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Are you a top or a bottom

Nude_Dude said:
It's such a polarizing thing, is body hair.
MOSTLY, it;s a firm 'thumbs up' - or a firm 'thumbs down' when asking gay men which they prefer.
ME, I like a 'top' with body hair - but not TOO much.
THIS 'top' - is kinda PERFECT, I reckon
I'd want him as a regular 'fuck-buddy' if he wasn't so far away

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Bottoms - particularly, the 'little-dicked' variety - always look their best, hairless, completely shaven - pubes included

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I'd go this way, myself, but there's SO much upkeep needed
You're probably thinking, I'd be thinking, a bit of masc/femme contrast.
And you'd be right.
I'm always getting presumed to be a 'top'

So if wishes came true, I'd go for about 6 inch less in hight.
Proportionally less in bulk.
And a bit more - just a little bit more - "femme' looking.
(I didn't think I'd ever SAY that - but there ya GO)
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Curious, Are the earphones connected to his cock? Mono or stereo?
 
Nude_Dude said:
I like TOTAL tops
When a guy tells me he's 'versatile' he just loses something,
Just knowing he takes cock in there - and obviously likes it - takes a lot of his sex appeal.
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MMMM , that's good , I'm a total bottom , just LOVE the gorgeous feeling of a delicious thick cock sliding in my ass , nothing better 🍑🍩🍆🍒💦💦💦😍😍
 
PaulRenegar said:
I am much happier being a bottom than anything. I love knowing that my partner is experiencing great pleasure from me
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I reckon that'd be fair to say of ALL of us.
First and foremost, this is my top priority - even with casual hookups I've taken a liking to.
I don't even need to cum, to know we've both shared a really beautiful moment.
 
I've never topped. Want to, just haven't had the right guy and the right moment. I know I would enjoy it immensely. As for bottoming, I'm addicted. Love getting fucked. Love him leaving his load inside me. Such a great feeling. Even when he's gone, he's still with me.
 
magicdick said:
I've never topped. Want to, just haven't had the right guy and the right moment. I know I would enjoy it immensely. As for bottoming, I'm addicted. Love getting fucked. Love him leaving his load inside me. Such a great feeling. Even when he's gone, he's still with me.
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I've topped a few times , but there's nothing like the gorgeous feeling of a thick cock sliding in my ass and filling me with his delicious thick warm SPUNK , heaven man 🍑🍩🍆🍒💦💦💦💦😍
 
Nude_Dude said:
I'm one of those guys who never does the 'cream pie' thing
Once I take a load, it's there for good and gradual absorption
It's knowing that little bit of HIM - is now a little bit of ME.
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"It's knowing that little bit of HIM - is now a little bit of ME." Samewise. Isn't it a beautiful feeling? Such contentment for lack of a better word.
 
I have not had full sex with a guy but I think I’d trend towards bottom. When I jerk off I usually start with a dildo on myself while watching porn and can cum that way sometimes without touching my dick.
 
curioussss5 said:
I have not had full sex with a guy but I think I’d trend towards bottom. When I jerk off I usually start with a dildo on myself while watching porn and can cum that way sometimes without touching my dick.
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Brother, you will love it. Having a guy top you leaves all the "work" to him. Having a meaty cock inside you is light years better than working that dildo Having someone to talk dirty to, to moan and scream in unison with you, to have a load of cum drip from you... Need I say more?
 
magicdick said:
Brother, you will love it. Having a guy top you leaves all the "work" to him. Having a meaty cock inside you is light years better than working that dildo Having someone to talk dirty to, to moan and scream in unison with you, to have a load of cum drip from you... Need I say more?
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I mean, yeah that sounds amazing. Pretty much what I’m picturing while I do it. Ha ha
 
Nude_Dude said:
This is a subject that has INTRIGUED me, of late
I'd usually found if you ask a guy if he's a Top or a Bottom, you'll get one of two answers

A. I'm a Top.
B. That's my business.

Now this is understandable, given the terminology.
'A' represents the highest rung on the ladder, while 'B' represents the lowest.
So it's been encouraging to see Bottoms lay their cards on the table - without hesitancy - and almost a sense of pride.
I'll put this down to a lot of positive porn role model Bottoms - in my case, the beautiful, sexy and charming - Danny Montero.

But I've wondered how many of you Bottoms are 'out' in your private lives, to your inner circle of gay and straight friends, your wider circle of gay and straight friends - and even your siblings.
A Top and Bottom relationship means MUCH more than what goes where in any sex acts.
It explains your WHOLE relationship dynamic - and how you relate to each other within that relationship

My BF is my do all and be all over every aspect of our lives together.
So of course, I love calling him "my Top" and me "his Bottom"
He's EARNT that supreme title, that I'm pleased to make official, publicly.

So my question to all you Bottoms out there, in stable relationships, is how PUBLICLY 'out' are you ?
And how 'out' would you like to to be - as a Top and Bottom couple ?

INTERESTINGLY, most of the young guys and couples I've spoken with in other forum thought the concept very appealing
MANY, said they were "already there"
The OLDIES - in contrast - were SHOCKED, almost OFFENDED - at the very notion of letting out such a 'personal' secret

For my OWN part, I've never felt so FREE, LIBERATED - and CONTENTEDLY HAPPY (even as an "oldie")
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I'm and oldie and if asked make no bones about being a sub bottom. Actually, I'm proud to say so.
 
