Are you boyfriend material?

[martin6]

I do go on dates, and socialize alot. It's just I don't like getting involved because I just can't be bothered. Probably why I don't mind being such a slut

Reading this post is like looking into a mirror.

I'm a horrible girlfriend. I don't cook or clean. I'm unemotional and demanding. I'm busy. I'm messy, greedy, and loud. I hate to go shopping. I hate sports. I eat a lot (but I'm skinny). I'm extroverted so I have to reason everything verbally. I don't like to be alone. I'm not into sappy stuff and I won't remember an anniversary or anything of that nature. I've never been in love and I think mushy stuff is laughable at best. The only plus for me, is that I'm into sex. Of course, I'm into sex period. Which means I cheat. Or, I have cheated in the past.

I'm a horrible girlfriend, but I've never had a hard time finding boyfriends. I've been proposed to three times. which is amazing b/c I wouldn't want to marry me. That brings me back to my theory that regardless of gender or sexuality, people seem to prefer to date and fall in love w/ assholes.

You are amazing. I can identify with a lot of this.

 

[phersaios]

I am, its just that they find me too wierd.

 

[GL]

I am, its just that they find me too wierd.

i know what you mean!

my geek scares men off.

 

[sixthson]

I just might be.

 

[phersaios]

i know what you mean!

my geek scares men off.

I don't look like a geek, i just think like one. I am very fashionable, outgoing and loves sports.

 

[phersaios]

There's only one thing to do here...

and that is?

 

[Alpha1851]

Apparently I am not even friendship material so...my chances of being in a relationship are pretty much nil.

That's b/c you're to nice dear. Start pushing people around and you'll see.

<shrug> I dunno. I'm going to say no, though.

Oh please. Life w/ you would be a blast. Never a dull moment. Well, if you're 1/10 as funny and spontaneous in real life as you seem on JUB that is.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

The only thing that makes you "not" boyfriend material is not wanting to be one, correct?

Anything else is irrelevant if both parties are mature and committed. I can handle a few flaws, I've got a mountain of my own.

 

[Alpha1851]

But you're dating someone, which means someone thinks you're girlfriend material.

Which brings us back to my theory. People like to date jerks, assholes, bitches, you name it. In dating, nice guys finish last.

I'm sure there's at least one sweet person out there who can blow my theory to bits, but the majority of the time, I think my theory is correct. Or maybe assholes attract doormats. Doms attract submissives. Lovers attract the beloved. Narcist attract modest, humble people. Who knows.

I make a fantastic friend though. I just wanted to throw that out there.

 

[GL]

Which brings us back to my theory. People like to date jerks, assholes, bitches, you name it. In dating, nice guys finish last.

I'm sure there's at least one sweet person out there who can blow my theory to bits, but the majority of the time, I think my theory is correct. Or maybe assholes attract doormats. Doms attract submissives. Lovers attract the beloved. Narcist attract modest, humble people. Who knows.

I make a fantastic friend though. I just wanted to throw that out there.

how very true.

i often wonder if there are any decent, non-mutant guys out there anymore.

 

[Alpha1851]

Are you saying you're a "jerk, asshole, bitch..."?

Why would anyone want to date someone who is like this?

Well, why are you single?

I believe you've told me before that if you were Jason, you'd dump me. It was funny.

 

[PhoenixRising]

I hope to god I am.....

 

[Alpha1851]

Yeah...I don't follow. I don't want to talk to anyone with any of those qualities...Anyone can be any of those if they're in the mood, but I wouldn't talk to someone who was like that most of the time.

Boobs help. Well, if you were straight.

*Just kidding. Straight guys aren't really cavemen.*

Really, I think I exude confidence and I'm smart, witty (even if you guys never laugh at my jokes), always win, am beautiful, have lots of energy, and am fun. I suppose you gotta take the good w/ the bad. And it really depends on how you look at the characteristics involved. Am I confident or stuck up. Intelligent or pretentious. Beautiful or narcissistic. Funny or evil. A winner or cut throat. Determined or vicious. Love makes a person blind.

I think most people would swear that they wanted their man/woman to have good qualities. But think about your last bf or gf. I'm betting they were awful. And, they probably dumped you. That's cause when you find someone, you want to fix them. You want to be the one who rocks the asshole to the core. The one who changes their outlook on life. The one who makes a difference. And you trust them and want to believe in them. Cause you're a big ole sap. I've seen it happen time and time again. Of course, my life doesn't nec. mirror yours.

 

[honooryuu]

as far as i know i am.

 

[Forumatjub]

When I fall I fall hard. That's why I'm going to go ahead and say no.

Or it's just the other guy that's the problem... always.

 

[Lawnmowerman]

I'd like to think I am. I don't see myself slutting around with other guys if I find one to spend time with. I want someone to enjoy doing things with, not just "doing" them.

 

[alley]

Fine, I'm removing you from my Noah's Ark match up list. I'll have to pair Alley w/ someone else now. *sigh*

Matchmaking again??? But you got it all mixed up last time--you'll have to make it to a meet-up someday and see how the guys actually mix to get it right.

That's fine, Alley will thank you..unless he wants just cheap meaningless sex.....

Have you not read any of my posts???

 

[AngelFromAbove]

Women have frequently asked me the question, why don't I have a girlfriend, if they do not know me, or a boyfriend? So, I guess others feel that I am boyfriend material. However, at this point in my life, a boyfriend really is not really a primary focus for me and I am not necessarily seeking one either.

 

[winterknight]

Never had one, so I'm gonna go with "no"

 

[3nipples]

Not really; I need a lot of personal space.