wished he was my boyfriend. I had a crush on him then and I still do now... and we're still good (and current) friends to date. He's now married and has a kid

 

[Pickwick]

I've done it more than once as I practically had more straight guys in my bred than gay ones. And usually they came to me by curiosity or attraction. Some of them became regular fuck buddies and used to tell me that they just couldn't do it with another guy.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

He then says he hasn’t taken a dick in a while, but I could try fuckin if he wanted. I lubed up and tried to fuck him, but after a few pumps he said he was way too tight to take dick right now.

So, he has bottomed in the past? From the way that was written, it seems like you were not his first M2M experience.

I've done it more than once as I practically had more straight guys in my bred than gay ones. And usually they came to me by curiosity or attraction. Some of them became regular fuck buddies and used to tell me that they just couldn't do it with another guy.

A straight male would not be attracted to you. Checkingthingsout and Pickwick, it seems that you've run into bisexual men who may or may not have identified themselves as such. In Checkingthingsout's post, I would have gladly accepted that he was a heterosexual male who simply experimented with you, but it seems like your friend was bisexual and he is not exactly inexperienced. Pickwick, the men you attract may be gay or bisexual, but they are definitely not straight, if they possess attractions to the same sex.

 

[Pickwick]

So, he has bottomed in the past? From the way that was written, it seems like you were not his first M2M experience.



A straight male would not be attracted to you. Checkingthingsout and Pickwick, it seems that you've run into bisexual men who may or may not have identified themselves as such. In Checkingthingsout's post, I would have gladly accepted that he was a heterosexual male who simply experimented with you, but it seems like your friend was bisexual and he is not exactly inexperienced. Pickwick, the men you attract may be gay or bisexual, but they are definitely not straight, if they possess attractions to the same sex.

I'm always scared when I meet a narrow minded person. Of course a lot of guys I met were bi and I was just their first experience as I said many came to me because I was the only gay guy they knew and that they wanted to experience gay sex. But what is so difficult to understand when a human being is attracted to another human being no matter of his sex ?! Those who were attracted to me just couldn't make sex with another guy if that make them gay or bi it's really sad for them as there are plenty of coks out there and they just can fuck any of them.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

I'm always scared when I meet a narrow minded person. Of course a lot of guys I met were bi and I was just their first experience as I said many came to me because I was the only gay guy they knew and that they wanted to experience gay sex. But what is so difficult to understand when a human being is attracted to another human being no matter of his sex ?! Those who were attracted to me just couldn't make sex with another guy if that make them gay or bi it's really sad for them as there are plenty of coks out there and they just can fuck any of them.

Am I narrow minded or do I understand sexuality better than you? Regardless of whether or not these men are bisexual or pansexual, they are not heterosexual. You've admitted that these men are attracted to you from their own mouths. That is not a heterosexual or in lay terms, straight, male. The title of this thread is "Anybody here gave their STRAIGHT friend a blowjob?" Ultimately, their attractions are not limited to females.

 

[checkinthingsout]

Am I narrow minded or do I understand sexuality better than you? Regardless of whether or not these men are bisexual or pansexual, they are not heterosexual. You've admitted that these men are attracted to you from their own mouths. That is not a heterosexual or in lay terms, straight, male. The title of this thread is "Anybody here gave their STRAIGHT friend a blowjob?" Ultimately, their attractions are not limited to females.

I agree kind of...I know we are both attractive, but I think he is more really into the actual penis more than the guy it is attached too...I am clearly no sexuality expert, but I dont know if I would consider it quite the same as being into guys in the same way he is into girls.
That said, I still don't think he is totally straight, I just had no idea or hunch that he liked guys at all until that night. I guess I just didnt know where to post and it seemed to apply since he was a friend, and I gave him my first blowjob, and up until that point, to me he was straight.

 

[Pickwick]

Am I narrow minded or do I understand sexuality better than you? Regardless of whether or not these men are bisexual or pansexual, they are not heterosexual. You've admitted that these men are attracted to you from their own mouths. That is not a heterosexual or in lay terms, straight, male. The title of this thread is "Anybody here gave their STRAIGHT friend a blowjob?" Ultimately, their attractions are not limited to females.

Ok you can think what you want but you have to explain if those men were bisexual, why didn't they had experimented that before meeting me and more, why they just wouldn't with any other guy after. It doesn't sound very bisexual to me as I 'm not the only gay or bisexual guy on earth they could have make sex with. Plus they were mostly top and couldn't suck me, they were just into me sucking them ( "because I suck better than a girl" ) and nada mas. That doesn't make them more bisexual either knowing that sex is just wider than blow job and butt fuck. Ok I can admit that some of the guys I had sex with were already attracted to men in general and just experimented it with me first 'cause they hadn't have met any gay guy before but those one still do men when they have the opportunity to do so. For example: before I left France there was this guy who always wanted to meet me once or twice every three or four month (lasted for tow years) "just to feel my mouth" he never had sex with men before me and one month before I left I told him that I was about to leave and that we could not meet again so if he really wanted to continue there were a lot of places to meet guys I even gave him addresses of gay bars in Paris so he just could hook up with any other man. He told me himself that he was not interested and that if I was leaving he will just stop as he is not attracted to men only to me. It's been nine month now that I live in another country and he still send me messages to tell me how much he misses that job I've done to him but he never went to those places I told him about, plus he has a girlfriend now and tells me that it's great with her except the fact that she doesn't suck better than me, does that make him bisexual ? I don't think so, but it simply a vision of sexuality.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

I agree kind of...I know we are both attractive, but I think he is more really into the actual penis more than the guy it is attached too...I am clearly no sexuality expert, but I dont know if I would consider it quite the same as being into guys in the same way he is into girls.
That said, I still don't think he is totally straight, I just had no idea or hunch that he liked guys at all until that night. I guess I just didnt know where to post and it seemed to apply since he was a friend, and I gave him my first blowjob, and up until that point, to me he was straight.

