Anyone have a "Sugar Daddy"?

[sansui225]

Firstly, Hi Everyone! I'm Ryan.

I registered specifically to ask this question.

I'm 23, just graduated college, and just got knocked off my Dad's health insurance, plus I just got laid off . Not my fault. My Boss loved me but the company was struggling.

I desperately need money. Has anyone ever had a sugar daddy? Whats that all about? I imagine the guy would be much older than me. Would he want sex or just company?
How do I find one? If I were to ask for one on craigslist, how would I structure my request? I don't want to get arrested!

Any help is well appreciated. Thank you so much!

Ryan

 

[Haberdashery]

Hi Ryan

If that's u in the picture you look able bodied. Why don't u get another job instead of blood sucking some lil old guy and gettin his frail lil heart in a flutter.

 

[rareboy]

So you want to be a whore.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

So you want to be a whore.

Hey! Don't knock it until you've tried it.

 

[voyager1994]

you may want to re-think this...surely there must be other alternatives given that you have completed college education

 

[thewiz]

I have a friend who is 22 and he has been "interviewing" on "Houseboy.com"

I know that he has been flown to Chicago and to San Jose for these inteviews which usually expect sex for some pretty nice living conditions. He's a little nervous about moving that far, however.

There probably is a site for sugar daddies as well; not sure.

 

[sansui225]

thanks for all comments guys.

I could get another job, but I'll really busy studying for the gre and bio gre. I'm a botanist. I do what I love, which doesn't pay much.

maybe if I just bottom I can deal with the sex lol. I better not expect me to want to be turned on!

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

So you want to be a whore.

No, he doesn't wanna be hungry. Believe it or not not everybody wakes up in beds full of money. And sometimes the "find a job" command can be insulting, as if anyone who's unemployed hasn't tried or exhausted other options (which I recommend by the way, author).

Life isn't a cartoon where the options are always wrapped in pretty packages with bows.

And heartstrings aren't always tugged in these situations, I know some sugar-daddy couples that have a healthy understanding of their relationship. It is a bit unsurprising that a group who spends so much time being judged for their unorthodox relationships would turn around and... judge unorthodox relationships.

 

[cocktales]

Ryan,

NOT gonna judge you...........there I said it! lol

I think you just wanna be kept by someone and maybe, just maybe that intrigues the hellaouttayatoo????

Hmmmmmmm?

"IF" someone goes into a relationship with both eyes open (and I do mean YOU and HE); then by golly; there's nothin wrong with that kinda relationship!

I totally commend you for being up-front; and hope you will also be that way with the "Sugar-Dad" as well so that he knows what to expect.....

However, as a kept person, you MUST be expected to do things that he wants and demands for said "keptness", right? lol

Are you gay? Do you like older men? Does bottoming with someone bother you?

Hey, I know a lot of HOT-HOT-HOT men who are older and would be proud to put their brand of approval on someone of your calibre.......

Good luck; but remember to be truthful throughout this relationship; else you're just a gigilow (sp) and some of the other unsavory words too!

 

[Haberdashery]

relax cocktales ^^ he's not into older men so don't go getting all hot under the collar.
He's just wanting the $$$

But I agree with you that if the daddy knows the deal then theyre both adults but if he's thinkin of being a cocktease lying little **** and stringing him along and milkin him then that's a cunts act.

 

[TickTockMan]

It is a bit unsurprising that a group who spends so much time being judged for their unorthodox relationships would turn around and... judge unorthodox relationships.

It seems to be what “our community” does best.

 

[Jayden]

Hmmm Intresting question.

 

[rareboy]

maybe if I just bottom I can deal with the sex lol. I better not expect me to want to be turned on!

No, he doesn't wanna be hungry. Believe it or not not everybody wakes up in beds full of money.

I didn't pass judgment.

He wants to be a whore. Being a whore isn't an unconventional relationship. Women and men all over the world have done it forever.

So OP, go get it. You're the one who has to look in the mirror and face yourself. Not me. And maybe this repulsive old fat guy that you are leeching off in order to be be lazy will give you a bed of money.

And by the way. My niece completed her degree in psychology at the top of her class while holding a job and volunteering and playing varsity. As far as I know, she never whored herself out to get through school.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Firstly, Hi Everyone! I'm Ryan.

I registered specifically to ask this question.

I'm 23, just graduated college, and just got knocked off my Dad's health insurance, plus I just got laid off . Not my fault. My Boss loved me but the company was struggling.

I desperately need money. Has anyone ever had a sugar daddy? Whats that all about? I imagine the guy would be much older than me. Would he want sex or just company?
How do I find one? If I were to ask for one on craigslist, how would I structure my request? I don't want to get arrested!

Any help is well appreciated. Thank you so much!

Ryan

If you're going down that route, I recommend you try escorting or porn first. That way you can make money while trying it out without being be stuck to a certain person.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

I have a generous friend who sometimes offers to pay my rent and buy plane tickets for me.

Does that count as a Sugar Daddy?

No gift is ever for free.

 

[undisclosed1234]

No- I think self-respect as an adult also comes with being able to take care of yourself.

...And yeah; it's being a whore on retainer; not a relationship.

 

[G-Lexington]

Welcome to JUB!

Sure, you can advertise on Craigslist (or elsewhere), but you'd best be prepared to lay out the terms. Because what you're looking for is a business deal. I offer X in exchange for Y. You're looking for money and/or free room & board. And you're offering...well, what, exactly? If you're not willing to put out, you'd best state that up front, because I doubt you'll be able to string a guy out very long if he answered your ad. Companionship? That's easy to say, not so easy to do. We tend to hang out with those we feel compatible with. If someone is willing to pay you to just hang out with him, he's presumably someone who can't find people to do that for free. Which means he's boring, abrasive, argumentative, passive-aggressive, manipulative, clingy, needy, unpleasant, smells bad, or some combination of the above. And you won't be able to spend ten uncomfortable minutes with him followed by "OK, I'm leaving - can I have $500?" That just ain't gonna happen.

Lex

 

[chillyboi]

I did for years til i broke free of him

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

So OP, go get it. You're the one who has to look in the mirror and face yourself. Not me. And maybe this repulsive old fat guy that you are leeching off in order to be be lazy will give you a bed of money.

Nope. Not judgmental at all.

And by the way. My niece completed her degree in psychology at the top of her class while holding a job and volunteering and playing varsity. As far as I know, she never whored herself out to get through school.

Oh, I'm sorry your highness, I forgot that your life and experiences are the model we're supposed to stride for. Since the author ISN'T your sister, your references to her are as childish as they are unnecessary. Nevermind, I forgot how good it makes people feel to font as if their shit is made of white and burgundy roses. Just be careful so-as not to fall off that high-horse of yours, I know how much you love riding through the countryside.

Author: The best advice here is from Lex a few posts above, everybody else is just being obnoxious.

 

[saymyname]

I wouldn't let people judge you and call you a whore for doing this. They're just sexually repressed prudes with major hangups - don't worry about them. If you can find an older guy that doesn't seem like a creep and understands who you're looking for, and that maybe you have some things in common with, why not try it out? Baby steps, maybe. I know a lot of sugar daddies here in the city and they aren't the worst people I know by any means. They're just rich older guys that like hot young guys. Straight people do it all the time but as soon as gay guys do it, we're judged.