Asking a straight guy

[Bittersweet]

Has anyone here ever asked a straight guy if you could jerk him off?

I told a friend that I am attracted to that i am bi-curious and he seemed fine with that. He did make it clear that he was not bi-curious though.

I feel close enough to him to at least ask to try something with him, but i'm afraid of pushing him too far. i definitely dont want things to become uncomfortable, but i literally think about/fantasize about him everyday.

advice?

 

[sixthson]

You don't need our advice. He already told you he is not curious. Control yourself or you will damage your friendship.

 

[Seasoned]

It's time to look for a willing partner. Bottled up sexual engery can turn any of us into predators. There's a world of willing guys waiting for you. Good luck.

 

[TX-Beau]

Plus using him as an experiment isn't the nicest thing to do plus it's kinda selfish.

"...You told me you're not gay and not interested, but I am and I think you're hot so pull out your cock and let me play with it...."


Hmmmmmm....

 

[TX-Beau]

Missed the part about you fantasizing about him all the time.

(pulling out standard answers 1-3)

You need to go find some guys who will like you back. It's so much better when they'll touch your cock.

He already told you no. It doesn't matter what he is, he TOLD YOU NO. If you don't respect that you aren't his friend.

You are fixating on this guy because it's safe - you don't have to take any risks, you know it won't go anywhere, you don't have to put yourself out there in a context where other people will KNOW.

This is really common - most of us have been there, but you aren't going to find a guy until you can get out of your house and let other guys who like guys know that you're interested.

Obsessing on your straight friends just ends up losing you your straight friends, they're not interested, they don't want to see your cock, they don't want to hear you love them, they aren't secretly in the closet, and they most definitely aren't going to fall for you and become your boyfriend.

We all hate it when people just make the ASSUMPTION that we can stop being gay if we really wanted to, but then turn around pull that same shit with every hot straight guy we lust after.

Time to nip this in the bud.

DO NOT attempt to hit on/confess to/sigh at/pine after etc. some guy you can't have and never will. It's not healthy and kinda pathetic.

Think about it.

 

[Rolyo85]

Also, you describe yourself as "bi-curious"?

 

[lockeroomguy]

Watch some straight porn together, if it gets to the point where you are both jerking off, he might show some interest in a helping hand.

 

[Telstra]

Has anyone here ever asked a straight guy if you could jerk him off?

I told a friend that I am attracted to that i am bi-curious and he seemed fine with that. He did make it clear that he was not bi-curious though.

I feel close enough to him to at least ask to try something with him, but i'm afraid of pushing him too far. i definitely dont want things to become uncomfortable, but i literally think about/fantasize about him everyday.

advice?

No means no and he did say no he is not interested.

Find someone else who is interested.

 

[rareboy]

Your friend should not be a project.

It is predatory and kind of creepy.

But let's just say you are successful.

Okay, so now you've jerked him off. Now what?

 

[ben9651]

It sums up to this :
Is it worth risking your friendship with him?!

 

[altlover85]

I think there's been some great advice already given, but I'd like to add that while most of us here have probably had crushes on our straight friends, a lot of us have found that those crushes will subside once we've been able to meet other gay guys.