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Anyone successfully quit smoking cold turkey?

Both my parents did. Just gave it up. I asked "Was it hard?" to which they both said "Yes. But worth it." The only advice my mother had (and seconded by a friend) is to have something to do with your hands. She said she found herself fidgeting a lot. So take up origami, or carry a yo-yo with you, or start texting the world.

Lex
 
I've quit a few times over the last 6 years (I started 6 years ago because of stress). For me it was always easy, and when I'd get an urge because of habit it would be as if I'd never smoked a single cigarrette in my life (i.e. coughing, nasea, dizziness, general malaise). But sooner or later I'd get so stressed out that I'd chain smoke 3 in 10 minutes and the euphoria would be heavenly. I quit about a month ago and I'm in a pretty stressful period right now, but I'm handling it a lot better and I have no cravings.

I've heard from a few friends that one big thing is to avoid the behaviors/habits that are somehow associated with smoking whether they be direct or indirect. Like if you always have a smoke after a few beers/drinks at a club/bar, or if you have a specific time of day that you usually smoke.

Also, I've heard that it's good to keep your mouth occupied like chewing gum or frequently sipping on a bottle of water or other beverage.

Same with the hands, like figit with your keys or one of those little squishy stress balls.
 
i did quit cold turkey based on a book i read [the easy way to quit smoking by allen carr, amazon has it.]. the book tell you to smoke while your reading the book [2weeks for me, i read it real slow cause i was afraid to quit]. i picked the day that i ran out of cig's knowing it would be easier if i couldn't get my hands on one. i didn't have any real bad reactions, the book walks you thru what to expect. after about 3 days i quit thinking alot about smoking, i took NO drugs or patches. its been about 18 months now, i smoked for about 28 years. i did start drinking alot of iced tea and i put toothpicks in my mouth for about a week. the book tells you the desire to lite a cig last 15 to 30 secounds, then your mind goes somewhere else, once you know this you can handle each time you want to lite up. good luck ps, it good if you can stay away from smokers for a few weeks.
 
Anyways, I just smoked the last cigarette in my pack, and I'm not going to buy anymore. Ever.

I've smoked for years, and the only way I can quit is cold turkey.

I love smoking. I miss it. But 2-3 years ago I stopped cold turkey. I'm still tempted every day to go back to it -- I know one pack of Marlboro's would get me hooked again. But so far I've resisted.....
 
My mum was hypnotised 20+ years ago to quit and she did the very same day. She says she still likes the smell of other people when they are smoking but knows she won't ever go back.
 
I guess this is a kind of boast? ;)

I gave up my last cigarette on a Saturday evening at the end of a party, while we were saying good-bye to friends on the footpath. On the Sunday I stayed home and did the housework and chose not to leave the house. I knew if I did I'd crumble.

On the Monday morning, it's as if I'd never smoked. I hated the smell, the taste, everything about it and have never smoked since. I'd been smoking for 20 years and it was 22 years ago that I gave up.

And this was back in the days when it was a habit to light up a cigarette when you answered the phone so I reckon this was a big call! :gogirl:(*8*)
 
Anyways, I just smoked the last cigarette in my pack, and I'm not going to buy anymore. Ever.

I'll congratulate you in a year (if I remember). Seriously. I applaud anyone who wants to try to quit. It's a lot easier to say it than it is to do it.

However -

Some back history; I've only smoked for 2 years and I'm a 3-5 a day type person.

Honestly, if you only smoke five cigs a day and you've only been doing it for 2 years, it should be a lot easier to quit than it is for someone who smokes a lot for a long time. You almost don't smoke already. Compared to what I did. I smoked about 3 packs a day for 20 years and I did quit cold turkey last year. It was really hard. I won't lie to you.

You sound like you might be the kind of person with a lot of self control. I had none of that. I had to have someone basically take away my car keys and money and lock me in a room for two weeks. I knew that was the only way I wouldn't give up and go buy a pack when it got really bad.

After a couple of weeks, the cravings do ease up but they don't completely go away. You still need willpower and will continue to need it whenever you remember that you used to love having a smoke in this situation or that time of day or after you eat.

I had been planning to quit for awhile, but my doctor just diagnosed me with chornic bronchitis, so I decided it's really time for me to quit for good. Right now, no excuses.

That's the mindset you need but you have to really mean it. I can't tell if you really mean it or not because I'm someone else. You know in your mind if you mean it. And this is important because this will determine how successful you are. It's vital that you understand this is going to be hard. Parts of you that you didn't even know were there will try to make excuses. You need to make a place in your mind right now where you know that you're confident that you can quit and you have to get there when you get a bad craving.

A.) How long did your cravings last until they stopped? (this including nicotine withdrawal symptoms like headaches.)

I never had headaches because of it. Just anxiety, hunger cravings, nervousness, extreme irritability. That sort of thing. Like I said, they may not go completely away fast so you have to be prepared for that. That shouldn't be discouraging. Just get yourself ready for the possibility that before it's over with, every cell in your body might be screaming for a cigarette. You might get snappy with friends and loved ones. You might get into arguments for no reason. You might walk around angry and conflicted and nervous and jittery and jumpy for days on end. It's very unpleasant if your addiction is strong.

