Are guys more attracted to effeminate types??

[scains]

Well obviously the minority of the minority was already that way before the media interjected. Therefore, surely they are the way they are?

 

[scains]

^^^ OMG!! You just go for people for their looks?! You don't consider their personality?!

I am of course being sarcastic and/or overly dramatic.

Either way, I'm not being serious

 

[scains]

If you really want to?

 

[scains]

It's up to you, hon.

Well sure, I'm interested to hear what you have to say. In a completey unagressive and diplomatic manner, of course

 

[TX-Beau]

In my experience there are only two types of guys who will only date the super butch. Guys with hangups about being gay; and guys who are total bottoms and won’t admit it. Soooo, hmmm, seems there’s only one type after all.

 

[TX-Beau]

Just because I don't want to stick it in the crazy, controlling and emotionally dependent doesn't mean I have a hangup about being gay or I'm too masculine to admit that I would like to bottom.

Why are you calling all fem guys controlling and emotionally dependent?

Issues?

Anyway who says the fem guy is going to want to bottom for you.

 

[Beachguyj]

Most gay guys like masculine guys. Some guys like twinks, who are softer types, but I don't think many guys like fem guys.

 

[TX-Beau]

Just because I don't want to stick it in the crazy, controlling and emotionally dependent doesn't mean I have a hangup about being gay or I'm too masculine to admit that I would like to bottom.

Well, so long as we're adhering to stereotypes, we may as well go full-bore, eh?

Just because I don't want to stick it in the crazy, controlling and emotionally dependent doesn't mean I have a hangup about being gay or I'm too masculine to admit that I would like to bottom.

Anyway who says the fem guy is going to want to bottom for you.

I never said that. I actually think I'd enjoy bottoming. Where did this argument come from?

Yes you did.

 

[TX-Beau]

Just because I said I don't want to fuck someone doesn't mean I don't want to be fucked myself.

Also, "sticking it in" is a figure of speech. It's not meant to be taken literally. Sometimes I swear half the people on the internet are more autistic than me.

My apologies, I assumed you meant the things you say.

 

[TX-Beau]

Won't get me a second time. What does this one mean?

 

[TX-Beau]

Well I never argue with sex.

 

[TX-Beau]

It's a general euphemism for sex.

Well I never argue with sex.

Pardon?

Are we playing word association now? Or am I to interpret your emoticon.






You realize of course I’m fucking with you.

 

[D-Base]

I'm the opposite actually, I prefer more masculine men. Like Sultan for example. I'll shag him anytime

 

[TX-Beau]

But what if I want a flying fig?

 

[TX-Beau]

...but it's yours I want sunshine...

 

[Lefty]

hey trav, speakinf of fem, i hate that limp wrist pouty lip pic in yr avatar. the pic on the side with your sunglasses at your chest is far sexieer and really shows what a great looking guy you.

does the guy inside that handsome head look anywhere as good?
just curious, sign this

nosey and opinionated

 

[Lefty]

my, my, my
mr jealous in shitcago hasn't anything moe better to do than pick on old semi senile faceless people that can actually spell...just not type.

it is ok son, i have been slammed by better, younger and far more articulate people than an imitation of the leader of the 3 stooges who claims to be related to a mythical/marvelous and mysterious bird of legend.

uh, you were joking right?

 

[ratrat]

While I am definitely not, I know some guys who are and some guys that like fat and hairy old men.

 

[inlovewithblair]

From my experience on these forums and on dating websites and stuff, I've found that gay guys (both masculine and feminine types) are looking for a masculine man.

Now, what do I think of this? I see myself as more 'straight-acting' than 'feminine'. But, this is not because of the way I behave, per se, but more of my interests - I'm in love with clothes and dressing up, Madonna and Britney, and the list goes on and on. In terms of my speech or mannerisms, I'd say I'm pretty masculine, but once again, the words I typically use may be considered 'feminine', but spoken in a masculine way. You get my drift?

Now, most guys I've spoken to have this fantasy of being with a really macho man. I'm one of those guys. But, when I think about it, I've come to realize that I wouldn't be able to have a decent conversation with these 'macho' types - I just don't think I'd have much to say. I've had many straight male friends, but for some reason, I don't think I'd have the same conversations with my 'straight-acting boyfriend'. Call me stupid.

 

[metta]

I'm more attracted to people that are just themselves and don't try to be something they are not. They need to be much more than that....but it is a start.