Are You More Into Guys Or Girls?

[RRRalph]

I always make my intentions VERY clear. Frankly I prefer an on going relationship (ie fuckbuddy).

We have a thing in commen! I don't mind having fuckbuddies tho.

 

[Piquechampion]

So you didn't answer my question. Does the bitch have a round, tight bubble butt that you can serve breakfast on?

Its round, bubble, tight, and little.

We totally have hijacked Ralphie´s thread...

 

[dfwjacker]

I have fluctuations from time to time, but for the most part it's about 40% Girls & 60% Guys for me.

 

[foolish082]

I tend to be into guys more often than girls.

 

[TomahawkEagle]

Most of the time I check guys out and in some extreme cases feel funny in the pants.

Over the years though, there have been instances where I've had a crush on a girl which is confusing sometimes.

 

[Lifesaver]

Probably 40% sexually for girls 60% sexually for guys although I'm probably lying to myself a bit and it slightly higher than that for guys hahaha

I've never had a crush on a guy though. It's weird. I don't know, maybe I've just never met a guy that I've really liked? I mean, six of my absolute best friends in life are guys and I love them as brothers, but I never even began to have a "Crush" on any of them.

I can also say that I've had more sexual dreams about guys than girls but I really don't have that many to begin with honestly...but I have definitely had both.

 

[tetnus]

at this point I would say that I'm more into girls than guys but then I also used to think that I would never be into guys

 

[Seifer20]

In the past I've leaned so heavily into one gender to the point where I have had times where I wondered if I'm gay, or times when I thought I was heterosexual. But the attraction to both genders never really goes away. Sometimes I will crave one gender more than the other but I can fall in love with both.

I think this really describes me as well. However, I'll give a percentage just to go along with the thread. I would say 65/35 but that it switches between genders.

 

[pounder]

As A Bi guy, there are many levels of attraction.
I have had LTR with both.
I Love women, but I am not really sexually attracted unless I am IN love with one.
I Love Men, I Lust after men, but I find it harder to be totally emotionally connected

( and just to mess things up, i can also find some gay women very attractive)

Oh Life is never Simple

 

[kayman23]

yeah I don't even try to put it into ratios or percents.

I think for myself it's kinda pointless and there's no way I'd be able to tell any of it.

It's either mostly equal to the point where I'll think about both genders and crave a 3 way with a man and a woman.

Or I'll be so into men that I have no desire at all for women and I find women's bodies to be icky and I wonder if I'm gay since I'm that into men during that period.

Then I'll go back to being pretty equally attracted to both genders.

Whatever, I don't try to figure it out, rationalize it or anything like that.
It's just what happens and how things are for me.

I can fall in love and get sexually attracted to both genders that's why I consider myself to be bi since at the base level I'm at least sexually attracted to both genders and I can just happen to fall in love with both too.

I will admit that as a whole I get more infatuated with men and I've dated more men than women and had more relationships with men.

I feel you on that. I've had times where I've felt the same way then I would switch within a couple of months. Sexuality is very fluid for me. I've dreamt that I would spend the rest of my life with my girlfriend from high school, but then I was infatuated and somewhat attracted to a close male friend of mine after we graduated.

It's crazy.

 

[Lewiz55]

I really don't know which I like more. I've always found girls to be hott and have had crushes on dozens of girls and can easily get off on them, but I also feel a strange longing for guys and to suck a dick and to get banged and to hear guys moan and stuff like that and I can easily get off on guys too.

I've been on and off between which I like better for a long time now, and now I feel a very strong lust for guys. I don't know thought if it could be just another period of me wanting boys and could flip back to wanting girls any day now and not really think about having sex with guys, or if I have finaly settled down and can stop going back and forth between them.

 

[Nagash]

People often ask me if I've been with a chick or why I hadn't tried it, and I give the same response every time. Which is I don't like the idea of throwing up on her when attempting penetration. You couldn't pay me to go down on a chick either. Lol. Just never found them sexually appealing at all. Friends yeah, but never anything more than that. I'm 100% purebred gay.

