Hmmm, maybe some random questions will help then. What is/are your: Favorite Food? Favorite Sport? Favorite physical quality in a guy? Favorite personality quality in a guy? Biggest fear? Favorite nonsexual activity? Favorite word? Favorite Insult? Pet Peeves? Favorite Animal? Favorite class in high school? Least favorite class in high school? Favorite fairytale?
Now some either/or's: Manly Girl or Girly Man (in terms of coworker or friend), Drive-by or Hand to Hand, Belly button or tongue piercing, Cake or Pie, Escargot or Pâté, Oysters or Lobster, Anorexic or Bulimic, Kiwi or Strawberry, Sushi or Crudo, Japanese or Chinese, Korean or Vietnamese, Flowers or Chocolate, Slap or Punch, Diarrhea or Vomit, E-mail or Instant Message, Text Message or Voice Mail, Chocolate or Vanilla, Pancakes or Waffles, Bath or Shower, Love or Lust, eyeliner or concealer, Hip Hop or Pop,... yeah, that's enough, I'm bored now.