A BBC fantasy seems so foreign to me. My brain just doesn't operate on that level. To me, it'd be like...well, fantasizing about driving a yellow car. I'd be thinking "how does it feel? how does it drive? where would I take it?", and it seems everybody else is excited because it's yellow.
My fantasies are legion, and all over the map. Clearly, not all of them will be fulfilled, for a variety or reasons.
Some of my fantasies are
literally impossible. I will never fuck a werewolf or minotaur, because they don't exist.
Some of my fantasies are
financially impossible. I cannot go visit every JUBber I want to have sex with (and that would enjoy giving the gargoyle a go) because I don't have that kind of money. Or, similarly, I can't set up a nice hotel room and fly in JUBbers to spend weekends with me.
Some of my fantasies are
legally impossible. I can't be in a wrestling match in a crowded gym, and after pinning ky opponent, start fucking him right there on the wrestling mat in front of everybody. (I also can't wrestle.)
Some of my fantasies are
physically impossible. I can't get a group of younger smaller guys, and have sex with them one after the other all through the night. (This might cost a pretty penny, too.)
And yes, I do have some fantasies that are
theoretically possible. I'd like to go to bed with an exceptionally muscular guy, for instance, be ause I love the idea of "exploring" him. This probably won't ever happen, but it at least is more likely than the minotaur.
And this doesn't mean none of my fantasies ever come true. I met a guy online years ago, and got to know him. I fantasized about meeting him in the flesh, and having a weekend of awesome sex with him. And eventually, I did exactly that. Twice, in fact.
But I don't find my unfulfilled fantasies to be depressing. The sheer fact that they're fantasies is why mine are so outlandish. Anything gies in fantasyland, so why not push things to the limits and beyond? And that's why "BBC" seems like such an odd fantasy to me. I can kind of relate it to my muscluar-guy fantasy, I guess. But a BBC could be the guy on the wrestling mat, or the muscular guy, or one of the JUBbers - but the fact that it's a black guy or a big-cocked guy would be secondary.
Lex