Ask a straight guy with a forced bi fantasy anything

[mark08]

Hello everyone. I found this forum a few days ago and while most of the sections are definetly not for me (some fun stuff though) I thought I'd post here to share a long time fantasy of mine and maybe shed some light of the point of view of a straight guy and learn more from gay / bi point of views. I basicly found the website reading up on forced bi (strong fantasy of mine, but never acted it out). I'm currently working on that with a girl friend though. We'll see where it goes.

I must warn you though, I've read quite a few topics with straight guys having curious thoughts, etc. and one thing that really annoys me and probably any other straight guy is to be told ''Well then you're not straight! You're bi!'' Someone who's ''bi'' will be attracted to females and males. Straight guys are strictcly attracted to females. So please, if a straight guy is trying to open up, don't come up with that smart ass one liner. Not everyone is in the closet, some people are simply curious. I think wether you're gay, bi or straight, as long as you're having fun it's great. Why try and convince someone of their sexual orientation?

Anyways, you guys seem to have a great community going, keep it up. If you wanna get in the head of a straight guy go ahead and ask your questions!

 

[versatileplayer]

I hate the definitions and this compulsion from both heterosexuals and homosexuals to put people into subsets.

Here's the Kinsey scale if you like.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

Human beings don't think, feel and act the same way every single day of their lives.....

I say follow your desires - wherever they lead....

 

[easyroad]

Ok, question: how does a "forced bi" fantasy work?

 

[gingentleman]

yeah...i would like to understand that one, too.

 

[Bent-On]

What is this thread even about.

 

[paatreides]

Welcome to JUB, Mark.

Yeah, there are a lot of curious str8 guys out there, who want to know about M/M experiences - or may even want to try something. You're right it doesn't make them gay or bi. However, it places them on the Bell Curve at the "not quite 100%" mark; this is what is indicated on the Kinsey Scale.
Humans sexual proclivities - like many other species in the animal kingdom - are spread over a very wide spectrum which defies the labels society attempts to assign.

 

[quasar]

Yeah, there are a lot of people walking around with badges to pin on you. Ignore those discussions - just consider yourself to be 'sexual'.

So, tell us more about your fantasy...

 

[mark08]

I hate the definitions and this compulsion from both heterosexuals and homosexuals to put people into subsets.

Here's the Kinsey scale if you like.

Human beings don't think, feel and act the same way every single day of their lives.....

I say follow your desires - wherever they lead....

Yes I agree, I don't like ''bi, straight, gay'' either, everyone is sexual, but some people definitely have a prefere for one sex or another, wether its woman or men that's fine.

Welcome to JUB, Mark.

Yeah, there are a lot of curious str8 guys out there, who want to know about M/M experiences - or may even want to try something. You're right it doesn't make them gay or bi. However, it places them on the Bell Curve at the "not quite 100%" mark; this is what is indicated on the Kinsey Scale.
Humans sexual proclivities - like many other species in the animal kingdom - are spread over a very wide spectrum which defies the labels society attempts to assign.

Oh I'm very aware that no one is ''100%'' gay or straight, it's just that some people are ''more gay'' or ''more straight'' but I doubt many people are truly one or the other.

Yeah, there are a lot of people walking around with badges to pin on you. Ignore those discussions - just consider yourself to be 'sexual'.

So, tell us more about your fantasy...

It might sound a bit ''far fetched'', but I guess everyone has different fantasies. I'm very dominant naturally, in great shape, being into contact sports since I was a kid, etc. So I guess I'm one on those typical ''jock''. Although I don't like to think of myself as one. I'm also very much into dominating women in bed (and they are too, obviously).

I guess you could say I got bored of the routine after a while and decided to try a more submissive role with women. So I've tried strapon play twice with a gf (as in a female friend) and it was fun, definitely a very new perspective. From that point I got more interested in forced bi and male chastity and while I was talking to a girl I met who turned out to be the ''dominant kind'', she suggested a few scenarios and I did the same.

Basicly it was her idea, but she came up with this scenario of where I would have to stay in chastity a whole month and if I wanted out before, I would have to blow a guy and bottom and basicly beg for it in front of her (I know this might be common for some of you guys, but please understand how that would be a huge deal for me). To me this fantasy is not about the man on man sex, but a lot more about the loss of control, the humiliation (begging and being taken in front of a woman).

This whole thing is obviously not set in stone yet, but me and her seem to be both into it and very serious about it (maybe even her more than me ''Seeing a cocky straight guy put through that in front of me would be hilarious''), so it will probably take place eventually. We're being responsible about it though, we both read on chastity, how to approach it, hygiene, etc. And we'll of course be careful with whatever guy we bring into this (in the case where I would lose the bet lol).

So there you have it, feel free to comment or post any suggestion. Have the point of view of a gay or bi man would definitely be a plus.

 

[easyroad]

That's cool. Very nice of you.

I hate the definitions and this compulsion from both heterosexuals and homosexuals to put people into subsets.

