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I was drinking with a friend for the first time during a Christmas party. I had a little too much to drink and became super attached to him. He took care of me and we got intimate. I got drunk again days later with him and other friends only to realize that I was still attached to him. I needed to have him next to me and have him take care of me. I haven't had prior feelings for this friend before getting drunk, but am beginning to realize post-drunk feelings for him. I am not sure if this is just something that's rooted from being drunk. Do I have feelings for him, or is this just a temporary attachment I have because he was the first person I got drunk with?
 
I find that when I'm drunk at a party I always find one person that I'm attached to the rest of the night. By the end of the night I'm usually closer with that person, this could be what is happening between you and your friend.
 
I find that when I'm drunk at a party I always find one person that I'm attached to the rest of the night. By the end of the night I'm usually closer with that person, this could be what is happening between you and your friend.

Is it temporary? Thanks for your input.
 
Why don't you just sit quietly and try to think this one through?

And try not to get wasted just so that you can 'open up' and express some kind of feelings for others.
 
The drug, alcohol, lowers inhibitions so my guess is that you just had an easier time doing something you could do or want to do sober.
 
It could be just a temporary thing. I remembered last month when my good friend got really drunk at her birthday party, she keep hugging me and some of her friends and doesn't want to let go.
 
This sort of happened to me once... I am posting the entire story since this is the thread I think it would fit best in...

My male cousin and I are considered by many to be in a "bromance"... we don't use the term but I can see why peope say that... We do go out to eat and see movies with just the two of us and take a ton of shit for it! Anyway, I consider myself bisexual, I have mostly history and interest in girls and secretly do find some guys attractive (however it is rare for me to find someone I know attractive, mostly actors or atheletes I guess)... I am 23 and he is 21... we both look pretty similar at 5'11... he is about 170 and i am 155... we workout a couple times a week (I am leaner and more defined while he is bulkier... we decided it is cool cuz when there are ladies around I can show my abs and he can flash his guns... joking of course)... brown eyes and buzzed brown hair!

ANYWAY, we were out of state drinking with some friends and decided to stay att their house... Everyone ended up going their separate ways to go to bed and us two crashed in the living room on the coach (its an L shape so we each took a length of the coach and our heads were at the joint)... We were watching TV and he passed out snoring on his back... I was still up and couldn't fall asleep because of him so I put a pillow on his head... he moved so only mouth was showing! I looked over and for the first time thought about kissing him (so weird looking back on it)... so I poked his mouth a few times with my finger to see if he would move (he was out like nobodys business) and then lightly pecked his mouth... He didn't react and was breathing heavy so I made out with him for like 10 seconds, thought it was weird, and went back to bed!!!

Next day I felt really guilty and wrong and have no idea why I was motivated to do that! For some reason I was drunk and just got the urge to do that, but I would NEVER do that when sober... My only thought is I really do love the kid (like a brother) and it was some sort of affection... idk but being an attached drunk reminded me of this...
 
Thats normal im assuming. one day I goy drunk at a friends house and everyone there was in a relationship. I felt left out I had recently stopped talking to this guy (we were dating). because he had told me he was also seeing someone else at the time and that I was his back up man if the other guy didn't want to get with him I felt appalled so I stopped talking to him and for some strange reason I really missed him a lot. I messaged him on Facebook I told him everything it felt good to get it off my chest and then I told him I was drunk .andthat I was sorry he never replied. ..| your feeling for the person just tend to come out more with alcohol
 
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