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Are you afraid to post pictures of yourself?

There are two main reasons I don't post pics of myself:

1. I'm not out and don't want anyone to recognize me on here. There are a few guys on campus that look at gay sites, personals ads, etc. looking for guys that they know from classes to out them.

2. I'm not very comfortable with my body. I've been told by a few that I have nothing to worry about but I still have a few insecurities.
 
There are two main reasons I don't post pics of myself:

1. I'm not out and don't want anyone to recognize me on here. There are a few guys on campus that look at gay sites, personals ads, etc. looking for guys that they know from classes to out them.
I really doubt that they are doing it to out people. Who has the time to do that? They must be gay themselves.





Oh my gosh....there is a trapped in the closet song: http://www.myspace.com/trapped_in_the_closet_
 
jake, you know me. i have stuff in the galleries but keep saying i'm gonna put something on a thread - not getting around to it. anyone can see whatever they want in the gallery. i came to terms with the looks a long time ago. they've worked enough for me so far, and they are as far from twink as possible. i don't care. if anyone finds anything hot, thank you very much. if anyone vomits - there was no command issued to look at anything.
ding
 
it is unimportant who said it but a key statement for me was this:

and some of us worry that we are not the some that some want to see, or that given all life experiences some of us will not fare so well as others and all the "accept yourself" comments don't change that reality

Hey... I was just being honest. I have a certain taste in apearance that I really like more than others... But that doesn't mean that I think those who don't fit my taste are ugly...

I know what a hot guy is, even though some may not attract me. I don't need to be specific.
 
I have never posted myself or my boyfriend because neither of us is totally comfortable with visually advertising who we are. We both value our privacy, and have the utmost respect for those who choose to post their pictures. Also, with my teaching career, and the position that Dave holds with his employer, we don't fly our rainbow flag, although both of us have gay pride. It is just not for us to be showy about it....
 
I'm not really afraid to. However, having a moral turpitude clause in my contract could hurt my career if the school board ever got wind of it. I just have to be extremely careful of what I post and where I post it.

At one point I did have a picture of me during "nerd day" at the school in my gallery.

mikey
 
You DON'T want to see a picture of me as it would give one nightmares.

oh, stop it..... It's all in the eye of the beholder......:D ...... I for one will be posting some pics of me at some point... I'm too new here and i'm still trying to get to know my way around here.......Some day, some day, some day........yeah as soon as my sweetie picks up the camera i'll have some picks up.....
 
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