B.) Any techniques you used to help you out?

None really other than what I said. The most important thing is not to give in no matter what. You can never have "just one more". If you have another one it can only lead to another one. And so on.

Try and remember that cigarettes are not really doing anything for you that you actually need. There was a time when you didn't smoke and you got by fine without them then. The idea that you need them is all in your head and everyone who's ever been a smoker knows how strong it is and how it can seem like you really do need them.

Honestly, over a year later, I still have times when I feel there's a gaping hollow spot somewhere deep in my being and I start to crave a smoke when I realize that's that feeling I used to get when I wanted one.

Understand that you're a nicotine addict and you might be a nicotine addict for the rest of your life even if you quit. It may not ever completely go away. The best I've been able to do is suppress it. I still want to smoke. I don't think about it most of the time but it can be a bit unpleasant when a craving hits out of the blue.

Hopefully, you haven't gotten to that stage of addiction yet. Just remember if you quit, you must be vigilant and not ever go back. I quit a couple of times over the course of 20 years and I went back both times foolishly thinking that I wouldn't get addicted again. The thing is that if you've ever been addicted to it, it will get you faster and harder next time. If you do manage to quit and you give up, it's like letting it win. Your mind will see it as you giving it an order to allow itself to be completely dominated by nicotine and it will be much harder to quit the next time.

C.) Any smokers been diagnosed with chronic bronchitis? How long did it last before you got better?

I have no idea about that. I'm sure my lungs are not in the best of shape. I was having some breathing problems when I quit and I still get winded really easily. If you've only smoked 5 a day for two years, you should be fine in no time unless there's something else causing your bronchitis.

Thanks. I understand that even starting smoking was completely stupid, and I regret it.

Most people who smoke do regret it. Not all of them will say so but most smokers are perpetually planning to quit. The ones who never do will eventually die from it and it won't be pretty.
 
I smoked when I was younger - I bid on hypno-therapy on local PBS auction - it worked, but like a jerk, I had to see if I could break the post-hypnotic suggestion - yup, dumb shit!

Many years later, I went to a psychologist and did it again - after our son was born. Quit till my mid life crisis in '95. Then went, again, in '06 after echo-cardiogram.

If you are of the mindset, and only need a kick in the pants, it can work wonders. I've never had major cravings - occasional heavy inhale as I walk past the group on their cigarette break, but not really.

That's an option as an extra means of help - not the same as the patch - you are off right away - never felt cravings.

Good luck to you.
 
Tupperwhore,
It's Mind over Matter - if you Don't Mind, it Doesn't Matter.
Tomorrow's going to be a Mr. Roger's day for you - a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood - let that be your mantra. It would be a great day to wash your walls and your curtains - get up close to all that crap attached to them, and think how much more is glued to your lungs. Maybe that will help give you the proper incentive to want to quit.
 
"Cold turkey" no way.
The third time was a charm using generic Zyban (Bupropion). I thought about Chantix but didn't like what I was reading about the side effects.......AND it costs more too.
Just passed one and three quarter years now and still get cravings......but not often.
I think about all the MONEY I've saved. It's more tangible than thinking about health....... ;)
 
I think about all the MONEY I've saved.

That's another thing I did for myself when I quit. I set aside the money I would have spent on cigarettes and, when I had enough, I rewarded myself by buying something I couldn't afford to buy before.

The first thing I bought was a digital camera.
 
I don't smoke cold turkey. Cigarettes, on the other hand...

Dammit! Somebody always beats me to the punchline.

I used to smoke, I dunno if you could call the way I quit 'Cold turkey' though. I went in for hypnosis, and after a brief and extremely pleasant nap I woke up a non-smoker and never even had the temptation to pick one up again. No withdrawals, no 'steps', no cravings, no urge to smoke even when others around me were smoking, I was drinking, and we were in situations where I had previously habitually smoked, like in bars and such. So it was cold turkey in the sense that I stopped instantaneously, but I did have help. Also, she made a tape for me and I did play it every day for a week.

That was 6 years ago. A couple days ago someone was blowing smoke in my face and I grabbed his cigarette and tried to take a puff just so I could blow the smoke back in his face, and gagged. People have actually tried to get me to smoke, just to be dicks, but it never works. I couldn't smoke a cigarette if you paid me.

Hypnosis--cheaper than your habit is, painless, relaxing, and gets my highest recommendation.
 
I rewarded myself by buying something I couldn't afford to buy before.

The first thing I bought was a digital camera.

I did that yesterday when I got paid, although I didn't take the whole amount I diverted most of the money I saved.........

WOW......no kidding!
The FIRST thing I did was buy MYSELF a digital SLR camera because I KNEW I could pay for it with less than three months of cigarette money....... ..|
By that time I figured the worst would be over anyway so why not? It was a great incentive to STAY quit.
 
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