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Are Bisexuals And Homosexuals Compatible?

hehe I hope he didnt mind me completely crashing his thead!


RRRalph is more than welcome to join the fun! although I dont think he specified a flavour;)
 
I'm gay and I've had bisexual boyfriends and it's fine. I actually enjoy dating bisexual men since a lot of times they're not as uptight as many gay men are.

The type of gay men who are uptight usually are perfectionists and really snobby/body conscious and who are perfectionists who want men that they'll never be able to find, or who they'd be gaurenteed to find things wrong with.

In my relationships with people (no matter their orientation) there are things such as trust, communication, not having any secrets, and fidelity.

Plus, anything's possible when it comes to people/relationships.

Gay poet Allen Ginsberg had a relationship with a guy who was more into women for decades.
Gaurenteed it wasn't closed/exclusive but that's what worked best for them.

http://sonic.net/~goblin/gins.html

From above link to an interview:
Allen Ginsberg: Peter Orlovsky is primarily heterosexual and I'm primarily homosexual but we lived together on and off for 35, 40 years. There have been painful moments, but not so much as it has to do with the sex as it has to do with the overwhelming activity I'm involved with.
 
It's clearly time that a wet blanket show up, so to get back to the original question...

In my experiences I've found that homosexuals tend to have a few sticking points about bisexuals, relationship-wise... and I really don't think I help cure that stigma.

As a bisexual I'm more in the "RRRalph" arena in this one, in the fact that I'm generally more attracted to men sexually and women romantically. I AM capable of being attracted to men romantically, and there's certainly a number of girls I'm attracted only sexually to, but I'm really just attracted to the individual... and the individual, as far as "romantically interested" goes, is usually female.

I AM friends with an equal amount of hetero-, bi- and homosexual males, so I don't think there's an issue -- at least for me -- with having friendly relationships with one-another.

But as far as the relationship=seeking homosexual goes... I'm either interested or I'm not... same thing with the ladies. Me, I'm not at that point in my life where I'm looking for a long-term relationship, so I'm probably not the best person to answer this. Although I will say that I've ALWAYS made a point of clarifying that I AM bisexual before I hookup with another guy.

BTW lugus15, I LOVE Bonnie Raitt!

And although I haven't tried the 'miracle whip off of someone's nippels' scene, I'm imaging the Hershey's would taste slightly better... ;-)
 
Re: The Compatibility Of Bisexuals And Homosexuals

RRRalph said:
Not all bisexuals are fluid. When you want to become serious with a bisexual, just ask him about if he's fluid.


I'm someone who only can be romantically attracted to girls and not to guys, weather they are gay are bisexual. I don't know why that is, i just only know that it is as it is. I can't help being like that. I'm always upfront to guys about it. So it's up to the guy what he wants. If he's willingly to have sex, than that is his choice.
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That's an easy way out man and I figure know it.
You are always up front with the guy which is nice to hear..... but you are also holding back in a way.....
As the old saying goes you want to have your cake and eat it too. You're letting youself with an out... yes, you tell the potential buddy you are bi yet you probably have flirted with him to begin with. Maybe made a pass, could ever be that you'd dated some. Yet I figure are doing it with someone you know is totally gay. Sort of playing with the emotions of others isn't it?

I'm not saying that it's wrong for a bi guy to have a fling with a gay guy man.... not at all, just that I hope you don't lead a gay on; lead him to think that you're interested in a LTR. You are obviously not.

Hell, I've never been into a LRT myself.... just used to do the one night stand sort of thing (well sometimes a few nights stand).

I appreciate your honesty in the posts you share RRRalph.
 
Hersheys can over saturate your taste buds, isn't there something like melted snikers? That I wouldn't mind licking all night long (and calories intake doesn't matter either, you are going to burn them on the same night).
 
elvin1 said:
What? Why? :confused:
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I was trying to lighten the mood of another thread and got told off for hijacking:(

Apollux said:
Hersheys can over saturate your taste buds, isn't there something like melted snikers? That I wouldn't mind licking all night long (and calories intake doesn't matter either, you are going to burn them on the same night).
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hehe wouldnt snickers be kinda lumpy? although the caramel aspect should definately be considered :D
 
Just as there are varying degrees of gayness, there are varying degrees of bisexuality.

With both, some are in it for the sex only, some for the romance only.

I would find it unbelievable that all bi men find other men attractive only under the condition that they also happen to like girls.

And then there are "bi" men who are really gay in denial. They use their relationsip with girls to cover up their real desire, or for convenience in straight world occasions.

It's interesting also to see some "bi" men here prefer avoiding labels, yet say they avoid men that are labeled as gay. Seems rather contradictary.
 
elvin1 said:
Eh, that's nothing. You have no idea the messes that I've gotten myself into here. LOL
Chin up! :kiss: (*8*)
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(*8*) :kiss: LOL thanks, lets just hope it all blows over and I dont get myself into even more trouble

(I should probably stay away from this thread now too, just in case)
 
Hell, even bisexuals and lesbians are compatible!!!!

I totally got hit on today by this dyke :p
 
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