The Original Gay Porn Community - Free Gay Movies and Photos, Gay Porn Site Reviews and Adult Gay Forums

  • Welcome To Just Us Boys - The World's Largest Gay Message Board Community

    In order to comply with recent US Supreme Court rulings regarding adult content, we will be making changes in the future to require that you log into your account to view adult content on the site.
    If you do not have an account, please register.
    REGISTER HERE - 100% FREE / We Will Never Sell Your Info

    PLEASE READ: To register, turn off your VPN (iPhone users- disable iCloud); you can re-enable the VPN after registration. You must maintain an active email address on your account: disposable email addresses cannot be used to register.

  • The Support & Advice forum is a no-flame zone.
    The members offering support and advice do so with the best intention. If you ask for advice, we don't require you to take the advice, but we do ask that you listen and give it consideration.

Anyone else find most straight guys annoying/repulsive?

Straight guys aren't annoying; they're just boring; we share few interests.

Closeted guys are annoying.
 
>>>Straight guys aren't annoying; they're just boring; we share few interests.

I still don't get this. I mean, I've got plenty of straight friends. (Or closeted ones, if you must, but that just moves them from one category to the next.) And we've got plenty in common. Admittedly, I don't talk about hot gay porn with them, and they don't talk about boobies with me, but that's not exactly what I tend to chat about with my gay friends, either. I spent roughly an hour each talking to three of my friends about music recently - two straight, one gay. And I can't say as the conversation with the gay guy was superior, since, y'know, he wasn't straight and all.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
>>>Straight guys aren't annoying; they're just boring; we share few interests.

I still don't get this. I mean, I've got plenty of straight friends. (Or closeted ones, if you must, but that just moves them from one category to the next.) And we've got plenty in common. Admittedly, I don't talk about hot gay porn with them, and they don't talk about boobies with me, but that's not exactly what I tend to chat about with my gay friends, either. I spent roughly an hour each talking to three of my friends about music recently - two straight, one gay. And I can't say as the conversation with the gay guy was superior, since, y'know, he wasn't straight and all.

Lex
Click to expand...
Well I'm generalizing, of course. I don't have time for (and I'm sure I'd bore you to death with) listing exceptions in every post I make. But, generally, I find gay guys a lot more interesting. That doesn't mean that every single straight guy on the planet is boring (to me), just that I generally find gay guys more interesting ( I do, in fact, have some straight friends).

Gay guys just seem more insightful. I'm into languages and a gay friend of mine is into music, and after several hours of chatting one day, we realized how much similarity there is. He was so insightful.

I mean, you see how many artists are gay (and lesbian), and it's obvious (to me) that gay men generally notice things that most straight men don't; they're creative in ways that most straight men aren't.

And I'm not saying straight guys are boring to each other; I'm sure they form great friendships. They're just boring to me. I'm not saying every gay guy has to feel the way I do, either.

I mean, I go into a gay man's house or apartment, and there's always something interesting.
 
The last gay man's apartment I went into had four Lady Gaga posters on the wall. Oh, and one Madonna, but he said he was looking for a fifth Gaga one to replace it. :)

The last straight guy's apartment had four framed LPs on the wall - two of which weren't surprising, and two of which didn't make any sense whatsoever until he explained them to me. And he had a stand-up bass in one corner, which he said "Maybe I'll learn to play that one of these days". I certainly found that one more interesting. :)

But the straight couple before that? Typical suburban. Although the downstairs bathroom was fucking amazing. :)

Interesting people are interesting.

Lex
 
sb said:
A persons sexuality doesn't determine whether or not they dress well.
Click to expand...

Well said. I completely agree with that, because I for one do not dress like the typical "gay guy" hell, I've been told I don't even act gay...Which is weird, because I think it's usually pretty obvious.

But that aside, the OP of the quote has a point. A person's sexuality doesn't determine whether or not they dress well. I for one usually don't. I go with what is comfortable, not always what looks good
 
Lube said:
Well I'm generalizing, of course...

...Gay guys just seem more insightful.

...I mean, you see how many artists are gay (and lesbian), and it's obvious (to me) that gay men generally notice things that most straight men don't;

...they're creative in ways that most straight men aren't.

I mean, I go into a gay man's house or apartment, and there's always something interesting.
Click to expand...

I agree whole-heartedly - you're generalizing.
 
texan_slant said:
I agree whole-heartedly - you're generalizing.
Click to expand...
You say that as if it's a bad thing. I think you're confusing generalizing (a good thing; a required human skill) with prejudice (a bad thing).

I sure hope you are more alert to strangers while walking in a bad neighborhood late at night. That's generalizing, and that's a good thing (tends to keep you alive).

I sure hope you don't shoot any stranger who comes close to you in a bad neighborhood late at night. That's prejudice (prejudging), and that's a bad thing.
 
