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Are you a top or a bottom

In my 20s it was close to an even split 50/50 top/bottom but no role playing which is a turn off to me.

For years now - exclusively top as my husband is exclusively bottom - it is a natural state for both of us and our chemistry - again no role play.
 
For years now - exclusively top as my husband is exclusively bottom - it is a natural state for both of us and our chemistry ...


And that, my man - after four long-term relationships, over a none-too-short lifetime - is the best foundation you could ever hope to find for a long and happy life of fulfilment, together
Forget your 'sides' your 'versatiles' and 'flip-fucks'
I never feel more in love with my man than when I'm saying "I'm your bottom - and you're my top, as long as we both shall live"
This perfect match makes me feel no "less a man" - but equals, in every respect, in or out of the bedroom.
So complete do I feel, I have no hesitation in throwing him a wink - and saying to anyone mistaken ...
"He's my top - and I'm his bottom" with no shame, but with a great sense of pride.
(despite me being the taller one, the heavier one - and just between you, me and the gatepost - the more "butch" of the pair of us"Top and Bottom Tees.jpg
 
Everyone's different. I don't like to bottom, but I'm going to if my baby asks. He sometimes does. Wouldn't for a random hookup though.
 
Vers. here love both ways. Have topped and blew a load in him and rolled over and he did the same to me love it. After he filled me I can get back on top and do it again.
 
The idea of being a top doesn’t really do much for me because I’m not attracted to men but not the case with thinking about bottoming. I love anal play but using toys is just work and having to do all the work isn’t the same as having someone top you. You get to relax and sit back while they worship your hole and give you exactly what you want. Makes me want it now thinking about it.
 
I have an ass fetish. I love having anal sex with women and would rather have them sit on my face and smoother me with their butt then receive a blowjob. But with men it's a complete opposite. The thought of a man sitting on my face is a turn off and I don't really fantasize about fucking men's asses either.

The thing I really want is to be sodomized. I haven't had a chance to try it yet but I have played with my ass using a vibrator and it feels amazing. If I lived in a big city instead of a homophobic little town I would be down at a gay bar right now looking for a big strong man to take me home and make me his bitch. :sex:

Just wondering if any other bisexuals feel the same way.
I'm just likely a bottom sub
 

This is a subject that has INTRIGUED me, of late
I'd usually found if you ask a guy if he's a Top or a Bottom, you'll get one of two answers

A. I'm a Top.
B. That's my business.

Now this is understandable, given the terminology.
'A' represents the highest rung on the ladder, while 'B' represents the lowest.
So it's been encouraging to see Bottoms lay their cards on the table - without hesitancy - and almost a sense of pride.
I'll put this down to a lot of positive porn role model Bottoms - in my case, the beautiful, sexy and charming - Danny Montero.

But I've wondered how many of you Bottoms are 'out' in your private lives, to your inner circle of gay and straight friends, your wider circle of gay and straight friends - and even your siblings.
A Top and Bottom relationship means MUCH more than what goes where in any sex acts.
It explains your WHOLE relationship dynamic - and how you relate to each other within that relationship

My BF is my do all and be all over every aspect of our lives together.
So of course, I love calling him "my Top" and me "his Bottom"
He's EARNT that supreme title, that I'm pleased to make official, publicly.

So my question to all you Bottoms out there, in stable relationships, is how PUBLICLY 'out' are you ?
And how 'out' would you like to to be - as a Top and Bottom couple ?

INTERESTINGLY, most of the young guys and couples I've spoken with in other forum thought the concept very appealing
MANY, said they were "already there"
The OLDIES - in contrast - were SHOCKED, almost OFFENDED - at the very notion of letting out such a 'personal' secret

For my OWN part, I've never felt so FREE, LIBERATED - and CONTENTEDLY HAPPY (even as an "oldie")
 
Since I’ve not done either, I don’t know which one I prefer, but I like to think im pretty verse. I love ass, so the idea of rimming and pounding one is such a turn on, so I’d definitely top. The i also wanna feel what getting fucked is like, so I’d totally bottom.

I guess once I try both I’ll have a preference LOL!
 
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