It's futile to fight against labeling. That's what humanity has always done since the beginning of time. Biology for instance would barely exist if no one labeled all the animals. Sure, it's often corrupted by prejudice, but it's also helpful and essencial. Even when we know everything there is to know about sexuality, there'll be labels to every single stage.

And I actually prefer the Flexuality scale.

 

[bluedragon4]

You wanna a man to force you to do something? I force you to post some nude pics on here NOW! DO IT!! Do it you little bitch!

 

[mark08]

You wanna a man to force you to do something? I force you to post some nude pics on here NOW! DO IT!! Do it you little bitch!

lol I guess I'll take that as a compliment.

 

[seven2go]

^ So where are the pics.....bitch..... ....... .......

 

[stevexxx]

Hello everyone. I found this forum a few days ago and while most of the sections are definetly not for me (some fun stuff though) I thought I'd post here to share a long time fantasy of mine and maybe shed some light of the point of view of a straight guy and learn more from gay / bi point of views. I basicly found the website reading up on forced bi (strong fantasy of mine, but never acted it out). I'm currently working on that with a girl friend though. We'll see where it goes.

I must warn you though, I've read quite a few topics with straight guys having curious thoughts, etc. and one thing that really annoys me and probably any other straight guy is to be told ''Well then you're not straight! You're bi!'' Someone who's ''bi'' will be attracted to females and males. Straight guys are strictcly attracted to females. So please, if a straight guy is trying to open up, don't come up with that smart ass one liner. Not everyone is in the closet, some people are simply curious. I think wether you're gay, bi or straight, as long as you're having fun it's great. Why try and convince someone of their sexual orientation?

Anyways, you guys seem to have a great community going, keep it up. If you wanna get in the head of a straight guy go ahead and ask your questions!

your post makes no sense, so you have a forced bi fantasy??? and yu want people to ask you questions because you are straight.???confused

 

[Rex]

What is this thread even about.

That's what I was wondering.


And if you don't even consider yourself curious, what are you doing here?

 

[versatileplayer]

That's cool. Very nice of you.



It's futile to fight against labeling. That's what humanity has always done since the beginning of time. Biology for instance would barely exist if no one labeled all the animals. Sure, it's often corrupted by prejudice, but it's also helpful and essencial. Even when we know everything there is to know about sexuality, there'll be labels to every single stage.

And I actually prefer the Flexuality scale.

What if were to label the experiences rather than the people?

If someone has to hang a label on me - how about this one "sexual".

 

[easyroad]

What if were to label the experiences rather than the people?

If someone has to hang a label on me - how about this one "sexual".

By that logic, why should we separate animals, plants and bacteria? We should just call them "things that live".

I know how upsetting labels can be. My sexual preference is "Gay" which, unfortunately, has also been adopted as synonym for "everything that's wrong in the world". But I also know that labels are important to give a better understanding of sexuality and many other things. And people's ignorance just makes the need of a better understanding stronger.

 

[paatreides]

......this scenario of where I would have to stay in chastity a whole month and if I wanted out before.....

Okay - I just have to comment on this... In your research about chastity, I certainly hope the authors stressed you should not go an entire month without ejaculating.

More than a few recent studies have proven that the longer a man waits to cum, the more toxic the semen becomes for him. This is what many urologists now believe has caused an increase in prostate cancer and they are urging men to ejaculate more often. One recent study found that men who ejaculated on average 21 times per month had a 30+% lower incidence of prostate cancer.

Do not place your long term health into jeopardy to have a little bit of fun now.

Log onto the blog below and read the Hero of the Month posts.

 

[versatileplayer]

By that logic, why should we separate animals, plants and bacteria? We should just call them "things that live".

I know how upsetting labels can be. My sexual preference is "Gay" which, unfortunately, has also been adopted as synonym for "everything that's wrong in the world". But I also know that labels are important to give a better understanding of sexuality and many other things. And people's ignorance just makes the need of a better understanding stronger.

I respectfully disagree. I assert that labeling people and attempting to catagorize them like bacteria or animals is dehumanizing and confining.

 

[easyroad]

I respectfully disagree. I assert that labeling people and attempting to catagorize them like bacteria or animals is dehumanizing and confining.

But they also categorize humans by race, religion, age group, etc. Is that dehumanizing?

Outside the realm of ignorant and prejudiced people, I think having names for sexual preferences and behaviors can only help people's understanding of who they are. When a person says something so vague as "I'm sexual", you can't help but feel that this person is hiding from you.

(Not trying to convince you, just expanding on my point a bit)

 

[versatileplayer]

But they also categorize humans by race, religion, age group, etc. Is that dehumanizing?

Outside the realm of ignorant and prejudiced people, I think having names for sexual preferences and behaviors can only help people's understanding of who they are. When a person says something so vague as "I'm sexual", you can't help but feel that this person is hiding from you.

(Not trying to convince you, just expanding on my point a bit)

Yes it is dehumanizing. Perhaps one day when we all wise up these identities will dissappear.

Describing behavior is fine - labeling people is denegrating.