Ask a straight guy with a forced bi fantasy anything

[easyroad]

Yes it is dehumanizing. Perhaps one day when we all wise up these identities will dissappear.

Describing behavior is fine - labeling people is denegrating.

I just can't imagine a world without labels. It would be too weird!

But I agree on the denegrating part. Like the tabloids' obsession on women's age, weight and looks. In an ideal world, people would only use labels in good, productive ways.

 

[mark08]

Okay - I just have to comment on this... In your research about chastity, I certainly hope the authors stressed you should not go an entire month without ejaculating.

More than a few recent studies have proven that the longer a man waits to cum, the more toxic the semen becomes for him. This is what many urologists now believe has caused an increase in prostate cancer and they are urging men to ejaculate more often. One recent study found that men who ejaculated on average 21 times per month had a 30+% lower incidence of prostate cancer.

Do not place your long term health into jeopardy to have a little bit of fun now.

Log onto the blog below and read the Hero of the Month posts.

Yeah I've definitely read about that and I'm taking it into account. I highly doubt I'll go a full month, but you never know, the incentive of this scenario is pretty strong for me. (Most I've gone was 4 days and I average 1-2 daily lol) With that said, I've also read that prostate massage can help relieve that to some extent (correct me if I'm wrong) and if not, there's always ruined orgasms to flush out the sperm but not have an orgasm.

 

[Rex]

Yes it is dehumanizing. Perhaps one day when we all wise up these identities will dissappear.

Describing behavior is fine - labeling people is denegrating.

It's really not. It's a part of life.

I get the feeling that people who don't want to be labeled are more than likely gay but don't want to fess up to the critism and prejudice gays get so they choose not to pick a label.

There is no such thing as just being "sexual". You're something. Choosing not to label yourself anything just comes off as insecure to me.

 

[quasar]

^ I'd forgotten you were bisexual - you always just seem so gay!

 

[mark08]

Behold, mark08!!

It is I, illgetbi, God of the Bisexuals!

And I've come to deliver you...MAN BLISS!!!

If you are too afraid, or simply not ready...RUN NOW!

But stay...and you are ours, boy. Forever. In your wildest dreams, you've never imagined the things we're going to put you through. ​

So how's it going, Mark? Enjoying JUB? Anything I can help you with? Ask away, if so...

That's kinda what I talk about in my first post about people trying to impose sexual identities on others.

 

[strangepoetry]

That's kinda what I talk about in my first post about people trying to impose sexual identities on others.

That's a battle you're gonna lose on this forum, dude. Soon as you say you're straight or curious your entire thread will devolve into people screaming that you're a closet case or bi. It's so fucking lame and it gets old fast.

Many straight guys have tried but the same tired old bullshit starts every time.
"How can you be straight if you're here?"
Trust me, they can't help themselves. Even tho they all read your polite request to bypass that BS in your OP.

They're a bunch of angry bullies about it, so good luck trying to keep your thread from being derailed with it.

So there.

 

[stevexxx]

labels are necessary in society to put people in their place

 

[easyroad]

That's kinda what I talk about in my first post about people trying to impose sexual identities on others.

No one imposed anything on you so far in this thread. He only introduced himself in his own flashy way for laughs. You should be careful with what you accuse people of doing.

And what's even the point of this thread anyway? "Hey, guys! I'm a straight man, ask me questions"! Sorry, but we don't really have any questions. There's no need for us to "get in the head of a straight guy", and whenever we do, well, it's not like they're hard to find.

Sorry if that sounded a bit rude, hopefully you'll find something else in this message board that interests you.

labels are necessary in society to put people in their place

"Put people in their place"? People with views like this are one of the reasons why people like versatileplayer don't feel like labeling themselves.

 

[mark08]

That's a battle you're gonna lose on this forum, dude. Soon as you say you're straight or curious your entire thread will devolve into people screaming that you're a closet case or bi. It's so fucking lame and it gets old fast.

Many straight guys have tried but the same tired old bullshit starts every time.
"How can you be straight if you're here?"
Trust me, they can't help themselves. Even tho they all read your polite request to bypass that BS in your OP.

They're a bunch of angry bullies about it, so good luck trying to keep your thread from being derailed with it.

So there.

Wow someone who gets it, thanks. I seem to notice that the general trend here seems that NO man is straight and they're all closet homos and everyone is bi. Sounds more like a fantasy than reality. Can't we respect others orientations and not try and impose our own?

No one imposed anything on you so far in this thread. He only introduced himself in his own flashy way for laughs. You should be careful with what you accuse people of doing.

