Are Bisexuals And Homosexuals Compatible?

[Piquechampion]

I don't think only exclusively gay men are the only guys that have problems with bi guys using them for sex and regarding them as "2nd class citizens"...good enough for a fuck but not worthy of loving. Some of us bi guys would have those other bi guys out the door so fast in a whirlwind that their nuts would be wrapped around their necks.

Well said , but wait, didn´t you said:

Stuck in a monotonous, unfulfilled, & meaningless existence trying to lead as satisfactory a hetero life as possible. Where else? I was there, and that's where I've found all of my male partners thus far. Obviously, that's where I'll probably go if my present relationship ever ends. Kind of sad, isn't it?

So does that means that if your present relationship ever ends, you would return to be one of those same bi guys that you would kick out?

 

[fireside]

...I'm starting to think the whole idea of splitting the forum might not be such a bad idea. It'd be nice to know that there was a place where straight/bisexual guys and women of any sexuality can go to discuss things and be free of the hate and derision constantly brought upon us by some gay men. Seems that every time anyone tries to have a conversation about a legitimate bisexual/straight guy topic, someone comes along and puts the guy in denial, tells him he's in some way worthless for being so, and just wants to hear that gay is the only way. I don't want to ignore people--it's utterly pointless--but it's aggravating, much like beating one's head against a wall, to try to explain a point of view, only to continuously be shot down by mere opinion, not fact.

 

[NastyBlkNWhteCouple]

To br-ma-al-83:

LOL-Hey it's all good.........
But-
I'm quite aware of the fact that labels exist---
But I'm the kinda guy who doesnt define myself by them either--
To me being gay isn't necessarily a label-but just one very small personal attribute-
And last I heard people had more than one personal attribute.
That's just my perspective-which I find to be far less limiting than reducing people-myself or others- to labels.

Just my thoughts.............
Peace.

 

[lyconthrope]

I think labels are the names you are given by other people who don't know you and try to find a simple way to classify you.
gay, bisexual/curious, male,white, stubborn,short......these are not lables, they are descriptions based upon observations or information given.

If people genuinely think they can only love a man and fool around with women, or vise versa, then thats their.....I cant believe I have to say this word again...CHOICE

Why does it matter to anyone other than the individual who they spend their lives, who they fall in love, why the feel this way......hands up all those who can honestly say they know exactly why they could only have an emotional relatonship with a certain gender......anybody.......no?

 

[fireside]

Will supportive gay people be allowed?

Of course! That's why I said 'some', in an effort to not generalize. I know not all gay guys are like that; hell, I wouldn't have some of my friends if that were the case. It's just I can't wrap my mind around the way bisexuals and women are treated by some gay men.

 

[lyconthrope]

I respect your opinion.

I respect yours also

 

[lyconthrope]

i like this thread, people are much civil in here........answering your question in most cases i dont think they are compatible but i feel its better for biss to get with bis and homos should get with homos to prevent anyones feelings getting hurt.

I agree, its nice to be able to voice and opinion without being attacked for it.
nicely done RRRalph

 

[Piquechampion]

Tell you what, the moment RRRalph falls in love with a guy I’ll end my bisexual men embargo.

It won´t happen, he has already told that.



This is the song all his male partners sing to him.

 

[RRRalph]

Re: The Compatibility Of Bisexuals And Homosexuals

Well that´s not what you said in another thread, see for yourself.

That's exactly what i've said in both threads: Guys know that a romantic relationship won't happen.

Why is it that you can not fall in love with a guy? After all we are all human.

I don't know Why can't others fall in love with a girl? We're indeed all human and nobody is the same.

 

[RRRalph]

i like this thread, people are much civil in here.

I agree, its nice to be able to voice and opinion without being attacked for it. Nicely done RRRalph

Aren't i the greatest

 

[lyconthrope]

remember....you are unique.....just like everyone else.

until someone can give a defenitative answer for their own individual preferances (that does not include the words "its just the way I feel") then you can judge others for theirs.

and until that day, or the day hell freezes over, comes then I think its best we all just agree the only thing you need to be is happy

 

[lyconthrope]

Aren't i the greatest

damn 'straight' (hehe)


and damn tasty too!

