Apologies

[Luka]

Im sorry to everyone ive kind of attacked on here verbal of coarse. I have always been the type to be argumentative, and one track minded, and I hate that about me. So recently I have been trying to change the way I act towards other people and also the way I think, its been slow but im starting to see changes in myself as a person.

Anyway, sorry again

-Ricky

 

[Homoerectus]

Unless you have been purposely hardheaded and and obnoxious, don't worry about it. I like someone who doesn't accept the staus quo and challenges others to think. Some claim any challenge to thier point of view is a personal attack and are quick to make that accusation so they don't have to defend their POV. Don't fall for their scam.

 

[Moss]

yeah dont be afraid to offer opinions that aren't often spoken, just look to present them in a more respectful manner and im sure people wont be offended

 

[racer2438]

as long as they are your true feelings, stand up for your beliefs with out belittleing someone for theres.

you are just as normal as the rest.

but if you intended to be cocky and stuborn, arrogant, self centered and putting someone down for what they think and feel then you may want to rethink how you come across.

but if you feel that you personality needs to be adjusted and only you would know. then you can decide what and how it needs fixing. if this is a on going problem then you would know more about it.


but it takes a good person to admit when one is wrong. and if you are doing this now, for what ever reason then that is a good start.

but i was taught if your right your right and if your wrong then say your sorry.

 

[KaraBulut]

There are different sections in JUB. In areas like Hot Topics, you can say whatever is on your mind, no matter how tasteless, rude or offensive it may be.

The No Flame Zones are mostly support areas. When you post there, you always have to ask yourself, "Is what I'm about to post intended to help the original poster or am I just posting an opinion?". This is the area where you sometimes get into trouble, Ricky.

So recently I have been trying to change the way I act towards other people and also the way I think, its been slow but im starting to see changes in myself as a person.

It's good that you're taking a look inward at your behavior and how it affects how other people perceive you. It's a trait that will be invaluable and will serve you well in life.

Thank you for your apology. And best wishes in the changes that you wish to make.

 

[backpacker]

It's good that you recognize that you could be a better listener and consider different viewpoints. With that said, you shouldn't stop expressing your opinions.

 

[youngnihilist]

Keep expressing your opinions though

 

[Lube]

I've noticed the change already. It's good that you're being so introspective. I think you'll be a great contributor to JUB.

 

[Luka]

Thanks for the responses guys

I will keep exressing my opinions for sure, but before my opinions werent my opinions, they were opinions based on other peoples opinions and the way I was brought up, I just didnt realise i was doing it until recently.