Argh, why does this keep happening to me?

[BFizzle]

At the risk of sounding incredibly un-eloquent, I think Asian guys are hot.

And holy crap, that chart really gave me a headache.

 

[Centipede]

Sorry to hear.

Last person I fell in love with was asian, sexiest and most attractive person I think I've ever been with... But it wasn't even that, he was an artist and we had so much in common. He was just 19, first time I ever dated someone younger than me. He was still struggling to find himself, not to mention, a tad bit crazy but that's what I found the most attractive about him. Thinking about him now I still get chills because everything between us was perfect, our personalities, likes... It all just synced perfectly and the sex was fucking incredible... but in the end, as much as it hurt and still does at times, I had to end it.

Xtube just isn't a good place and neither are a lot of other online places. Seeing this type of shit bugs me to no end, but every time I try to add my 2 cents in this subject someone always tries to justify their ways or just gets über defensive.

 

[80KGold]

Anyway, my point is to talk to guys even if you're not sure you're what they're looking for (or they're what you're looking for). I mean, nothing drives me wilder than a long, sweaty night of fucking with a strong, hairy, older Italian man...but then again, my hottest oral sessions were with a Korean friend who sucked my cock while I rimmed his tight, smooth hole for hours on end...my best JO sessions were with a Cuban kid who could edge for hours and shoot the biggest loads I've ever seen...the best ass I ever played with belonged to a 45 year old black guy who could take these monstrous dildos and butt plugs with ease...and the last time I played with a white boy who was about my age, he tied me up on my hands and knees, shot a load on my back and ass, washed me off with his piss, sucked me off and spit my load into a cup, untied me so i could piss in his mouth, swallowed my load from the cup, laid on his back and pissed all over his chest and face, drinking some of it, and then we put each other's dirty jockstraps on, i slid a butt plug inside him, he tied up my cock and balls, we went to the gym, worked out, pissed on each other in the showers, then returned to his place and played Arkham Asylum for the rest of the day.

Well, damn! Dude, you a freak!

 

[pat grimshaw]

There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG if you only want to date and have sex with someone in your own race...or if you want to pro-create in your own race. Don't show disrespect and hatred toward other races...

PC is the new religion for people who can't think for themselves. Even sensible young minds are being indoctrinated with this new religion of intolerance.

 

[fetaby]

PC is the new religion for people who can't think for themselves. Even sensible young minds are being indoctrinated with this new religion of intolerance.

You two do realize that the comment you both are spinning on was a very pointed and veiled attack at one specific member of the JustUsBoys community, yeah?

It had absolutely nothing to do with the Indian ethnicity or its members.

Forget about PC being for those who can't think, when you , yourself, fall in the category of those who can't read. You bring yourself misinformation and then spin your wheels. Have fun with that.

Now...

There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG if you only want to date and have sex with someone in your own race...or if you want to pro-create in your own race. Don't show disrespect and hatred toward other races...

There is nothing wrong with an individual falling into these patterns of attraction. There is something wrong with these patterns of attraction existing in the first place. It's a system of racism that has been so ingrained into our cultures that most people can't even recognize it exists.

Don't be mad cause you're blind to it. If you don't have a problem being that way, then what is it to you if someone thinks negatively about the situation? Nothing. You obviously are going to continue doing whatever you want to do.

Instead of jumping to a conclusion, taking it personal, and shutting the doors of communication down. Take the half a second and ask the person to explain why they feel that way.

And if they have unfounded generalizations and nothing else but a bunch of bullshit to support their claims, dismiss it as the bullshit it is and keep it rolling.

As if anyone could ever twist your arm and force you to do something against your will anyway.... The disrespect is dished out both ways.

 

[Telstra]

what is PC ?
Its not personal computer is it ?

 

[palbert]

what is PC ?
Its not personal computer is it ?

Yes. But on July 1 we go to I-Pad.

 

[Mr-Brooding]

what is PC ?
Its not personal computer is it ?

Political Correctness : Basically it's when society is really, really nice and sensitive about everything so that others are made comfortable rather than upset by sensitive topics. (I Googled an actual definition, but I think mine made more sense.)