Nude_Dude said:
This is a subject that has INTRIGUED me, of late
I'd usually found if you ask a guy if he's a Top or a Bottom, you'll get one of two answers

A. I'm a Top.
B. That's my business.

Now this is understandable, given the terminology.
'A' represents the highest rung on the ladder, while 'B' represents the lowest.
So it's been encouraging to see Bottoms lay their cards on the table - without hesitancy - and almost a sense of pride.
I'll put this down to a lot of positive porn role model Bottoms - in my case, the beautiful, sexy and charming - Danny Montero.

But I've wondered how many of you Bottoms are 'out' in your private lives, to your inner circle of gay and straight friends, your wider circle of gay and straight friends - and even your siblings.
A Top and Bottom relationship means MUCH more than what goes where in any sex acts.
It explains your WHOLE relationship dynamic - and how you relate to each other within that relationship

My BF is my do all and be all over every aspect of our lives together.
So of course, I love calling him "my Top" and me "his Bottom"
He's EARNT that supreme title, that I'm pleased to make official, publicly.

So my question to all you Bottoms out there, in stable relationships, is how PUBLICLY 'out' are you ?
And how 'out' would you like to to be - as a Top and Bottom couple ?

INTERESTINGLY, most of the young guys and couples I've spoken with in other forum thought the concept very appealing
MANY, said they were "already there"
The OLDIES - in contrast - were SHOCKED, almost OFFENDED - at the very notion of letting out such a 'personal' secret

For my OWN part, I've never felt so FREE, LIBERATED - and CONTENTEDLY HAPPY (even as an "oldie")
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Great topic!

Maybe I'm just slow on the uptake, but being a top or bottom as an issue of hierarchy never occurred to me. I don't have a steady bf, but if I did he wouldn't be of the kind to think he was my "better" or "superior" (for lack of more apt words) because he topped.

When hooking up with a new lover I never hesitate to tell him I prefer to be the one getting fucked, while on my back legs up in the air, screaming like a bitch, kissing him deeply, begging for his cock deeper and his cum, submitting to his wishes and control. (Those on JUB who know me know my story well.)

I'm also a dedicated sucker of cock and cum. I insist he grab me by the hair and shove his cock down my throat as I kneel before him. Isn't that as inferior and submissive?

Bottoming and sucking are both submissive positions I take of my own accord because I enjoy the hell out of them. I enjoy being submissive. I give my man permission to, for the moment, control me, use me, make me his bitch. If there needs to be one in control, who’s controlling whom in a scenario where I’m telling him what to do?
 
Bottoms always get bad rep, I know there are guys who have insecurities about it. But I have no issue telling a guy I am a bottom. Like a guy tells me he is a top, I actually want to know this because it is what I desire. I love being a bottom and have had some amazing experiences and relationships with guys. Embrace your sexuality and everything will be ok. I would not have it any other way. x

magicdick said:
Bottoming and sucking are both submissive positions I take of my own accord because I enjoy the hell out of them. I enjoy being submissive. I give my man permission to, for the moment, control me, use me, make me his bitch. If there needs to be one in control, who’s controlling whom in a scenario where I’m telling him what to do?
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Totally agree with this. My man would not do some of the things he loves doing to me if I did not allow it and he fucking knows it lol
 
magicdick said:
Great topic!

Maybe I'm just slow on the uptake, but being a top or bottom as an issue of hierarchy never occurred to me. I don't have a steady bf, but if I did he wouldn't be of the kind to think he was my "better" or "superior" (for lack of more apt words) because he topped.

When hooking up with a new lover I never hesitate to tell him I prefer to be the one getting fucked, while on my back legs up in the air, screaming like a bitch, kissing him deeply, begging for his cock deeper and his cum, submitting to his wishes and control. (Those on JUB who know me know my story well.)

I'm also a dedicated sucker of cock and cum. I insist he grab me by the hair and shove his cock down my throat as I kneel before him. Isn't that as inferior and submissive?

Bottoming and sucking are both submissive positions I take of my own accord because I enjoy the hell out of them. I enjoy being submissive. I give my man permission to, for the moment, control me, use me, make me his bitch. If there needs to be one in control, who’s controlling whom in a scenario where I’m telling him what to do?
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Absolutely agree: when I bottom, I'm doing it because I've willingly agreed and I want it. I'm in control. There may be a dominant / submissive dynamic happening during the act but that's because I want it and I allow it. There's nothing shameful about taking dick.

That said, and Nude Dude makes an interesting contribution, it's not something that I feel the need to discuss or make known. I'll happily state my preference with a potential partner to put my cards on the table and be clear about whether we're compatible, but it's not dinner party conversation material. In that sense it's none of their business, because my role during sex doesn't define me as a person. As a bisexual I take a lot from my straight relationships - my wife allows me to fuck her up the ass but it doesn't make me superior outside the bedroom, and it's not discussed around the table over Christmas dinner. Lol
 
I'm a top by intuition and by default, but I love experiencing all kinds of things. For example, when I hook up with someone who wants to roleplay a Dad with me as his son, I switch to a bottom and a sub.
 
Terry1960 said:
Once I became fully aware that I loved sex with men I became a total bottom. I love making a man cum.
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I'm a dedicated bottom. I've been sucking cock for 20 years, but didn't get fucked until a year ago (Thanksgiving night 2023). I'm obsessed now. But without Craigslist, it's hard to hook up. Only been fucked 4 times since. Same two guys. One leaves a huge load in my pussy that drips out. And gets scooped into my mouth. Making a man cum? There is nothing better, be it in my mouth or all over my face (awesome) or in my pussy. I LOVE MAKING MEN CUM.
 
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