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Are you afraid to post pictures of yourself?

I have posted a few. I would not say that I'm affraid to post photos. I have always been shy !oops! so it is more of a matter of wanting to be in the background than being affraid....especially in a large group.
 
I can't see myself posting a picture anytime soon, as I'm still in the closet and I wouldn't want someone I know seeing it. But on the other hand... if they're on this site, I guess it shouldn't matter. Jonreese is a screen name. Its nowhere near my real name.

Would you guys say that this is a safe place where I can post my real name and pictures of me?

And for the record, if you ask to add me to msn, you'll get my real msn with my real name and stuff in it.

I feel terrible that a person would leave here because of some immature remarks over his appearance. Gathering up courage to post a picture of yourself for mostly total strangers deserves a pat on the back, no matter how big or small you are.
 
Don't post your real name.

But pictures are fine.

But it's up to you.


And it's sad that people would insult peopel's looks, and it's even sadder than some people can't take it.

I've been called named you wouldn't believe. but I'm still here, dammit.
 
Though nobody's ever said anything mean about any of the pictures of myself I've posted here, in fact I've only gotten positive feedback (though not nearly as much as more attractive people get), I just don't think I'd really care if they did.

I mean, I don't post pictures so people can see if I'm hot or not, I just like them to be able to have a visual reference to who I am. I like to see a picture of the person, and since people frequently change avatars and share avatars around here, one selfpic in the gallery helps me visualize you alongside your name and separate you from the crowd in my mind.

Nevertheless, I have had to bite my tongue on a few occasions when people post pics that are, shall we say not quite ready for Prime Time, and then ask for opinions. I don't like to give out opinions that aren't constructive, so unless there's something positive I can find to say, I just keep my little barbs to myself.

Not everyone is so considerate. But I really wouldn't let that stop me from posting a picture. There are bitches in this world, but it is folly to acknowledge them, for that only encourages their bitchery.

Just flutter your fan at them and yell, as loud as you can, "Begone! You have no power here!"
 
I had a young guy tell me, just because of my AGE, that he does not talk to people my age! I was upset at first, but then thought, fuck him, if he will not talk to people of older ages, how will he survive in the real world!
I'm with most of the views posted here, I am more shy, then afraid!
But for all who wish, this is me, last April!
 
antdak said:
I had a young guy tell me, just because of my AGE, that he does not talk to people my age! I was upset at first, but then thought, fuck him, if he will not talk to people of older ages, how will he survive in the real world!
I'm with most of the views posted here, I am more shy, then afraid!
But for all who wish, this is me, last April!
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I think you're cute. Young guys who have a problem with older guys won't make it past 40.
 
I allowed my picture to be posted by Dynk after the Washington meet,he had asked if it would be all right.Haven't done it afterward,may not do it at all again....but having the real person behind the avatar,warts....my case lots of 'em...and all be seen to Jubbers is important to me.We are diverse in looks,tastes,hotness and personalities,but that is how things are in the real world,not just the gorgeous studs and twinks that many wish they could be sometimes,including myself.We have to do what's best for ourselves,make ourselves happy.It tells me more about the lack of beauty inside of those who cruelly put down other's imperfections,than what the outer beauty of anyone ultimately means because the outside inevitably fades away.
 
not so much afraid as i am uncomfortable
there was a time when i did, but something holds me back nowadays
 
Christopher123 said:
And there it is, guys.
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there it isn't.

never underestimate the power of words.

Soilwork said:
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And it's sad that people would insult peopel's looks, and it's even sadder than some people can't take it....
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coming from an ex-model, i think i can understanding that pov.

coming from someone that has had to deal with it regularly; the opinion is only judgemental.
 
I just put some new ones in my gallery after taking some old ones down about a month ago

So No
 
It suddenly occurs to me, after I just now posted the most recent picture of myself to the "Post Current Pictures of You" thread, that the bitchiest bitch on this board couldn't say anything worse about me than I routinely say about myself.

I guess it's a defense mechanism I learned a long time ago: deprecate yourself before anybody else gets a chance to. And it's worked, I have the emotional armor of an armadillo.
 
The_Pianist said:
Tea?
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Don't mind if I do...

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One lump, or two?
 
I can emphatise with people with poor self image, I was a little plumb when I was younger and got tease my fair bit, now that I am thin, people suspect that I am anorexic.
 
A photo doesn't change the personality of someone.
Respect to each and everyone of you who do not care what people think about the pictures you post. ..|
 
I am not afraid, that is me in my avatar. I am very self conscious of my weight but I still post em. I really don't care what anyone else thinks! I know that the guy who ends up with me will be very lucky, and if the first and only thing that you look at are looks then you will not end up with me! That would be your loss.:p :p :wave: :wave:
 
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