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Are you happy when you're single?

I was happy when I was single. I had several relationships that went no where and some caused me great hurt. I decided to build a life for myself that didn't revolve around being with someone else. I actually had a great life filled with supportive friends and I was involved in activities to keep me busy. I often said my life is full and complete and will remain as such and if someone comes along, I'll still be happy

Someone did come along on Dec 31, 1996 and, yeah, I'm happy and haven't looked back. In some ways I miss my single days but that was another life
 
I think I was happy when I was single, but not as happy as when I was in love and had a soulmate/partner. I'm not sure I could be happy single again. I don't do single well. I'm too high-maintenance.
 
Taking into consideration the inner qualities of most gay guys I've met so far online, and at school - I'd have to say: YES, Very HAppy considering the alternative ;)

- Jordan
 
I'm kinda new to this... had a bf for about 2 months... dumped him two week ago, and have been living single since. It was fun for a few days. Lets just say I had a very exciting week and a half or so, and met several new guys, and got A LOT of play. But... it'd kind of depressing. Three of them were cool guys that I would like to get to know better, whether for friendship or relationship. Out of those three, one won't really hang out with me anymore... he's affraid he's falling for me and doesn't want a relationship. The second just took a new job working 61+ hours a week, and "wont have time for himself let alone friends"... the third was just visiting and is on a plane back to Florida right now.

So basically, it's Saturday night, I have nothing to do, and really wish I had someone just to hold and chill with. Ah well, one day soon, I hope. All of the action this week has just left me feeling really lonely...
 
I don't object to being in a relationship - I've been in this one for close to a decade, and I'm extremely happy.

That said, I enjoyed being single. I think it has to do with enjoying yourself, loving yourself, being good company to yourself. I was very rarely bored when I was single. Even if I was at home writing, or drawing, or reading - I enjoyed that time.

Lex
 
I'm 22 and I haven't been in any type of serious relationship but yet I still manage to live my life the way I want to. At times I get down in the dumps wanting someone to spend some one on one time with emotionally and physically but I get over it. I'm in the closet and the one time fling I had with this guy over a year ago has really just thrown me off from trying to sustain a relationship.
 
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