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I'm socially awkward as my name says.
This isn't an "I'm in love with a straight guy" thread. I thought about posting this in the Straight/Bi forums, but thought it might be moved here.
I asked a coworker if he wanted to go to an amusement park and he did, but he's working and we have different days off. He lamented on how expensive the park was. I know he works 2 jobs and so splurging on an amusement park may not be in his budget. I have a membership and can get him in free.
I didn't mention it when asking him, because I didn't want it to come off like I was trying to "buy his friendship" or something.
He said he had to work, so I left it at that. We always have good conversation, but that doesn't mean somebody wants to hang out with you, outside of work. Part of me, feels if he wanted to go, he'd ask when I was next going, etc
Should I tell him that he can get in free with me, or let it go?
It's not like I can tell him to call out, so I should forget it. Right? I want him to call out and come, but that's the immature side of me. We work in a warehouse and calling out every now and then, isn't frowned upon.
I would never ask him to call out, but the immature side of me wants him to say, "You can get me in free? Fcuk it, I'm calling out." I actually rarely call out, so I'm not irresponsible or anything like that. He doesn't work during the time we'd be going, but I know he wouldn't want to come back to work after walking around a park all day, and neither would I. The importance of the day is it's the last day I can bring someone for free, or I'd just ask him if he wanted to go another time.
Feel free to tell me how immature I am. I as of now am letting it go, but part of me decided to ask for other opinions. I could ask other people, but the environment of my workplace is that everyone would want me to get them in for free, and I don't necessarily like many people there.
This isn't an "I'm in love with a straight guy" thread. I thought about posting this in the Straight/Bi forums, but thought it might be moved here.
I asked a coworker if he wanted to go to an amusement park and he did, but he's working and we have different days off. He lamented on how expensive the park was. I know he works 2 jobs and so splurging on an amusement park may not be in his budget. I have a membership and can get him in free.
I didn't mention it when asking him, because I didn't want it to come off like I was trying to "buy his friendship" or something.
He said he had to work, so I left it at that. We always have good conversation, but that doesn't mean somebody wants to hang out with you, outside of work. Part of me, feels if he wanted to go, he'd ask when I was next going, etc
Should I tell him that he can get in free with me, or let it go?
It's not like I can tell him to call out, so I should forget it. Right? I want him to call out and come, but that's the immature side of me. We work in a warehouse and calling out every now and then, isn't frowned upon.
I would never ask him to call out, but the immature side of me wants him to say, "You can get me in free? Fcuk it, I'm calling out." I actually rarely call out, so I'm not irresponsible or anything like that. He doesn't work during the time we'd be going, but I know he wouldn't want to come back to work after walking around a park all day, and neither would I. The importance of the day is it's the last day I can bring someone for free, or I'd just ask him if he wanted to go another time.
Feel free to tell me how immature I am. I as of now am letting it go, but part of me decided to ask for other opinions. I could ask other people, but the environment of my workplace is that everyone would want me to get them in for free, and I don't necessarily like many people there.
