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Are there cliques on Jub?

ladygrey

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:p I've been hearing rumours that there are "cool" people on Jub and "uncool" people? And certain losely formed groups of people exist?

Is this true?

I never put to much credit in exclusivism and I'm rather blissfuly unaware of soical stigma, but are there?

I wanna know so I can advoid em.!oops!

Huh!#-o

what if I'm in one already!

Oh my, now I'm worried.......:confused:
 
I'm independent, and so cool I can't stand myself. :)

I do think there are secret cliques here but I'm friends with almost everybody and nobody at the same time.
 
Most definitely. It's like a cocktail party. People tend to gravitate into smaller groups.
 
Yes,there are groups in all the forum areas who seem to closely post together.Not necessarily a bad thing,but occasionally those not quite in the clique may not feel as welcome while the clique holds court.
 
Most definitely. It's like a cocktail party. People tend to gravitate into smaller groups.

Gsdx speaks the truth. I don't feel I'm part of any particular one, I just try to mingle with everyone.
 
Gsdx speaks the truth. I don't feel I'm part of any particular one, I just try to mingle with everyone.
Actually that's the best way to go,spread yourself around and have fun with a lot of people.That way,you don't tend to personalize if you feel left out of the inner circle of some of the cliques.
 
I've tried to talk to most everyone.

Some people can be intimadating though...
*shrugs*

there should be a welcome crew after 15 posts.....lol
 
I wouldn't call them cliques. There are people that converse more and have gotten to know each other well but as far as groups secretly going off, I doubt it. And if there are secret groups then I am oblivious to them...

They don't have to be 'secret' to be cliques. They are simply a group of people who tend to stick together.
 
:p I've been hearing rumours that there are "cool" people on Jub and "uncool" people? And certain losely formed groups of people exist?

Is this true?

I never put to much credit in exclusivism and I'm rather blissfuly unaware of soical stigma, but are there?

I wanna know so I can advoid em.!oops!

Huh!#-o

what if I'm in one already!

Oh my, now I'm worried.......:confused:

Are there cliques here at JUB?

Most assuredly.

But I wouldn't let that hold you back from meeting folks and talking with them. Even if there are those who come off as intimidating. It's been my experience here that most are very accommodating and friendly. ;)
 
When I think of cliques, I think of high school - jocks or goths or whatever - and they are physically together - perhaps they think they're better, not necessarily

On a posting board that is based on the written word, I don't see it

But there are for example, groups of people on the Current Events board that generally respond to each other usually with much agreement - but I wouldn't call it a clique - doesn't seem accurate to me

As for me, I would never be part of a clique that would see fit to have me as a member
 
Well that's it.

I'm starting my own cliche:

The Ladygrey's Rainbow Medicine Best Buddies!

Pm me and I'll add you to a list and then, post it some where.

The only critirea: A postive attitude towards life, or alternatively, cookies fedexed to me. :)
 
yup

there are

about six by my count

i dont think i completely belong to any one and can say that only one of the six dislikes me.

of course that one is rather intense and vocal at times...lol

and ds writr.... we trade pms and comments about every 2 or 3 days

you are gonna hurt my feelings:grrr:
 
According to Merriam-Webster:

A clique is "a narrow exclusive circle or group of persons; especially : one held together by common interests, views, or purposes."

From http://www.healthline.com/galecontent/cliques?utm_term=clique&utm_medium=mw&utm_campaign=article

A group of people who identify with each other and interact frequently. An exclusive social group.

The term clique has two levels of significance. In its neutral usage by social researchers it denotes a group of people who interact with each other more intensively than with other peers in the same setting. In its more popular form it has negative connotations, and is used to describe a social group that excludes others on the basis of superficial differences, exercising greater than average amount of peer pressure upon its members. The numerous terms teenagers use to describe themselves and others- such as jocks, druggies, populars, brains, nerds, normals, rappers, preps, stoners, rockers, punks (punx), freaks (phreaks), and skaters- exemplify both levels of meaning in the word "clique." These terms both accurately refer to the activities or qualities the group members share as well as to the exclusiveness of the groups.

A clique consists of a particular group of people within a particular location. Cliques are characterized by a pattern of relationships in which each member is either directly or indirectly connected with every other member, and in each pair relationship the members exchange social overtures (phone calls, get-togethers, etc.) on a fairly equal basis. Joining cliques, having the desire to join a particular clique, and being excluded from cliques are considered a normal part of adolescent development. Joining cliques helps children to develop, identify, and regulate social interaction. Generally children begin to be more aware of differences and form cliques in late elementary school, between the ages of 8 and 10 years old. As they begin to separate emotionally from their parents, young adolescents' identification with their peers is greatly exaggerated between ages 10 and 12 years old, when a child's clique may change on a daily basis.

The issue of belonging is extremely important during middle school and high school, and membership in cliques can have a strong effect on the adolescent's sense of self-worth. During high school, cliques become more consistent, though their composition may change. Research shows that the way an adolescent or teen behaves is better predicted by the behavior of cliques in which he is a part than by the behavior of individual friends.

Most cliques are fairly complex and have a mixture of positive and negative qualities. Cliques may be judged according to the degree to which they exert positive or negative peer pressure, accept diversity among members, and appreciate individuality. Even if a group exerts positive peer pressure- to perform academically or to avoid drugs, for example, it may also be exerting negative peer pressure by being exclusive on the basis of race, class, religion, sexual orientation, or ethnicity. Cliques may also be exclusive on the basis of activities surrounding a particular interest, such as a type of music or sport. Extremely exclusive cliques may be led by authoritarian adolescents who wield power by alternately praising and criticizing members, or changing superficial values and opinions, which effectively keep members wondering about their status in the clique.
 
I remember badmouthing someone once in a PM, and within a day, all of her little friends had also sent me PMs to tell me what an asshole I was. (So before anyone goes shaking their fingers at anyone else, mabye they should think twice)

However, yes.. there's a core group of people that I consider the guys I'm most close with here, and we chat a lot both on and off line. Guys like Rugyboy, SteveNavy, HotCRB, Joe, Robert, Elvin... the list goes on but they know who they are.

There's also anti-cliques who get together out of their common hatred for one or more people...

Not unlike all the "I hate Jessica Cunningham" clubs in high school.

whatever... when I want real life.. I hang out there.

when I want silly drama I come here.. it's better than gossiping about real people in my life.
 
ladygrey i wanna start a girly clique!! will you join with me? :mrgreen:
 
well.. i've noticed there are cliques.... I don't really know if I fit into any of them though.. seeing as no one has ever been really mean to me... seems like everyone likes me... cept skooter... skooter hates me...
 
If there are, I'm oblivious to it, as I am to most things. So I just post wherever I feel like it and PM whoever I feel like. Although I probably should do more PM'ing.

But actually, I haven't been here that long, so maybe I'm still below the clique radar.
 
Me,I used to worry about being liked,but not enough to join a circle of close friends-and I whined about it.I would rather be liked by everyone without being a member of a Rat Pack here than worry about why the rat Packers wouldn't let me in,except to get them refreshments.Those who like just being outside enough to deal well with everyone,you've got the right idea...|
 
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