And what's even the point of this thread anyway? "Hey, guys! I'm a straight man, ask me questions"! Sorry, but we don't really have any questions. There's no need for us to "get in the head of a straight guy", and whenever we do, well, it's not like they're hard to find.

Sorry if that's a bit rude, hopefully there's something else in this message board that interests you.



"Put people in their place"? People with views like this are one of the reasons why people like versatileplayer don't feel like labeling themselves.

I only introduced himself in his own flashy way for laughs. You should be careful with what you accuse people of doing. See how easy that is? lol.

 

[versatileplayer]

It's really not. It's a part of life.

I get the feeling that people who don't want to be labeled are more than likely gay but don't want to fess up to the critism and prejudice gays get so they choose not to pick a label.

There is no such thing as just being "sexual". You're something. Choosing not to label yourself anything just comes off as insecure to me.

Well I routinely call myself gay - if people ask me the question. I've been married to a man for 17 years. I don't have any issue with my desire for men. I'm out to the world.

But my sexuality is my own, and I choose not to limit myself in any way shape or form. I am completely hedonistic with my sexuality, and I do what ever I want. I am versatile when I have sex with men - and I'll have sex with a woman if she excites me.

But notice how you filled in the blanks for yourself with your own thoughts because I choose not to limit myself - sounds like projection to me.

Making me choose a category is oppressive and stifling. My sexuality, as with any other part of my identity is mine, and mine alone to define.

 

[easyroad]

I only introduced himself in his own flashy way for laughs. You should be careful with what you accuse people of doing. See how easy that is? lol.

...what?

Ok, if you can point me exactly where, in illgetbi's post, he "imposed" ANY sexual identity on YOU, then we'll talk.

If, however, your problem is that he expressed himself and HIS OWN sexual identity... well, then a forum like JUB is not really your place, is it?

Well I routinely call myself gay - if people ask me the question. I've been married to a man for 17 years. I don't have any issue with my desire for men. I'm out to the world.

But my sexuality is my own, and I choose not to limit myself in any way shape or form. I am completely hedonistic with my sexuality, and I do what ever I want. I am versatile when I have sex with men - and I'll have sex with a woman if she excites me.

Then why not be completely honest and add that to your description? You could be ambisexual (in case you're a Kinsey 3), or polyamorous (if you're not monogamous and can fall in love with many people), or supersexual (if you're only in it for the sex), or, most likely, queer (if you don't like labels - which we all know you don't ).

If there's a term for what you are, then why hide it? Why use something else? Why not adopt it?

 

[strangepoetry]

Wow someone who gets it, thanks. I seem to notice that the general trend here seems that NO man is straight and they're all closet homos and everyone is bi. Sounds more like a fantasy than reality. Can't we respect others orientations and not try and impose our own?

Told you, man. No matter how nicely you ask, they'll keep harping at you about it. It's awful when you consider that they themselves had to fight to be accepted as they are. It's shameful.

My advice: LIE! Call yourself Bi just so they'll shut the fuck up.

In this forum, straight guys have to pretend to be gay or bi to have a minute of peace, or a momentary break, from their accusations. Reverse of the outside world.

The Straight and Bi Guys title of this sub-forum is a completely misleading misdirection of intentions.

 

[Krakenbwool]

Yeah, sadly this forum does scare people off sometimes. Smh.

I still find it weird that gay men have to come over here and impose judgement on others, though. I don't see it any different from "straight" trolls who go to other sections of the site and act like idiots.

 

[GiacomoPisani]

i fully understand this guy, he is a heterosexual guy who is willing to talk about the difference between homoseuxal and heterosexual sexual arousal.he wants us to ask him questions about what he has in his heterosexual mind.he seems such a kind guy.thanks mark!!

now question number one ,how the heck can you even find sexually appealing body bits that you don't have in your own body,does that make you feel masculine ,like instead of feeling a cock,you prefer to feel a vulva,for that purpose? how come? how come you are not disgusted by the opposite sex body parts,and they are so unwilling to swallow body fluids that they were born with,and yet it seems that you don't have any problem by the fact that the opposite sex find disgusting what you find so pleasurable? how come? why loving what the opposite sex doesn't love,why desiring and craving body parts that the opposite sex deems nasty,for instance, they even tell you that vaginal secretions taste and look disgusting, then how come you,the one who wasn't born a female crave what they don't like? what sort of game is that? is this the way that we are supposed to have a healthy sexual relationship with someone who doesn't have the same body bits as ourselves?
why is it that we the gays do not desire to get pleasure and sexual stimuli with the body parts that the opposite sex rejects,and which are not inborn in us.Do you think that we the gays are fools for not contradicting the opposite sex like you do,or are we doing the right ethical and intelligent thing?

