Anyone have a "Sugar Daddy"?

[fabulouslyghetto]

I wouldn't let people judge you and call you a whore for doing this. They're just sexually repressed prudes with major hangups - don't worry about them.

That's what I don't get, it's only okay to have sex for free? What else is wrong? Casual sex? Sex outside relationships? Is there a chart or something we can refer to?

Maybe this'll all be easier if the holier-than-thous would write a guide book for what we're supposed to do, when we're supposed to do it, how we're supposed to do it and who we're supposed to do it with. Lord knows we don't have enough people as it is judging our every step.

 

[rareboy]

I don't know why anyone has a problem with calling a spade a fucking shovel.

You want to have sex for money?

That's whoring.

If you find a sugar daddy, it is still whoring, particularly if you see him just as a wallet and not as a person. Which the OP has made clear is his intention. Lie back and think of England.

But here's the thing guys.

You'll finish as you started, so you'd better give some thought to what kind of person you want to be.

But as I said, go for it. there are likely a lot of sad and lonely older guys out there who just want a piece of superficial eyecandy around to decorate their place.

 

[undisclosed1234]

I loathe 98% of everything rareboy says but yeah....he's dead on here. You get $ for fucking someone ("giving them companionship"; whatever) you're a whore.

That's what whores do.

It is known as whoring yourself out. It is the definition of their practice.

Whether or not you approve of it; that's what the term means. Saying so doesn't make one a prude; just means they know have vocabulary.

 

[miketlow]

Firstly, Hi Everyone! I'm Ryan.

I registered specifically to ask this question.

I'm 23, just graduated college, and just got knocked off my Dad's health insurance, plus I just got laid off . Not my fault. My Boss loved me but the company was struggling.

I desperately need money. Has anyone ever had a sugar daddy? Whats that all about? I imagine the guy would be much older than me. Would he want sex or just company?
How do I find one? If I were to ask for one on craigslist, how would I structure my request? I don't want to get arrested!

Any help is well appreciated. Thank you so much!

Ryan

Welcome to the board Ryan!!

 

[thewiz]

Decide on where you'd like to settle and begin looking at the classifieds and other personal ads. I know in DC a couple years ago a very wealthy gentleman was advertising for "companionship." I knew the guy and he asked if I might be interested (I was not...although being pampered and never working again seemed a nice idea!)

There are many older gentlemen that are not expecting sex but have lost a wife or partner and just want companionship (plus a handsome young guy is enough to get the juices flowing again!)

You could also try "rentboy" or some of those sites to see if this is something you want to go through with. A guy I dated paid for his master's degree by "escorting" as well as porn. While we were dating (casually -- not exclusive) he would suddenly have to "go to work" in Florida and other locations. When we were thinking of getting serious, he told me everything which I was not comfortable with. I had no problem with how he made it; I just always worried whether what he did for me was "real" or "fantasy."

Whatever you do, be careful; make sure you are tested, he is tested, precautions are taken, etc. Also make sure the "sugar daddy" doesn't have a dark side such as violent behavior or spousal abuse.

If you go on any interview, make sure you tell others where and who; not to scare you but you never can be too careful!

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

I loathe 98% of everything rareboy says but yeah....he's dead on here. You get $ for fucking someone ("giving them companionship"; whatever) you're a whore.

I thought whoring involved multiple partners or "exchanges." He's looking for one person. You're stretching the defintion but, whatever.

It was silly of me to think a topic like this could be made without the Moral Police charging in and filling it with their bottom-of-the-barrel horse shit.

Thanks to Lex for taking a more helpful approach, there's at least one guy who doesn't need to constantly remind everyone how much better he is than them. Since not everyone is perfect, the M.P. really discourage people from asking for help because, well, look at their work.

 

[alley]

In that kind of a relationship I would feel a bit owned. I have made my own way all of my life--my parents were never there to help me out...so, someone else taking care of the bills...would feel strange.

Hell, I still pick up the dinner tab when I go out on dates with guys who make a hell of a lot more money than I do. Which I prefer to do.

 

[undisclosed1234]

I thought whoring involved multiple partners or "exchanges." He's looking for one person. You're stretching the defintion but, whatever.

No, I'm just using it right. Try it; it's fun.

It was silly of me to think a topic like this could be made without the Moral Police charging in and filling it with their bottom-of-the-barrel horse shit.

It's silly of you (silly being the g-rated substitute here) to assume that anyone who disagrees with you is peddling shit. Are we saying that you're an empty shell without love and happiness for being a-OK with it? No. Grow up.

He asked for opinions he got them.

 

[Croynan]

Nope. Not judgmental at all.



