Anyone else find most straight guys annoying/repulsive?

[erobert]

This is a slightly heterophobic post.

The ones who are afraid that every gay guy wants them are usually the ones who are complete jackasses or insecure with their own sexuality. I agree with you though that some of them are just dumbasses who try to flaunt their ego and how tough and macho they are. It's annoying but thankfully not all straight guys are like that.

Quoted for truth.

Not all straight men are exactly the same, heck not all men are straight for that matter. Gay guys can be douchebags, fratboys, etc... Gay men display their fair share of annoying straight behavior too. In these days the lines between what is straight and what is gay are becoming blurred. I'm not going to get into what what makes something gay or straight but times are changing indeed.

Be careful when you you think, "Stupid straight guys! They're all like that!" You may just loose a good potential mate.

If we want to be better understood by straights than we need to be less judgmental and more understanding. Same goes for many straight understanding gays/bi's.

BTW, I don't mind talking about sports or watching sports. Although it is hard to focus on the game when all the hotties are running around the field.

 

[Frosty]

This is the most heterophobic post I think I've seen in awhile.

Agreed. If the OP were a straight guy, she'd be homophobic.

 

[Sgt Pepper]

Heterophobic is the new "reverse racism."

 

[maxpowr9]

Most straight guys are boring. At least I can go hang out with a few female friends and talk about penises for hours on end.

 

[G-Lexington]

Geez, all these threads about "straight guys are gross" and "gay guys are mean". Where do you folks live where people all act identical? Yeah, I've met some gross straights and some mean gays. I've also met some gross gays and some mean straights. Am I the only one who doesn't try to force patterns onto the people he meets? If you're mean or annoying, I don't want to be your friend, and within a couple days, I'll probably have forgotten if you were gay or straight.

Lex

 

[Reality101]

I'd like to just give thanks to a thread that is not holding straight men on a pedestal and asking advice on how to seduce them *heavy sigh* However, this thread reeks of generalizations and heterophobia. A better thread title would be, "Anyone else NOT infatuated with being with straight guys?" Damn. So close.

 

[aijalon18]

I'd like to just give thanks to a thread that is not holding straight men on a pedestal and asking advice on how to seduce them *heavy sigh* However, this thread reeks of generalizations and heterophobia. A better thread title would be, "Anyone else NOT infatuated with being with straight guys?" Damn. So close.

You're right I should have given it that title. And I admit I was a bit harsh with some of my word choices. But I started this thread a while back when I was so frustrated b/c every thread, as you mentioned was, "I'm in love with my straight best friend" or "How can I get this straight guy to have sex with me?".

 

[Nomenclature]

To be perfectly honest: I find most human beings to be annoying and repulsive. It has little or nothing to do with race, gender, orientation, religious beliefs etc. There are fucking bastards from every group of people you can imagine, but there are always exceptions to these kinds of people.


Keep your mind open, and don't let your bitterness or hostility corrupt someone who isn't a jerk yet.

 

[Reality101]

You're right I should have given it that title. And I admit I was a bit harsh with some of my word choices. But I started this thread a while back when I was so frustrated b/c every thread, as you mentioned was, "I'm in love with my straight best friend" or "How can I get this straight guy to have sex with me?".

I can understand that. It IS frustrating that so many threads are about straight guys. I rarely venture over to the Straight/Bi section because of all the straight adoration/infatuation. I can understand falling for a straight friend given that straight men out number gay men, but I don't understand degrading yourself to be with them or finding them so much more attractive than gay men BECAUSE they are straight It's all over this forum too. I can't help but wonder if it's a form of internal homophobia.

 

[Nomenclature]

I always have a good laugh at the straight guys who think that every gay man in the world wants to jump their bone

hahaha I've spoken to a few straight guys who were like that. Things were awkward when we'd talk at first, until I basically just said "Get over yourself", and told them that I have no interest in fucking them, because I would only have sex with a gay man who was also interested in having sex with me. This must have made logical sense to them, because they actually relaxed around me after that.

I lived with a straight guy for 7 years (3 years together through college, and then another 4 years after graduation) and he's a great guy... or at least he was till he got married and his wife put his balls in a vice grip. lol.

WOO-TSH!!

historically, I've gotten along better with straight guys than gays even though I'm a pretty long way away from the "macho" stereotype.

Once straight guys stopped viewing me as a threat, we actually became pretty close friends for awhile.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>I always have a good laugh at the straight guys who think that every gay man in the world wants to jump their bone...

And I always have a good laugh at the gay guys who think that every straight man in the world is living in the closet. It kinda works both ways.

Lex

 

[aijalon18]

I always have a good laugh at the straight guys who think that every gay man in the world wants to jump their bone (like, sorry, your wrinkled clothes and dirty shoes and body odor really does nothing for me) but I wouldn't make any generalizations.

I'm not trying to defend straight guys but they sorta have good reason to think all gay guys want them no matter how busted they are. Because there are so many gay guys, as you must know, that will crush on any straight guy. I'm not saying all, but so many gay guys are willing to offer up their services for almost any straight cock. I know gay guys who pay straight guys to let them suck them off while calling them names and belittling them while they do.

Unfortunately it happens so much that it gives straight guys license to approach gay guys like their doing them a favor by allowing them to service their superior straight dick.