And in regards to the post, I haven't really put myself out there, but I am deathly afraid of being rejected because of my race. I will not take it well. I'm pretty sheltered, so racial insensitivity will crush me. That's why I let the bitches come to me.

The guy I flirt with now is white and never has my race come up. Some people are far removed from prejudice feelings and others aren't. Don't be discouraged.

 

[Telstra]

Political Correctness : Basically it's when society is really, really nice and sensitive about everything so that others are made comfortable rather than upset by sensitive topics. (I Googled an actual definition, but I think mine made more sense.)

And in regards to the post, I haven't really put myself out there, but I am deathly afraid of being rejected because of my race. I will not take it well. I'm pretty sheltered, so racial insensitivity will crush me. That's why I let the bitches come to me.

The guy I flirt with now is white and never has my race come up. Some people are far removed from prejudice feelings and others aren't. Don't be discouraged.

nice post thanks.

The guy saying "i pad" is a bitch.

 

[chrisw87]

We all have preferences, however I like to keep an open mind. There are sexy people in every ethnic group.

If I had to be shallow and specify, I'd LOVE to end up with a Scandinavian girl or guy... its not just the looks but the personality

Saying that, I am attracted to most races, but few personalities. It really is the make or break in it all. Coming back to people knocking you back because you are Asian, it is their loss. I guess in the end it is best to find out this way then in real life on a first date.

 

[glasvegas]

Well, yes, it's harder to being a gay man if you're Asian. That's why I am still single, but it's okay, I am capable of loving myself.

 

[glasvegas]

I get tired of people telling me I have to feel guilty over this, that and the other. Spreading guilt doesn't change the situation.

Oh you shouldn't be. Be proud of your opinions.

 

[joshj50]

It appears that Middle Eastern men are whores, they respond to everyone, and it appears they love their Indian men.

Oops made a mistake, was interpreting the chart from the opposite directions, its the Asians who are whores, they respond to anything and everything

 

[fetaby]

what is PC ?
Its not personal computer is it ?

It is an abbreviation for personal computer.

It is also an abbreviation for Political Correctness.

Political as in politic as in polite.... There are ideas, expressions, and actions which are not polite and are not considered correct. (Correct being a standard of morality) Typically these are the various -isms, ex. racism, sexism, ageism, elitism, etc, etc...

Recognizing these -isms exist and voluntarily adjusting your expressions, thoughts, and actions = progress towards a state of correct or moral righteousness.

Recognizing these -isms exist and unwillingly adjusting your expressions, thoughts, and actions = political correctness. Since the adjustments to expression, thought, and action are not what the individual wills, the correctness or moral righteousness they display is done for the sake of being politic or polite. This occurs for one of two reasons; one, out of ignorance or two, out of subterfuge. If a person is ignorant of the reasoning behind being politic, they can't be considered as voluntarily behaving in a correct way. They do behave correctly but do not know why... If a person behaves in a political correct fashion despite their will, their will was to be incorrect.

To be politically INcorrect, you recognize ideas, expressions, and actions that are not polite nor correct and use those ideas, expressions, and actions despite the known effects they have. Ex. Racist, Sexist, Ageist, Elitist, etc, etc...

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When I see people railing against political correctness, it reads as them wanting to have free license to be with no consequences for being an -ist.

They will say what they are in fact railing against is the "enforcing" of being politically correct. OR they wish they had the freedom to be incorrect...

And the #1 reason why all of that is bullshit, and why they try very very hard to make PC a dirty word..... Being PC is voluntary! There is no enforcement of it.

When you're not PC, your PI.... which isn't necessarily a bad thing. What makes being PI "bad" is your intent.... But people don't get that. They've always been free to have and express whatever idea or action they choose. But what they don't like is that their expression of those ideas and actions have consequences. They don't like that their incorrectness is no longer populist. They don't like that they now belong to a minority in thinking.

The impetus behind PC is to drive our society towards the treatment of each other with respect. To behave in a fashion that has been agreed upon as being correct, by the people that stand to gain equality through these actions. Ex.... If you want to improve equality for women, it is women who must agree what is needed to be done. If you want to increase equality for gays, it is gays who hold the agenda.

If PC goes wrong, it's not because the process is bunk. It's because a consensus on what is correct has not been met. Ex. the use of the term African American vs. Black. And despite a consensus not being met, what is agreed upon is that regardless of which term is used it's done so in a manner of respect to the people it refers.