I completely understand. It just seemed like he had admitted to you that he had experience with men prior to you. For someone to bisexual, the person does not have to experience attraction the same way to both sexes. Anyway, it's no big deal, at least not for me.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

Ok you can think what you want but you have to explain if those men were bisexual, why didn't they had experimented that before meeting me and more, why they just wouldn't with any other guy after. It doesn't sound very bisexual to me as I 'm not the only gay or bisexual guy on earth they could have make sex with. Plus they were mostly top and couldn't suck me, they were just into me sucking them ( "because I suck better than a girl" ) and nada mas. That doesn't make them more bisexual either knowing that sex is just wider than blow job and butt fuck. Ok I can admit that some of the guys I had sex with were already attracted to men in general and just experimented it with me first 'cause they hadn't have met any gay guy before but those one still do men when they have the opportunity to do so. For example: before I left France there was this guy who always wanted to meet me once or twice every three or four month (lasted for tow years) "just to feel my mouth" he never had sex with men before me and one month before I left I told him that I was about to leave and that we could not meet again so if he really wanted to continue there were a lot of places to meet guys I even gave him addresses of gay bars in Paris so he just could hook up with any other man. He told me himself that he was not interested and that if I was leaving he will just stop as he is not attracted to men only to me. It's been nine month now that I live in another country and he still send me messages to tell me how much he misses that job I've done to him but he never went to those places I told him about, plus he has a girlfriend now and tells me that it's great with her except the fact that she doesn't suck better than me, does that make him bisexual ? I don't think so, but it simply a vision of sexuality.

There's no strict definition of bisexual. There is no limitation on whether or not the person is the top, the bottom, performs oral, anal, etc. The person simply needs to exhibit an attraction to both, which some of these men have admitted. As far as the other men are concerned, for all you know, you may have been their first/last, but you don't know that for sure. Furthermore, you don't know what their bodies have experienced before or after you. Some of them may have had other attractions, but they may not have realized them or acted on them.

 

[Pickwick]

There's no strict definition of bisexual. There is no limitation on whether or not the person is the top, the bottom, performs oral, anal, etc. The person simply needs to exhibit an attraction to both, which some of these men have admitted. As far as the other men are concerned, for all you know, you may have been their first/last, but you don't know that for sure. Furthermore, you don't know what their bodies have experienced before or after you. Some of them may have had other attractions, but they may not have realized them or acted on them.

Yeah right... I prefer visions like this one where people have the benefit of the doubt...

 

[AngelFromAbove]

Yeah right... I prefer visions like this one where people have the benefit of the doubt...

Maybe I'm misunderstanding, but it seems like you're protective of maintaining this image that these men are straight. If that's what helps you, that's fine. However, it does not change the fact that they've admitted they're attracted to at least one person of the same sex, you, and that's all that is necessary for them to be considered bisexual, an attraction. As I said before, there is no percentage, there is no sexual position, or sexual activity that excludes them to being bisexual. Beyond that, I was just stating the possibility that they could be telling the truth or they could be lying. I did not say, definitively, that they were.

 

[Pickwick]

Maybe I'm misunderstanding, but it seems like you're protective of maintaining this image that these men are straight. If that's what helps you, that's fine. However, it does not change the fact that they've admitted they're attracted to at least one person of the same sex, you, and that's all that is necessary for them to be considered bisexual, an attraction. As I said before, there is no percentage, there is no sexual position, or sexual activity that excludes them to being bisexual. Beyond that, I was just stating the possibility that they could be telling the truth or they could be lying. I did not say, definitively, that they were.

I did understand what you meant> I'm not trying to help me it's just that labels are not that easy to give for me. And I do think that a man having any kind of sexual relation with another could be considered bisexual, but still they claim they are straight (as every criminal in the death row is innocent). So I give them the benefit of the doubt.

 

[AngelFromAbove]

I did understand what you meant> I'm not trying to help me it's just that labels are not that easy to give for me. And I do think that a man having any kind of sexual relation with another could be considered bisexual, but still they claim they are straight (as every criminal in the death row is innocent). So I give them the benefit of the doubt.

Labels are not that easy for you to give, but you do not mind giving them the straight label? I'm not just referring to the behavior, which is a sexual relation to another man, I'm referring to attraction. As I said earlier, some of these men admitted that they were attracted to you, which means there was a physiological response in their bodies to you. There is a chemical reaction that occurred. Therefore, they have realized their potential to be attracted to both sexes, male and female.

 

[Pickwick]

I don't give them the straight label, as I said I let them the benefit of the doubt. Well I don't mind actually. For the attraction I kind of agree.

 

[drinksinme]

I'm straight and I'd let a guy go down on me Just need to find someone to take advantage of that lol