why is it that when gays ask bisexual/straight people to give us coherent answers they always give us bogus ones,or worse, they get offended and feel attacked?
and i ask you,would it be an intelligent decision to be willing to reject my own sex,not taste cock,semen,etc, and instead completely immerse myself into a sexuality and sexual belonging that is even fake,for instance ,no matter how i try to consider the opposite sex in a sexual way,i can't because i'm unable to get sexual arousal with weird looking anatomical structures,i mean,i find a little bit kinky having sex with someone who instead of having testicles,semen,and cock, have completely different body parts,that doesn't seems right to my brain. My brain seems not to be willing to get sexual arousal with body parts and smells that my body doesn't have.it seems as if i were stretching it or trying too hard to belong to something that my own subconsciousness tells me that i don't belong to.
this is why if i were with a woman i would sort of feel out of place,like a guest in somebody else house,eventually i'm gonna feel the need and the longing for my own sexuality,that can be only given to me by other males like me,why do you think that this sexual feeling of belonging is so weak in straight men and so strong in gay men? manhood? fagots vs real men? social status?
how much is too much,for a heterosexual to be able to realize the caliber of their sexual desires?

 

[easyroad]

Told you, man. No matter how nicely you ask, they'll keep harping at you about it. It's awful when you consider that they themselves had to fight to be accepted as they are. It's shameful.

My advice: LIE! Call yourself Bi just so they'll shut the fuck up.

In this forum, straight guys have to pretend to be gay or bi to have a minute of peace, or a momentary break, from their accusations. Reverse of the outside world.

The Straight and Bi Guys title of this sub-forum is a completely misleading misdirection of intentions.

Who's harping him? Did you read all the posts? You two keep going on and on about this but there isn't a single person in this thread saying he's not straight. In fact, he's the least interesting person here, since the discussion completely derailed from his original intention.

All that's happened was: illgetbi made a funny post and all of a sudden he went "Waaah! The gays are imposing their sexual identities on me!".

I believe in you when you say straight guys get a hard time in this forum. I've seen some stupid STUPID things being posted elsewhere. But that doesn't give anyone the right to come up with false accusations.

 

[paatreides]

Yeah I've definitely read about that and I'm taking it into account. I highly doubt I'll go a full month, but you never know, the incentive of this scenario is pretty strong for me. (Most I've gone was 4 days and I average 1-2 daily lol) With that said, I've also read that prostate massage can help relieve that to some extent (correct me if I'm wrong) and if not, there's always ruined orgasms to flush out the sperm but not have an orgasm.

I wouldn't count on prostate massage to help remove the toxins - it typically isn't performed on a regular enough basis. Prostate massage is used to manipulate the fluids, ostensibly to be flushed out through urination.

Question: How would a ruined orgasm flush out semen (cause we're talking about semen toxicity, not sperm cells) without an ejaculation? Don't see how that can happen.

 

[versatileplayer]

...what?

Ok, if you can point me exactly where, in illgetbi's post, he "imposed" ANY sexual identity on YOU, then we'll talk.

If, however, your problem is that he expressed himself and HIS OWN sexual identity... well, then a forum like JUB is not really your place, is it?



Then why not be completely honest and add that to your description? You could be ambisexual (in case you're a Kinsey 3), or polyamorous (if you're not monogamous and can fall in love with many people), or supersexual (if you're only in it for the sex), or, most likely, queer (if you don't like labels - which we all know you don't ).

If there's a term for what you are, then why hide it? Why use something else? Why not adopt it?

Because the healthiest thing to do is not "pick a team." Sexuality is fluid.

Express yourself don't repress yourself.

 

[mark08]

I wouldn't count on prostate massage to help remove the toxins - it typically isn't performed on a regular enough basis. Prostate massage is used to manipulate the fluids, ostensibly to be flushed out through urination.

Question: How would a ruined orgasm flush out semen (cause we're talking about semen toxicity, not sperm cells) without an ejaculation? Don't see how that can happen.

Well ruined orgasms are basicly an ejaculation, but with no feeling of orgasm. Letting go at the point of no return and then waiting. So it would flush out the semen without bringing any pleasure.

 

[drewthesaltyboy]

What would you do if an attractive (to you) young guy hit on you?

*By attractive to you, I mean that you would agree that he is good looking.

 

[easyroad]

Because the healthiest thing to do is not "pick a team." Sexuality is fluid.

Express yourself don't repress yourself.

It's not picking a team, it's giving an accurate description. You can even say "it might change", doesn't matter, but saying you're "sexual" is the exact opposite of "expressing yourself".