Oh, I'm sorry your highness, I forgot that your life and experiences are the model we're supposed to stride for. Since the author ISN'T your sister, your references to her are as childish as they are unnecessary. Nevermind, I forgot how good it makes people feel to font as if their shit is made of white and burgundy roses. Just be careful so-as not to fall off that high-horse of yours, I know how much you love riding through the countryside.

Author: The best advice here is from Lex a few posts above, everybody else is just being obnoxious.[/QUOTE]

yes, you are. well spoken.

eM.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Ugh! What are all these mongrels doing on my quote button?

Anywho, as part 2 of the vocabulary failure, I believe the author asked for help, not opinions. I haven't bothered linking him to any job sites because I gave him the benefit of the doubt that he's already exhausted other options.

Okay, you guys may now resume your self-righteous tirade, because NOTHING is more important than your invaluable opinions.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

I don't understand why Mz.Walker got in a tizzy.R.B was just saying as it is.If you suck dick for the rent,that makes you a whore.

It went beyond that. The superciliious bullshit about his sister having a PhD in who-gives-a-fuck was just his own ego-stroking. "Look at how great me and my family are, why can't you be as great as us? You MUST be stupid or lazy since you're not as great as us."

You can call it whatever you want,but a ''burgandy rose'' by any other name smells the same..

Don't stick donkey shit on a platter and tell me it's Swiss chocolate.

 

[rareboy]

Actually, I don't recall anyone just suggesting that the OP should simply peddle his ass on Silver Daddies.

One of our acquaintances has bought all of his boy toys there.

And Karen.

Settle. You appear about to explode in self-righteous rage. This arch fake TV character persona that you are having to cultivate, apparently in the absence of having a personality of your own, is going to tire you out girl.

At least Mikami and a few others who can read without seeing everything through their faux martini glass understood the point of me mentioning my niece. I believe that any student has the ability to study, work and play without exhausting themselves through making their new owner happy doing tricks for them.

But if the boy wants to get paid to put his bum up in the air instead of developing emotionally healthy relationships, maybe he should pm Belamy.

Bel knows more about rating whores than anyone else on JUB.

 

[rareboy]

Oh...and by the way. It isn't a 'morality' issue, so climb down off your high horse there, fake cancelled has-been one note television actress avatar.

There's no question of morality being mooted here.

BTW. No one is knocking you for selling your ass for a few bucks to make rent. It sure is easier and one assumes life fulfilling for a lot of guys who don't have the skills to do something else.

 

[Lukeee]

But if the boy wants to get paid to put his bum up in the air instead of developing emotionally healthy relationships, maybe he should pm Belamy.

Bel knows more about rating whores than anyone else on JUB.

what happened to belamy? he hasn't posted in a while... i miss him

 

[Curiosities]

Oh Boy Oh Boy
If that's you in the picture, you ought to just work as a stripper than suck some old man's cock.

 

[Leathermike69]

I take it from some of the bitchy comments on here that the idea of being an escort/houseboy - or let's be blunt - a whore - seems to carry a stigma with a lot of you guys. Frankly, I don't see anything wrong with it; that's the way capitalism works - a service is provided, and if there's a market for it, money changes hands. I think the only reason it's illegal is that the government agencies whose job it is to milk whatever blood they can from every stone havent' been able to figure out an efficient way to regulate it and extract their cut from it.

I've done some escorting, and although it's not a reliable way to earn a living, it's fun, and if you've got something somebody is willing to pay for, why not? I advise you to do it, buddy; there are plenty of escort sites out there on which you can advertise for free, but I will tell you also that it's not like hooking up on a social site; if you're serious about making some money, you'll have to take what you get; you don't get much of an opportunity to weed out the clients you aren't attracted to; in fact, you usually don't get much info ahead of time at all except for being told what they want and are willing to pay for. This kind of work takes some dedication, and the pros that I know personally work very hard at it.

If you want to talk privately, send me an email and we'll talk. Leathermike69@hotmail.com

 

[Shepherd 2]

23 years ago when I was 46, and my partner of all these years was just 39, I became his sugar daddy. All these years later, it has been a good arrangement. We have been in love from the start. I am also a realist, and I rather expect I am the exception, for neither of us needs the other for money or insurance.
The payoff all these years is being therre for each other no matter what. Oh, it has been beautiful sex as well.

Shep+

 

[rareboy]

what happened to belamy? he hasn't posted in a while... i miss him

I think he posted something in the last week or so....

 

[Adrock-JD]

I have one by proxy.

It's complicated.

He's a friend's sugar daddy and I reap some of the financial benefits from time to time.