 

[RRRalph]

It’s commendable that you are honest. A lot of men aren’t. But I still think the gay men that sleep with you have no self-respect. Sorry.

Don't feel sorry for me, i have my fun. Btw don't feel sorry for those guys either. They have an awesome time with me

Tell you what, the moment RRRalph falls in love with a guy I’ll end my bisexual men embargo.

Hahaha. Maybe i haven't came across the right guy yet. I'm open for it tho.

 

[nufanm]

been dating a gay guy for over a year now... sure he does feel weird about my sexuality but all in all i think things are better now... he sort of sees my point... as long as i'm dating him i'm not gonna go cheat on him with a girl... that doesn't mean that if i'm ever single i would only consider men for other relationships. i'm open to both but i'm not a cheater.

 

[Piquechampion]

Hahaha. Maybe i haven't came across the right guy yet. I'm open for it tho.

Be careful RRRalph, or some guy will sing this to you



... and then you´re really screwed

 

[RRRalph]

This song suits me the best



This is the final music clip in the thread Lugus.

 

[Apollux]

This song suits me the best

LOL. RRRalph, shou sould come with a warning tag!!

Tasty looking, witty and with humor sense to spare. I totally see how a poor unsuspecting gay guy could fall for you.

 

[NastyBlkNWhteCouple]

Maybe that's his M.O.
LOL j/k

 

[Kulindahr]

I'm a person.
A person can fall in love.
Whether a person "ought" to fall in love with anyone else... is a foolish question. People fall in love; as one poster said, it happens to us, we don't decide.
So the first premise in this thread has to be that gays can fall in love with bis, and bis with gays, and that's no different than a gay falling in love with a gay, or a straight falling in love with a chick -- it's a person falling in love with a person, and to make any distinction in there other than "person" is bigotry.

I am a guy.
I have a dick; I also have a heart.
My dick is often attracted where my heart isn't, or even can't be. My heart is sometimes attracted where my dick isn't interested at all.
The one attraction we call "lust"; the other we call (not always accurately) "love". There are different requirements for the two. Lust often hungers for anything that will feel pleasant; sometimes lust can only hunger where there is love.
If you believe that it's okay for a guy to satisfy his lust with another guy, then you have to grant that it's just as okay for him to satisfy that lust with a chick -- otherwise you're sexist. Remember it's really a person satisfying his lust with another person; beyond that is irrelevant -- you may as well say black should only date black, short should only date short, or any other secondary phenomenon about a person.

There is an emotion we call "revulsion", or "disgust".
Some guys find pussy disgusting. Most don't.
Most guys find dick disgusting -- some don't.
Some guys don't think dick or pussy are disgusting, but like both.
A guy who finds pussy disgusting may transfer that sense of disgust to a guy who enjoys pussy... and discriminate on that basis. It's no difference than discriminating against people who are fat, or old, or tall, or albino.
Is it okay to discriminate? Sure -- but don't universalize it. Admit, "I find it disgusting to touch a man whose dick enjoys pussy", but don't say, "Guys who enjoy pussy are disgusting." Say, "I can't bring myself to kiss a guy who's eaten a chick out", but don't say, "Guys who eat chicks out are disgusting".

And remember that falling in love doesn't necessarily follow your own lust or disgust. It grabs your heart and takes you.
When it strikes, you may have to unlearn some disgust, to get rid of your revulsion. Maybe you'll discover, too late, that you can't, and your true love, The One, will vanish, gone -- and it will be your fault.

The time to learn tolerance and acceptance is not when love strikes; the time is now. If you think, "I could never fall in love with that kind of person", you may be writing off the most profound relationship ever to come your way. The time to tear down walls is now, before they bring on a disaster beyond your greatest fears
And if that moment never comes, you will have a treasure for your efforts anyway: the world will be a wider place, your heart will be larger.

 

[NastyBlkNWhteCouple]

Right on brotha!