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Are You Completely Satisfied With the Specific Type of Guys Who Are Attracted To You?

so far, not really. i mean, all the guys that have had feelings for me, i just didnt see them that way or feel the same way.

now the one time my feelings are mutual with another guy, he has to live half-way across the world.

life is a cruel bitch.
 
refujiunderground said:
it really doesn't matter.
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You have stated that you're in your 20's and still a Virgin...Do you ever plan on dating or do you prefer the single life?



menRsexii said:
so far, not really. i mean, all the guys that have had feelings for me, i just didnt see them that way or feel the same way.

now the one time my feelings are mutual with another guy, he has to live half-way across the world.

life is a cruel bitch.
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Let me make sure I'm understanding what you just typed.....You decided NOT to persue a relationship with Men that you met in the flesh..The attraction wasnt there and you didnt take it any further...Yet you had feelings for someone you NEVER met who lived half-way across the world?

Don't you think it would have made sense for you to go out on a date with the Guys that were interested in you to see if they had ANY qualities that you liked VS being sad about some Guy across the Globe that you're never gonna meet face to face?

Come on people you can't have your cake & eat it to...You got to meet FATE half-way...
 
MisterMajestic said:
You have stated that you're in your 20's and still a Virgin...Do you ever plan on dating or do you prefer the single life?
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yeah, i do plan on dating it but i'm not rushing towards anything. i'm used to being single though. dating would be like a whole entirely new thing to me.
 
@ mistermajestic: i actually did try going on dates with some of them and i still just didnt feel it. i dunno. the guy over the internet, we connect on multiple levels. it just is different between him and the other guys. sorry if that sounds stupid to you...
 
Have had all races, sizes, and ages interested. Into some of them. Not saying everyone is interested - far from it, but have attracted at least a few people from every possible combination, from six pack abercrombie models to 500 pounders.. white as a ghost to dark as charcoal... just graduating high school to my grandfathers age...

Completely satisfied - no, but okay enough.
 
I don't know if I have any guy attracted to me. My dream is to attract cute, hot bodied nice guy. But honestly speaking, I am fine with any guy. Lord please let me attract one, just one guy before my college life is over.
 
Yes, always flattered if someone is attracted to me.

I wish more would. Hahah!
 
As I've posted before, I tend to get the crazies of various sizes and degrees. It's a cruel trick for someone who craves stability but that's the coincidence of the matter. If I dated someone that was "stable", I'd get bored and leave.
 
SilverWolf said:
If you don't mind me asking, what's the difference between fetishizing someone and finding them attractive?

Is fetishizing Asians only being attracted to Asians who fit certain stereotypes? Or is there something else to it?
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I had to make that mental distinction when writing it, so thanks for asking. Let me clarify... individuals whom are attracted to me because I am ethnically SE Asian with disregard to my hopes, dreams, ambitions, and personality. You could swap personalities, whether it debonair and suave or plain-ass goofy, and they'd still be attracted to you because of your physical characteristics. It kinda falls under the lust attraction category.
 
Penguyen said:
I had to make that mental distinction when writing it, so thanks for asking. Let me clarify... individuals whom are attracted to me because I am ethnically SE Asian with disregard to my hopes, dreams, ambitions, and personality. You could swap personalities, whether it debonair and suave or plain-ass goofy, and they'd still be attracted to you because of your physical characteristics. It kinda falls under the lust attraction category.
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nice read

thankyou
 
Yes and no.

Such is life. Very happy of most of the ones I attract in FL so far though.
 
They're too 'plain'.

I want Emos, blondes and or 4/6 pack hunks. No luck so far.

While I did recently have a stalker, I don't want regular sex with someone I'm not interested in.
 
Yes and no.

Yes - because they are the type of guy that I am attracted to, but no - because they are guys I only have on-line contact with. And on the other side of the world. Hardly the basis for an actual relationship.

In the real world, no-one has ever shown the slightest bit of interest in me - unless the male senior citizen who walked up to me in a record store 10+ years ago and asked, "Do you like Barbra Streisand CDs?" counts as an approach.....
 
wilbur33 said:
Yes and no.

Yes - because they are the type of guy that I am attracted to, but no - because they are guys I only have on-line contact with. And on the other side of the world. Hardly the basis for an actual relationship.
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Now that I've had time to think over that post, I've decided that 'attracted to' was a bit too strong a phrase to use. I mean, I'm definitely attracted to the guys I communicate on-line with, but to say they are attracted to me is stretching it a little. They have complimented me and some have said they would definitely consider dating me "if we lived near each other", but I've never been an object of lust or desire to any of them.

This follow-up post probably wasn't really necessary to everyone else, but I'm very anal (not in a good way! :lol:) about trying to express myself clearly and not be misread/misunderstood - even if it means a long-winded, 50 paragraph post that takes me 3 hours to write and then another 10 minutes of editing and re-editing and re-re-editing and re-re-re-.....ya, you get the idea.....
 
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