$0.02

 

[Telstra]

I know what Political Correctness is but sometimes i can't read the shortcut of words people use.

 

[fetaby]

I know what Political Correctness is but sometimes i can't read the shortcut of words people use.

OIC...

 

[Telstra]

OIC...

UAAB[STRIKE]S[/STRIKE]

Have a guess.

 

[pat grimshaw]

You two do realize that the comment you both are spinning on was a very pointed and veiled attack at one specific member of the JustUsBoys community, yeah? …

Are you talking to me? Yeah?

I don't know this 'specific member of the JustUsBoys community' you're talking about; most people here have fake names and fake avatars. There's only about 20 guys here with a distinct personality; most of them are a blur to me.

 

[fetaby]

Are you talking to me? Yeah?

I don't know this 'specific member of the JustUsBoys community' you're talking about; most people here have fake names and fake avatars. There's only about 20 guys here with a distinct personality; most of them are a blur to me.

No, you don't know the specific member Palbert was referring. Which had little to do with the post he quoted which belonged to Bankside, who misinterpreted the graph and came out with some bullshit in the first place. Indian men aren't stuck on themselves. The graph says out of all the groups who respond to them, they respond more to themselves. If they were stuck on themselves, their seek rate wouldn't be THE HIGHEST on the chart.

According to the chart, their horny as fuck and getting favorable response rates from everyone but Asian men, White men, and Pacific Islanders...


BUT none of that stopped you from using it to springboard onto a rant against political correctness.

I don't know

There's only about 20 guys here with a distinct personality; most of them are a blur to me.

If you can't be bothered to take the time and figure out what or who is being talked about, why are you involving other people's posts into your opinions by quoting them or quoting the people who are posting about them?

If you can't keep up, ask. If you don't want to keep up, STFU and GTFO. If you have something to say, say it. But the passive aggressive bullshit like:

I get tired of people telling me I have to feel guilty over this, that and the other. Spreading guilt doesn't change the situation.

You can keep that. It's your choice to listen to those people, and your choice to be bothered by them. Which is silly anyway because guilt is a voluntary emotion. You have to agree that you've done something worthy of it to feel it. And if you haven't then it doesn't matter, it just becomes one more baseless complaint.

 

[hungkee]

he was like "whoa, are you Asian?"

...The first thing he replied was "Are you Asian?" no 'thank you' or anything, he just asked if I was Asian.

... It just really crushes my confidence and self esteem, you know? (and yeah I know, I may have a slight self confidence issue about my race, but that's not the point here).

Well, as what is only a CaucASIAN I must say that one pet peeve of miine is when I see so many Asian guys online hiding their race. You'll often see Asian guys (and usually only Asian guys) wearing big, dark sunglasses in so many of their pics and videos.

I immediately know that they are Asian. So what exactly is the point? No one is "hiding" anything.

So I must ask if you ever try to obscure your race (via things like sunglasses) when you're sharing pics online? Because looking at the way you describe the way that conversations go online, the guys all wind up asking the same question ("Are you Asian?"). Why would they be asking that suddenly - after having gotten into an online conversation in the first place?

Secondly, I really think its dangerous (as NOT in your best interest) to derive ANY sense of self or self-esteem (or have it hurt) by what are basically complete strangers online. That is more of an issue about your relationship to the Internet than anything about your race or "race relations" in general, though.

And take a hard look at who it is that YOU'RE mainly attracted to online. Obviously you don't seem to be seeking out other Asian guys (otherwise I don't think for the most part these guys would be rejecting you based on that factor. Although...).

So if you apparently have a certain type you keep seeking out online, then, well, you have to accept that they, too, have their type/s.

But really, Asians make up about 1/6th of the global population or more. So it shouldn't be impossible to find a lot of guys who might like one. lol

You're obviously playing on the wrong Internet playgrounds, btgk86. You're not going to change the minds of many guys especially when it comes to basic sexual attraction. Instead, YOU have to rethink your strategy. Expanding your playing field is all that you can do.

But then, will YOU be attracted to those non-Asians who then might find you and other Asians attractive?

Hmmm. We'll have to wait and see...