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Argh, why does this keep happening to me?

It looks to me like much of this bias is about penis size, rather than race itself. There are many size queens, both male and female. After reading many comments, on many different forums, from men and women, I'm almost persuaded that size does matter.

I'm on the smaller end of the scale myself. I'm not Asian, or mixed with Asian. I hate being small, but nothing I can do about it.
The guys I've know who are well hung have had lots of sex partners. Some even seemed to have women chasing them.

Next time somebody tells me "size doesn't matter", I think I'll beat them to a pulp...

Oh, by the way, I have nothing against Asians. I find the Asians to be hot, both men and women.
 
birddog7 said:
It looks to me like much of this bias is about penis size, rather than race itself. There are many size queens, both male and female. After reading many comments, on many different forums, from men and women, I'm almost persuaded that size does matter.

I'm on the smaller end of the scale myself. I'm not Asian, or mixed with Asian. I hate being small, but nothing I can do about it.
The guys I've know who are well hung have had lots of sex partners. Some even seemed to have women chasing them.

Next time somebody tells me "size doesn't matter", I think I'll beat them to a pulp...

Oh, by the way, I have nothing against Asians. I find the Asians to be hot, both men and women.
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You're talking about tricks and lust sex, I am telling you that you are wrong about real relationships. Sorry you haven't gotten beyond the hook up and found the other, hopefully you will someday.
 
refujiunderground said:
uhhhh according to the chart, whites are more likely to respond to another white person than someone who is nonwhite.
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You hafta read the diagonal. It shows that white people are least likely of any group to show interest in someone of their own ethnicity. But guys from India are totally stuck on themselves...

Incidentally, topher's explanation makes sense, but technically the chart is ambiguous about who is responding to whom, and the diagonal is the only part of the chart where the ambiguity doesn't matter. But i digest.
 
I still can't read the chart. So:

white Vs white = 44%
black Vs black = 49%
other male Vs other male = 47%
Middle Easter Vs India = 71%

what do i make out of this ? :badgrin: :mad:
 
There is only ONE race: the human race.

I believe there is a lot of poor self esteem amongst asians. I have been involved with the Cambodian, Vietnamese, Chinese and Korean communities, especially immigrants, and many of them seem to be fearful and beaten into submission. Somehow, they have learned that the western look is the ideal and they are somehow inferior to this. So, they aspire to be western and when they don't succeed because they still "look asian" they feel defeated.

To the OP I would say, learn to find strength in the rejection of these ignorant people. It is they who are the losers, not you.
I know it still hurts, however. Be proud of who you are in every way. Good luck, buddy.
 
I honestly don't understand people... If my bf was asian, that would be a definite plus <3
 
bankside said:
You hafta read the diagonal. It shows that white people are least likely of any group to show interest in someone of their own ethnicity. But guys from India are totally stuck on themselves...

Incidentally, topher's explanation makes sense, but technically the chart is ambiguous about who is responding to whom, and the diagonal is the only part of the chart where the ambiguity doesn't matter. But i digest.
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I see what you mean, but whites respond the least in general. Notice that all blocks from (not to) white respondents range yellow to red. And, when whites do respond, they respond most robustly to each other. Notice that the only block from whites that's even yellow is the block corresponding to their responses to other whites.

I almost like that table. It's interesting... but, I wonder about the source/validity of the data.
 
OK, I didn't explain the chart, and I should've - sorry about that.

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The graph is courtesy OKCupid. It reveals "response rates" (people responding to initial contact) by various racial groups towards other racial groups. The categories on TOP are the ones doing the responding. The categories along the LEFT are the ones being responded to. Blacks apparently get the fewest responses, and whites apparently are doing the least responding. (Raise your hand if you find that shocking.)

birddog7 said:
It looks to me like much of this bias is about penis size, rather than race itself. There are many size queens, both male and female. After reading many comments, on many different forums, from men and women, I'm almost persuaded that size does matter.

I'm on the smaller end of the scale myself. I'm not Asian, or mixed with Asian. I hate being small, but nothing I can do about it.
The guys I've know who are well hung have had lots of sex partners. Some even seemed to have women chasing them.

Next time somebody tells me "size doesn't matter", I think I'll beat them to a pulp...
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Yes, yes, you'll never get laid and it's all because your small penis. We've heard this routine before, and it doesn't become any truer with the repetition. I've gone to bed with guys with small dicks who have had far more sex than I've ever had, or even had the potential to have. Would they have had even more were their dicks larger? Hell, I don't know. Possibly. But I doubt they gave it much thought. They were out there getting laid and having a blast. But since you're determined to pin your perpetual virginity on your dick size, I don't think anybody can alter your viewpoint.

Lex
 
I saw your thread linking pics to your xtube gallery before seeing this thread, but posted there after seeing this thread, didn't wanna mention this thread cause it's better to discuss it here.

I did not think you were Asian when I saw your pics, maybe Latino, but a hot body is a hot body no matter which race. And cock size to me is no indication of race.

I'm Asian myself but I just shrug off those type of guys that ask my race or immediatelly ignore me when they find out my ancestry. I can find find other guys to talk to from other races that find me just as attractive. :)
 
Lots of interesting numbers. The lowest number on the "respond to same" diagonal is whites. Apparently, we're not interested in anybody, even other white guys. :)

Lex
 
bankside said:
You hafta read the diagonal. It shows that white people are least likely of any group to show interest in someone of their own ethnicity. But guys from India are totally stuck on themselves...
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palbert said:
This board is painfully aware of this.
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There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG if you only want to date and have sex with someone in your own race...or if you want to pro-create in your own race. Don't show disrespect and hatred toward other races.

There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG for gay men not to date or have sex with women. Don't show disrespect and hatred toward women.
 
fetaby said:
OMG, I think this may be the beginning of the next race/racist season on JUB.

Brace yourselves errbody!
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Seatbelt is FASTENED. Popcorn is popped...and seasoned salt has been applied.
 
thanks everyone. It's not like I'm depressed because I want people to like me, I'm more just annoyed because, like someone else posted, I wish the standard of beauty would 'shift' so that Asians would be considered equally attractive as whites, latinos, and blacks. I mean think about it... all the hot models you see on A&F, etc. are always white, with a couple black and latinos thrown in there. Same if you look at the guys on shows like The Bachelor, Bachelorette, Love in the Wild, etc. You would never see an Asian man on The Bachelorette, or as the Bachelor. Don't you always hear girls gushing over people from certain countries, ie "omg, french guys are so sexy, italian guys are gorgeous, etc." I know this is a stupid thing to be annoyed about since I can't change it, but whatever... lol. To answer the other question, I find guys from all races attractive - i won't lie and say they're not concentrated more in certain races over others, but either way I wouldn't rule any race out.
 
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