 

[Irish Queer]

This is the most heterophobic post I think I've seen in awhile.

There's a term people hide from on these boards.

 

[cyravance]

Repulsive? No. Annoying? Yes.
And I'm a straight woman.

 

[TX-Beau]

I'm not trying to defend straight guys but they sorta have good reason to think all gay guys want them no matter how busted they are. Because there are so many gay guys, as you must know, that will crush on any straight guy. I'm not saying all, but so many gay guys are willing to offer up their services for almost any straight cock. I know gay guys who pay straight guys to let them suck them off while calling them names and belittling them while they do.

Unfortunately it happens so much that it gives straight guys license to approach gay guys like their doing them a favor by allowing them to service their superior straight dick.

Well, that depends somewhat on context. In here, let’s face it; there are a lot of guys in the closet. I’d posit that skews this sample somewhat. When I lived in WEHO, there weren’t a lot of guys sitting around praising the virtues of straight men; in fact, with the guys I knew it was pretty much the opposite.

I suspect that a lot of the straight adoration in here, stems from guys wanting to have a “straight,” gay relationship.

That said, I think that kind of syndrome, with varying degrees of severity, is also fairly common out there in the out gay universe. I also think that the more comfortable you are with yourself, the less this kind of thing matters.


There’s also the category of guys who legitimately fall for their straight friends. Sexual orientation isn’t generally a factor in whom you’re attracted to. For those who’ve been out awhile however, it’s definitely a factor in who you pursue.

I think that the younger you are, the easier it is to make that kind of mistake, and that’s not so much about idolizing straight guys, as it is bemoaning what you can’t have.

 

[texan_slant]

WOW. I love straight guys; I love guys period. All of my bestest friends just happen to be straight!

Sometimes the same can be said 'bout gay guys.

Anyways, it's who you choose to hang out with, finding the right crowd, and being yourself. If the crowd doesn't work for you, then you kind of have to accept them for who they are, or move on.

...wondering if that old adage is true here? ..."birds of a feather flock together."

 

[hottmale4male]

wow, this is such a ridiculous post. One, you are stereotyping all guys. Two, sorry to say, but really feminine guys are definitely more "annoying/repulsive" than chill straight guys. I don't even know how to respond to that statement.

 

[Reality101]

wow, this is such a ridiculous post. One, you are stereotyping all guys. Two, sorry to say, but really feminine guys are definitely more "annoying/repulsive" than chill straight guys. I don't even know how to respond to that statement.

Oh geez. Congratulations on sharing the same tone of the original post. The hypocrisy is delicious. It really is funny how you are criticizing him for his views while also shining light on how yours are similar but directed at feminine guys. So... is what the op said ridiculous because it is hateful? Or is it ridiculous because he's harping on straight guys and not feminine guys? Because DUH it's the effeminate ones that suck balls not the straight chill guys! Get it right... right?

 

[gholumboy]

The one thing I will say is that the number of people who have any real manners or class (note: nothing to do with money) is getting smaller and smaller. But this cuts across race, gender, sexual orientation, etc. The world is simply becoming more crass, rude and banal all the time, in part because we've vilified or marginalized many of the systems and institutions that were a civilizing influence, and taught any degree of restraint.

How very perceptive, thoughtful and accurate. Most of these thread posters seem to forget that as civilised beings we need to react in some sort of harmony with each other. Personally, I find many gay people crass, shallow and pathologically insensitive. For this reason I avoid them until they show that their sole reason for having a conversation with me is not to get up my arse!

After years of living in a closet I took the plunge very gently, bringing a new companion into my social circles of mainly straight people and when asked I simply said we live together. When they saw that I was not interested in the contents of their pants they resumed their old attitude. They do make fun of me but I certainly reciprocate in equal measure which they respect so there is no tension. It may be the times we live in but we all seem to hug each other more and put the odd arm around the waist to emphasise some remark, but they all know that I won't take advantage of my relationship with them anymore than I would expect of them.

Some months ago I flew with my partner to a tropical island for an outdoor wedding. The guests ranged from 10 to 70 and were a great bunch. We were very well received being the only tacitly declared gay couple in the party. The wedding party in the evening was just great with lots of diversions, jokes and recollections. The Best Man however unbeknown to almost everybody gave a group of attractive females in the group a key each before the dinner started and after the usual toasts and thankyou's etc, announced that all of the groom's previous loves were to return his house key! An old act but it always brings a laugh!

One by one the ladies sidled up and returned their key with plenty of chivvying from us all. The groom hugged them all and they both kissed cheeks etc as expected. The champagne had been fairly well flowing which explained why in a moment of abandon, I rose to my feet and reluctantly plodded over to the groom and gave him a key I happened to have in my pocket. The whole party exploded with mirth and cheered when the groom who I often hug grabbed me hugged me and kissed me on the cheek. He is by the way totally straight as a straight guy can be.

This long story I share to illustrate that all people are worth getting to know and it is up to you to sort out who you like and who you don't without putting labels on them or letting your sex drive overule your judgement.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>This long story I share to illustrate that all people are worth getting to know and it is up to you to sort out who you like and who you don't without putting labels on them or letting your sex
drive overule your judgement.

I don't find that your story illustrated your point at all, but then again, I've never been accused of being very perceptive.

Lex