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As a gay man, I find myself very irritated by bitchy gay men.

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Of course gay men aren't the only ones who can be bitchy, straight men and women and gay women can be too of course, and that's just as irritating and annoying, but with gay men...to me...it's such a dangerous and disastrous combination: A grown man with the mindset and attitude of a high school girl? That's irritating, and I'm trying to understand what motivates men like this to act this way. Are they trying to...impress people? Is it a classic case of putting up a 'wall' to let people know they better not mess with them because they were doormats in the past and got picked on for being gay (which I could kind of understand)?

I don't know why I'm bothered by bitchy gay men in particular, I guess it's because I'm gay myself, living in a pathetic dried up wasteland like Arizona, and the only gay men I ever seem to meet are in fact bitchy and I feel like I can't relate to them or confide in them as friends because they are too busy judging me to how I dress right down to how much a blink. I feel scrutinized around them constantly and I try my best to avoid them. IDK, does anyone else feel the same way?:(
 
[humor]Oh, my god! You have just completely alienated me by your overbearing, judgmental rhetoric! We're through! You hear that? It's OVER! Don't talk to me!!! Just go back to your sad little world, and be WHATEVER![/humor]

All of the ones I know who are like this are, without exception, "Log Cabin" Republicans. The emotional development of a child and a giant entitlement complex, and they are pretty much completely closed-minded to anything that is outside their tiny, histrionic mainstream 'mo bubble world. It's disgusting.

What you are referring to is "histrionic" personality types. They are revolting to anybody who has respect for themselves, and I think it stems largely from a lack of self-respect.
 
I distance myself from bitchy gay men, bitchy women, and straight men who are assholes. A bitchy attitude is such a turnoff for me regardless of how physically attractive they are.
 
Well...I avoid anyone who talks about other people's appearances (good or bad)...or clothes...or hair...or sex life....so that pretty much takes the bulk of really bitchy people in another direction leaving me with just a few stragglers.
 
People lash out when they don't want to look inward.
 
The only bitchy gay people I've come across are effeminate gay guys and butch lesbians. They always have attitude problems for no reason, so I just stay away and leave them be.
 
The worst thing about it is that society seems to validate those traits to a certain extent in regards to sexuality. You see all these whiny, attention-seeking, superficial arseholes on TV and in the media and people seem to think it's all good because they're openly gay. Whereas stick one of the many women out there who act in the very same way and she's seen for the nasty self centred bitch that she is. It's really quite insane.
 
Most people just don't like Bitchy people in general.
 
I am a very tolerant person but my patience just went over the roof today as I was hanging out with a few friends. (I haven't really socialized much in real life since my friends graduated.) So today we are looking around the mall and stuff and the bi guy from my class whom I have known for a while but never really talked or know much about each other, just can't stop bitching. He bitched about the prices, life and class work. I really can't stand it. He also didn't really bother listen to me despite asking me questions. I haven't had the chance to give my answer but he just assumes what the answers are and go all judgy on me [-X. it pisses me off. Dude you don't know me. We never talked for more than 10 minutes throughout the 2 years I have "known" you. This just refreshed my memory why we could never get along in the first place. I find people like them annoying gay, bi or str8.
 
Sooooo, we're basically bitching about bitchy people? How ironic.

The bitchiest person I know is one of my whiny straight cousins. Negative, judgmental (Fundamentalist to boot) whiny, irritating, who won't shut the fuck up about why all the Jesus women won't date him (he's too intimidating), when he's not whining about why his boss has it in for him because he (the boss) is threatened by him.

Annoying.
 
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