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Are you really Bi?

Sometimes I think that bi guys say that they are gay just because it sounds better then saying that they are gay. I talk to many "bi" guys but something would tell me that they just like the word. So question, do you think that this is true?

i like getting head from guys and topping them. but that's it. i don't kiss or even give head. and i don't even wanna fucking spoon with a dude or even live with him. i'm bi but not in the usual way i guess.
 
So you suck dick and eat pussy yet still call yourself gay too?

Geez, this place is even more fucked up than I originally thought. :roll:

No I just get and give the head and top. One day I would like to eat pussy just to see what its like. But at the end of the end I'll be with a guy.
 
No I just get and give the head and top. One day I would like to eat pussy just to see what its like. But at the end of the end I'll be with a guy.

dude you gotta eat pussy!!! it's fucking awesome esp when you tease her clit!!!
 
I think there is no one that's 100% gay or straight. So that would make everyone BI to some degree
 
I think there is no one that's 100% gay or straight. So that would make everyone BI to some degree

No, heterosexuality and homosexuality exist. In order to have a shade of grey, like bisexuality, the black and white is necessary.
 
No, heterosexuality and homosexuality exist. In order to have a shade of grey, like bisexuality, the black and white is necessary.

totally agree. there are het's who'd never think twice about having same sex sex and there are homo's who'd never think twice about opposite sex sex.
 
altho turned on by gay sex do not seek a true relationship with another guy. They are looking for a girl to satisfy their long term relationship needs.

I think this category is what pisses off a lot of people about "bi" guys and leads to the faulty thinking that "bi" guys are really gay guys that "hide" in straight relationships and cheat on their spouses whenever they can...


I think true bisexuals seek out (for a relationship) those that they have the most in common with and are most suited for...be it with another guy OR a girl. I am bisexual, because I love whomever I fall in love with. I am currently married (and very happy) to a fantastic woman whom I am very much in love with. Before meeting my wife, I had just gotten out of a three year relationship with another man. To me it does not matter what is between your legs, I will love whomever I fall in love with, and will start a relationship with whomever is most compatible.
 
i cant lie, i used to call myself bi because i was scared of calling myself gay. its silly when i think about it now as openly gay man. while i certainly find women attractive, i have no desire to have sex with them or be in a relationship with one. in the end, why label? you like what you like and as long as doesnt hurt anyone, who cares?
 
Yes, I am really bi. I love to have sex with guys. There is no better feeling than having a cock in me, whether I'm sucking a cock or getting a real hot fucking. I also like having sex with women. I like the touch, the taste, the feel, and the look of every part of a woman.
 
You know you are really bi when you have both totally gay dreams and sometimes totally straight dreams, like I do.I think dreams reveal your true feelings.
 
I consider myself totally bi.. I can get a hardon by thinking about guys and women... married and wife knows and doesn't care that i have sex with guys.. but I love to please her also.. like some have said.. I don't lean one way or the other.. just love sex with people..
 
I've always found it somewhat... funny I suppose... that so many gay men seem to get turned off by the fact that I - regardless of whether they're otherwise really into me - am bisexual. I've never had that sort of issue with the women that I've had flings or relationships with.

It's as if - to some gay men at least - you can only be 100% straight or 100% gay; there's no viable middle of the road.

Bisexual is what I am, and no amount of coercing will cause me to attempt to "be" one way or the other, because I'd no longer be being honest with the one person in my life that I ALWAYS have to be true to; myself.
 
Amid the strenuous arguments here-in and after careful analysis,

my latest observation is that,
although I have been comfortably bi for

years, (pre-puberty) the current economic forecast is going to

force me to change my identity to SELL.


Hahahahah...wait a minute, thats not so funny:(](*,):cry:

 
I do not understand why most of society will accept that there are millions of Bi-Sexual Women, but No Bi-Sexual Men ... Why do BI men have to be Gay but hiding in their sexuality? When almost no one says the same about BI Women ... It just sin't fair ...

I am BI in fact I am Very BI ... I am totally In Love with my beautiful wife and enjoy very much pleasing her sexually ...mostly oral due to an existing medical condition that limits my ability to get and stay hard. Still at the same time I enjoy and even look forward to pleasing and pleasuring Men orally and someday want to feel what it is like to be F**Ked by a Man ... Yet although I would enjoy receiving oral sex from a man (or a woman as far as that goes ... since my wife Does NOT give head) I really have NO Desirer to F**K a Man.

So I guess that makes me a BI-Bottom, go figure. Does any of this make sense to anyone?

One more question Please:

What does " Bi-JUBERS " mean and what makes a person one or not one?
 
Hi, I'm just reading this thread and I saw the post about a guy wanting to suck without reciprocation. That used to puzzle me when I was younger, too, and I missed some hot offers because I couldn't understand it.

But sucking with no reciprocation is EASY. Sucking in which you expect the other guy to reciprocate is HARD. I love to suck, because I am very friendly and I enjoy giving pleasure, but I am scared to let a guy reciprocate because I always fear that he is just offering because he thinks it is expected, but doesn't really want to reciprocate. I couldn't bear that! Even the thought of the possibility causes me to lose all erection. The only way I can relax enough to let a man suck me is if we are committed partners, and I really know that the other guy loves me and really wants to suck me.

But just sucking a horny guy is so easy! If you are young and male and you enjoy being sucked (and you are clean), then I love to suck. Sucking may be an acquired taste -- the older I get the more I love it. My hottest fantasy is to have a whole gang of horny young men who all want to be sucked. I will suck them all over and over until dawn, and I will buy all the beer, too! Hook me up with a gang of horny young studs who want a non-reciprocating cocksucker like me, and I will love you forever! In fact, I am trying to find a young man to live with me who just wants to be sucked all the time, but I can't seem to find the right young man.
 
Back to the topic: there are plenty of men who are totally bi, and I'm one of them. Most men who are "bi" seem to be monogamous, only with either gender, but not both at once. I, on the other hand, need and want both genders in my life! I want one of each, and could never be satisfied without at least one male and one female partner (in a long term relationship). Actually, I only want one woman (who is young, pretty, and extremely horny, wanting lots of sex all the time), but I would love about three or four young men to live with us altogether in a loving and lasting polyamorous relationship. I even want a whole new batch of rugrats! (I have a couple of grown kids -- mother deceased).

But the point of the OP's question is about guys who are really gay and just call themselves "bi" to sound cool. I know it happens, because I have contacted men who list their preference as "bi" but when I suggest the idea of sharing a girl with them, they admit that they are really just gay and don't actually want a woman at all -- they just think it sounds cool to be "bi."
 
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