 

[Brer Fox]

I am far more into men, but I still find women sexy, but in a very strange way. I mean I will occasionally get off on women, even, and fantasize, but when it comes to the thought of me realistically in bed with one, or in a relationship I cannot imagine it. That is why my little tag says 'gay.' I suppose I am still bisexual (I am a believer that everyone is, even if they only sway a percent or so) but I am only incidentally heterosexual. I think the ideal and the image of the female is beautiful and sexy, but the act and the interaction with the female are not like gross, but more completely lacklustre when compared to the same thing with a guy.

I do not want to be bisexual, I want to choose a side. I do not want to nurture my heterosexuality because I feel I get the most out of men, and I will eventually want a relationship with a man. I do not want a woman, or a family, or any of that. I would even go so far as to say I prefer being gay, and I do not think that is anyone's business but my own. In reality though, I believe I am actually becoming gayer day by day, which I do not know is really possible, but it sure feels like it.

Love men romantically, love men physically, and love the male in general, but yeah, I'd screw a girl if the chance came up. Sexuality is really, really, really complex.

 

[mabby7]

Hmm. I believe that guys/girls can like one or the other.
For example Carson from Queer eye. I really don't believe he's into girls at all ... haha.

 

[Seifer20]

yeah I don't even try to put it into ratios or percents.

I think for myself it's kinda pointless and there's no way I'd be able to tell any of it.

It's either mostly equal to the point where I'll think about both genders and crave a 3 way with a man and a woman.

Or I'll be so into men that I have no desire at all for women and I find women's bodies to be icky and I wonder if I'm gay since I'm that into men during that period.

Then I'll go back to being pretty equally attracted to both genders.

Whatever, I don't try to figure it out, rationalize it or anything like that.
It's just what happens and how things are for me.

I can fall in love and get sexually attracted to both genders that's why I consider myself to be bi since at the base level I'm at least sexually attracted to both genders and I can just happen to fall in love with both too.

I will admit that as a whole I get more infatuated with men and I've dated more men than women and had more relationships with men.

I agree with you that this is a pointless exercise because it is impossible to measure the degree of attraction towards either gender for any one individual. Especially for some of the people here who mention that it changes over time. I think there was a thread not too far down where the author noticed a seasonal difference in his attraction.

But this is sort of a fun, generalizing thread and it's kind of interesting to see everyone else's tentative percentages.

I disagree and think that there are people 100% gay or heterosexual. Personally, I would think that these people would be in a minority but I don't think there's any evidence out there to support any opinion.

 

[DerKanzler]

I've thought a lot about this since I realized I was attracted to guys back in 7th grade gym class. I fantasized about the guys changing and was physically attracted to them. But I also had crushes on girls at the very same time. Even in 9th grade when I had a girlfriend, I'd still be physically attracted to guys. I mean, I was in my girlfriend's basement, all alone with her and Eminem's "Superman" video came on and I got an erection from THAT, and not my girlfriend, even though I liked her a lot.

I was also brought up Christian (though in a very liberal church, and my dad is an atheist) and participated in the Fellowship of Christian Athletes all throughout high school, even becoming vice president of it in junior year. I don't think I ever believed my attraction to men was sinful, but I guess I sort of treated it as a phase, an indulgence of youth. I figured I'd find a woman and fall in love and get married and have kids. I'd tell her I was physically but not emotionally attracted to men and she would say "thats fine" because she loves me and I love her and thats all that matters.

I had it all planned out! haha

But now its a little more nebulous... Before I could not fathom having a "boyfriend" or crushing on a guy. My Freshmen year at college I still had a few crushes on girls, but was a little shocked when I found myself pining after a guy... and not just lusting after his body.

I don;t know what to call myself so I call myself bi. (Though sometimes I'll call myself gay if it fits a joke, since I love making fun of myself) But I've only been with guys, and only interested in being with guys sexually. I might watch a straight porno online once in a while and while be totally disgusted when they show close ups of a woman playing with her pussy.

I am sexually and somewhat emotionally attracted to men,
Very emotionally attracted to women,
and sexually turned off by women.

Woe is me

 

[uofaguy7]

I used to like females a lot better but have been liking guys a lot more lately. It probably was like 80% female 20% male then 70/30 and now 60/40

 

[Horschallen]

Guys... silly you for asking.

 

[JerryBoyz]

I am sexually attracted to men and women about equally, but more emotionally attracted to women.

 

[hornyasalways]

lol when i find out I will definantly get back to you guys...lol