Are You Prejudice ???

[Croynan]

If you notice the matching colors from your first response to this thread and my response to your response , you notice that I was only "answering" Your questions , when answering "your questions to ME" , I need to speak my opinion. so I cannot not use "me" or "i" when I'm answering your questions about ME as a person.

oh and btw for number 11. I do NOT think that way of myself, I was telling you from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE what happened to me and what usually guys say to me when I tell them , can we get to know each other more before we have sex.

I WAS JUST TELLING YOU MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. if you can't tell the difference then I don't know what.


and oh. I already know that you were going to apologize , which you didn't yet...

you already bashed me. called me immature, said I was assuming stuff... said that I was being stereotypical ... etc. without even understanding the whole story.

and repeating that I am a 19 year old university student won't change anything in any subject. I have a name and I think you can call me by it , thank you.
and till now , I see absolutely no reason why you are calling my post immature.

you didn't clarify why I was being immature ( just because I want to have sex for sex with a random person I don't want to get to know for example? )

i gather you are speaking from personal experience - all i am saying is and or referring to are your own words. i am merely letting your own words speak for themselves. nothing more, nothing less.

apparently you have not given us the full story so therefore any statements i have made are based upon your original posting.

i am not sure what has given you the impression that i am going to apologize - as i said you are prognosticating the future and as far as i know that cannot be done.

i do no think you have a clue in the world as to whether and how i decide to issue an apology and if i do so. you do not know me. you do not know how i handle my postings or what ever content they may contain.

you are right about using your name, i should do that. the problem with that is i really do not like using a person's avatar name when communicating with them directly as we are here on an open forum. i prefer to use their real name as i did to another young adult who posted a fascinating thread this evening. it was one of the most impressive postings i have read by a young adult. you should take a look at it - he is in rehab.

he signed his posting with his name so that when i made my posting to him i addressed it to him directly = because that established him an an entity.

you are the one who is using your words to describe how you handle sex. again, they are not my words, they are your words that you are writing and people are seeing and reading. therefore any comments, and or opinions they might form in responding to you are your words and your words alone.

i think i have fully addressed the issues you have commented on. if i have missed something please let me know. by the way, i do sign my postings with my name. as far as i know almost everyone who posts on this forum knows my real name. so i guess i could say the same thing about you addressing me by my name.


i hope you have a fine day at school tomorrow.


it will be interesting to see whether you post whether you allow this fellow who wants to fuck you to do so. normally i would not say such a thing in one of my postings but as long as you have brought up the matter with your own words i am therefore doing so.


i shall put a disclaimer here in this particular posting, because of the last paragraph i have posted.(the one up above ) if you find anything in this posting to be offensive and or hurtful please contact me immediately by pm and i shall arrange to have the posting immediately. or if you wish instead to handle the matter, please report this posting as unacceptable to the mods and request that it be removed immediately and they will do so.


please do not mistake the above disclaimer as an apology of sorts, as that is not its or my intent.

i still have not answered your question about prejudice - i am doing so deliberately so as not to contaminate these (my) postings with any personal thoughts. tis true i could do a separate posting in this thread but as we have engaged in direct communication i am not sure how objective a statement i could make.

eM.

p.s. i still do not understand this entire answer you have given - can you please claify what you are trying to say


13. you are mistaken... again... next time.. for future refrences and my future posts.. please "ask questions" and "demand answers" before coming to me and saying bunch of crap that you're going to apologize for later...__________________

 

[Croynan]

Hi Antoine (what a nice name)

i am sorry i cannot stay up any longer, but i need to get some rest.

i have a luncheon engagement on tuesday and we will be seeing a film. have you heard about it?

“The Darjeeling Limited" by coincidence it happens to be about India.

nite.

eM, michael

 

[Croynan]

Why can't you just be normal Croynan and just stick to the subject like everyone else??? I'm done arguing with you. I'm not going to defend myself on this forum anymore not one bit.


I am who I am, Who doesn't like me can Bite me

and to all whom I quoted in this post, I thank you so much for your kind words and your support. I had no doubt when I posted this thread about me being prejudice or anything. I wouldn't have brought it up if I was.. my intention was just to know if people here are prejudice or not and I just demonstrated an example of prejudice that I lived through my day and I wanted to share it with all of you!

again, thank y'all!






-Antoine (Happy now? )

Antoine,

i would not bite you, as it is not a question of my not disliking you.

all that really is at issue here is for you to use the wonderful mind you have been given and with it some thought.

as i said up above, have a good day at school.

eM, michael.

 

[Croynan]

The saddest thing is if you do sleep with him this soon, the chances of him being anything more than a one night stand are very slim. Therefore, you still won'y know much about Indians and so the stereotypes continue. Such a shame. Hopefully he has more maturity than you and decides against having sex with you.

Antoine

- here is an interesting post. sound a bit familiar? i don't think it is just me who is bringing up these various issues.

eM. michael

 

[spreadeagle]

I doubt whether any gay man alive today has not been a victim of prejudice at one time or another.

Like other forms of oppression prejudice taints the perceptions of its victims; sometimes we prejudge others in return; at other times we internalise those negative assumtions others have made about us and act as if we believe them to be true.

 

[BlueD]

I just read the whole "discussion" between you and croyman.
I won't take any side or say I agree with whom, but I'm kinda bugged by your last statement asking Croyman to be "normal" and post like other people. Actually he did. He just voiced his opinion & his advices to you. It just took shape of a longer form and more serious way...He did sound like he cared about your subject matter and tried to elaborate on it in his own way. (to croyman/michael: pardon me if I said something wrong)

Anyway, about the prejudice question "Are you prejudice?" I can lie to say 'no', I am a wonderful person...blah blah blah..., but the real answer is 'yes.' Being raised up in my community, there's always a certain mindset inside myself that makes me look at some things/people in a prejudice way, even my moral tells me that it's not true and it's not right to look that way... Fortunately, I don't act on those mindsets though (which is good), and am working hard to grow out of it, to view people by who they really are, not through lens that are sparkled with prejudice...


About the Indian guy, I don't know what to tell you...Personally, I won't hook-up with anyone just for a 1-nite stand. I always consider myself worthier than that. I don't have sex with a man unless he and I want to consider a relationship...

"I don't care...who you are...where you're from...what you did...as long as you love me..."