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ANyone afraid tehy will be alone for eve?

Evsann said:
I just came to conclusion that no relationship will ever fulfill my idea of a relationship and in the end will collapse under the weight of my own misery.

I have lived in my head for some time now. I have just come to expect that I will continue to live on that way.
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I'm in a similar condition. But if I have to live in my head, with no relationship, I don't think I'll keep on wanting to live at all very long.
 
Been there for a long time. I have too many people here who need me. That is the only reason that I am still here.

I have been in successful relationships before. I know how to be exactly who they want me to be. I even gain peace from those relationships. It is just that the yearning gets the better of me.
 
I haven't been out long enough to even have friends again; I have no clue what a relationship would be like. But night alone in bed is hell enough that I don't want to face it for very long.
 
Yeah, can't say that I am out. Can't even say that I am gay. Things are just a bit complicated at the moment. But I am blessed to say that though my friends and family would be a bit put off and would question if I was really gay or just being irrational, I would not lose any of them over it.

I will tell you this. Don't obsess over not being in a relationship. It tends to warp your idea of what one is.
 
I don't obsess... but especially in this dark, depressing time of year, many times when I see a cute guy my chest gets tight and I actually get pains, from loneliness.
I'll take "relationship" broadly -- but I'd prefer at least one with someone who will share my bed once or twice a week at least, just to be there.

As for warping my idea... that got done easily enough by hearing of all the pain of having a bf that people throw about. Actually, I have no idea what a serious relationship would be like.
 
Antares, you hunk, I love reading your threads, sorry for the late arrival!

You won't be alone forever, but think about all the drama you're avoiding not having a fledgling relationship over the holidays. December 26th is "Boxing Day" at the Meat Market too! Don't despair, love's out there, and he's damn sexy too!
 
Like others who have responded previously, I think that is a universal feeling we've all experienced. However i truly believe that every person you meet in your life no matter how small, you were meant to meet. And that includes the guy that you will one day change your life around. Just wait someday you'll be on here talking about the love of your life....
 
The alone thing rears it's ugly head sometimes for me. And I'm even closer to being old at 28, but I have found that the bouts of loneliness tend to get fewer and far between. It's almost like I've gotten used to it.
 
I can't imagine getting used to it! It's been not quite the worst in my life, since I came out, but it's more constant. And now that I can't even afford to hit the bars, it's incredible.
 
I may have used the wrong term, I don't think you ever get used to it. Maybe it's more like you get resigned to it. I've spent so many nights beating myself up over it that it has gotten tired, so I just channel those energies into other things.
 
I'm spending New Years with my boyfriend. He's coming to town on the 28th for 10 days. :D
 
Don't fret you guys,
I was feeling the same way this new year's eve, but my friends called me up and I said yes.
They are all straight, so that was not an issue or a concern.

All in all I enjoyed it. So don't worry you will get what you are destined for. So face the new year with a brave face.
Have a happy new year guys.
 
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