G-Lexington said:
The last gay man's apartment I went into had four Lady Gaga posters on the wall. Oh, and one Madonna, but he said he was looking for a fifth Gaga one to replace it. :)

The last straight guy's apartment had four framed LPs on the wall - two of which weren't surprising, and two of which didn't make any sense whatsoever until he explained them to me. And he had a stand-up bass in one corner, which he said "Maybe I'll learn to play that one of these days". I certainly found that one more interesting. :)

But the straight couple before that? Typical suburban. Although the downstairs bathroom was fucking amazing. :)

Interesting people are interesting.

Lex
Click to expand...
I can come up with those kinds of exceptions, too.

In my experience, they are the exceptions, not the rule.
 
I'd love to be a fly on the wall when the Facebook analytics group analyzes member data.
 
Gay men aren't more nice or mean then straight men, like being a douchebag asshole is just a human thing. Something nobody likes cause it hurts our feelings.

People put people into boxes, I just think you have to look for somebody on your own level. I'm a very cute guy, not hot- but I'm cute. I'm a bit too fat though, and I have average social skills. I'm not really gonna....wow anybody away when they first meet me (well maybe not) I mean I'm just a normal guy, you know....

I obviously won't be looking for a relationship with a guy who is aperfect 10. I love Matt Cole's videos, I mean he's a porn star and was built for me to find him attractive. But if I saw him in real life, he'd just feel like I was beneath him and I wouldn't blame him. (unless I improved myself enough to be on his level too) If I saw a guy uglier than me, or that wasn't as well-adjusted in other ways, I would think the same thing- yeah it's horrible we do that to people but it's just human nature.

And that's why if you're not this hot really successful self-confident guy, you should probably stop getting your hopes up about somebody who is... like it's just this big hypocrisy thing to me. I feel romantically and spiritually attracted to men who are on the same level as me cause it's like I have a chance at something real, you know. And I think if you're this person with no self confidence and you're attracted to somebody that is, I think what you might have to ask yourself is 'do I want to be with this person, really or do I just find the confidence they exude to be extremely attractive.'

And there's no excuse under the sun why you can't have that too, just cause you're gay. *sigh*
 
well I dress badly.. Tshirt and Jeans everyday... I have TONS of Tshits from bands ive seen, mostly Rock and Metal shows.. I have a poster of Def Leppard hanging on my wall from 1983, I have some promotional items from Ibanez guitars hanging in my mini recording studio, my music collection contains bands like Devil Driver, Dream Evil, Bob Seger, OTEP, Rush, Rage Against the Machine, Dream Theater, Iced Earth, In Flames, Children of Bodom, Coal Chamber, just to name a few. I usually stink too because Im very hands on, work on my own truck, and dirt bikes. Raced Motocross for a few years...

and i dont lust over straight guys because theres no chance in hell that my bf and i will ever have a 3way with them lol
 
>>>I obviously won't be looking for a relationship with a guy who is aperfect 10. I love Matt Cole's videos, I mean he's a porn star and was built for me to find him attractive. But if I saw him in real life, he'd just feel like I was beneath him and I wouldn't blame him. (unless I improved myself enough to be on his level too) If I saw a guy uglier than me, or that wasn't as well-adjusted in other ways, I would think the same thing- yeah it's horrible we do that to people but it's just human nature.

I met my partner online. I was quite interested in him before I even saw what he looked like (exchanging images wasn't as easy in the mid 90s as it is now). I have a feeling I would've liked him no matter what he looked like.

Lex
 
I don't understand the fascination with straight guys either. For some reason it is just highly desirable in a gay man's cock to turn on a straight man. Most gay men seemed to be obsessed with straight men. Some even want to be like them. 'I could pass for a straight guy' is a huuuge accomplishment and claimed with great pride. I may not be sexually turned on by prissy gay men, but hand me the gay men any day please! I just wanted to add I do not find straight guys repulsive! Yes, most of the straight guys I know are kind of filthy...to find them repulsive/annoying would be kind of hypocritical of me.
 
I actually find that I relate and interact with the majority of straight guys quite well. Sexuality aside, we're all just people.
 
Lube said:
... go into a gay man's house or apartment, and there's always something interesting.
Click to expand...

Amen to that. A friend of mine is close with a gay couple (actually, one of them is her ex-fiance). Their condo is the entire top floor of a building. No doubt in my mind that it is the the best damn decorated home I've ever seen. Those guys have IMPECCABLE taste...
 
HotOne09 said:
I don't understand the fascination with straight guys either. For some reason it is just highly desirable in a gay man's cock to turn on a straight man. Most gay men seemed to be obsessed with straight men. Some even want to be like them. 'I could pass for a straight guy' is a huuuge accomplishment and claimed with great pride. I may not be sexually turned on by prissy gay men, but hand me the gay men any day please! I just wanted to add I do not find straight guys repulsive! Yes, most of the straight guys I know are kind of filthy...to find them repulsive/annoying would be kind of hypocritical of me.
Click to expand...

You see it too? I thought I was on my own little island with this observation :eek:
 
>>>I don't understand the fascination with straight guys either. For some reason it is just highly desirable in a gay man's cock to turn on a straight man. Most gay men seemed to be obsessed with straight men.

"What's the point in going to bed with somebody who wants to go to bed with you?" :)

Lex
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top