Anyone else not a fan of anal?

[Howlly]

Is this a common thing? I mean, I'm not a fan of top or bottom. Bottoming I just don't get, I've bottomed a fair few times before and although I can see the pleasure of prostate stimulation, the pain and pressure just doesn't do it for me. Topping is fine, but I can't say I get much pleasure out of that either. I'd much prefer a finger over a cock.

Luckily I've got a boyfriend who's on pretty much the same wavelength as me, but just curious if this is a common thing? There are so many expectations you come across and I guess I feel a little odd...

 

[IowaGuy]

I do prefer oral.

 

[MisterB]

No anal at our house. Lot's of other stuff that we enjoy so much more...it's worked for us for 37 years now.

 

[Stardreamer]

I had read a couple of studies that found that most (60 - 70%?) of committed gay couples do not practice anal sex. So you are probably more common than you think. You just can't really tell from most gay chat.

 

[LeopoldBloom]

I love it, but only very, very gently, whether topping or bottoming. And with lots of lube.

 

[Orlandude]

Anal sex has never been a prerequisite for being gay. As many claim to be into it, that's how many more are not into it.

 

[Seasoned]

Thirty-two years for us and mostly oral. Porn would have us all believing that anal is mandatory.

 

[CharlieMars]

I've never enjoyed anal sex, I even hate looking at pictures of arseholes, they turn my stomach.

 

[truszgold]

Been in a relationship 25 years did it NAYVE 10 times. 40% of gay couples abstaiin. But you better get with it on oral.