Attraction to straight men...

[eurogay36]

A str8 guy is so sexy when having gay sex ;-)

 

[pjlikesporn]

The worst is the straight guy who loves the attention so he encourages you and flirts with you and makes you think you stand a chance. I've wasted a lot of time on guys like that. Then again, I guess I've also sucked off a couple of straight guys, so it's really hard to tell the difference ahead of time.

 

[thewiz]

A few weeks ago I was at one of the clubs on a Thursday night with some friends and one was attracted to this handsome guy standing by himself. He made a remark to me two or three times so I approached the guy and said my friend thought he was very good looking.

He came over, turns out he had large "X" marks on his hands which meant he was not 21. My friend "shared" some of his beverages with the guy, they talked for quite a while, even began some slight pecking. The guy suddenly told my friend that he was "straight" and that he had just come there to see who was out since his room mates didn't move into his college dorm until the following weekend. Rrrrriiiiiigggghhhht. You go to a gay bar on college night, use your college ID; you've been in town for two years; your roommates are out; you do a light kissing with a guy and you are totally straight.

I around straight guys all the time; have many friends who are straight; never been a problem. I seem to know when a guy is gay (good gaydar). No interest in trying to convert someone when I find gay guys hotter and much more attractive.

 

[Soilwork]

This is going to make me a lot of enemies...

but i've found that the more self-loathing and wrought with issues the guy.. the more likely he is to make self-destructive decisons like doing drugs, having unsafe sex and flling for straight men.

I knew one guy who was a freaking BAG of issues... we'd go to the Abbey for drinks... all of us would have a great time meeting men and making frineds and picking up and having a good time... he's spend his entire evening flirting with the straight bartenders, over-tipping them and making a total ass of himself and then go home alone.

OR he'd go to the sex clubs and in his drunken stupor not remember if he used condoms or not.

I knew another guy from a staunch Republican family who was 30 and not out to them.. he would find these 18-20 year old straight rent boys, pay them gross amounts of money, let them live with him rent free and see them when they weren't out with their girlfriends or turning tricks... and he'd call them "My house boy", even though all they did at the house was eat the food and leave the dishes.

All this crap about how "You can't choose who you fall in love with" is just that.. crap.

True, you don't have a lot of conscious choices about that, but I bet if all these straight guy worshipers would deal with the underlying issues that make them go for the worst possible guys for them... well, they'd soon start to be more attracted to guys who were actually GOOD for them.

And for the record, I know plenty of masculine gay men who like sports.

 

[phoneguy2]

The worst is the straight guy who loves the attention so he encourages you and flirts with you and makes you think you stand a chance. I've wasted a lot of time on guys like that. Then again, I guess I've also sucked off a couple of straight guys, so it's really hard to tell the difference ahead of time.

I agree with this.

There are straight men that wouldn't consider having sex with a gay guy but do get off on the attention they can recieve from one. In my opinion, that is the worst game as it gives off the wrong signals and leads to heart ache for the gay guy.

As the saying goes "Been there, done that"

Wally

 

[iflookscouldkill]

I swear the majority of the men I am attracted to are straight. I like that masculine characteristic that you find in most straight guys, you know watching sports, and guy flixs etc. Like there is this one guy at the gym that I'm really in to. This guy is fucken gorgeous and a really nice guy. He's polite and courteous, and always nice to me, which obviously doesn't mean he's gay. As much as I like this dude I'm not gonna try and figure out if he's gay or not. Previously when I found out that my crushes were straight it kind of hurt.

Story of my life...that's all I'm attracted to it seems

 

[_AJ_]

i tend to not be attracted to straight guys
yeah some straight guys can be cute but they wont want to be there emotionaly or love me the way i want a guy to love me

 

[Rali_hates_Mondays]

We should make a new name for those gays trying to convert straight guys. I think "Smithers" from the Simpsons would be wholly appropiate for them!

 

[iflookscouldkill]

I also feel an attraction to straight men. Allow me however to explain this.

I am attracted by a group of characteristics that are more common on straight men. These characteristics however 'do' exist in gay men too, but I consider finding such a man very rare.

I am attracted to the clarity and simplicity that straight guys seem to have. A more relaxed and honest attitude towards life. In my opinion, we gay men are very often complicated with far more things to deal than the average Joe. Not many realise that.

I am also attracted by the way that most straight men appear to be confident and ready to prove themselves to others. Most gay men know better and have faced allot more trouble, so tend to be a bit more passive, prim and proper towards many things in life.
I think all that 'drive' that straight men have seems to be their most interesting feature.

Where can you find a confident, honest and uncomplicated gay man? Or at least a gay guy who actually knows what he wants?

I would really like to know.

You said it perfectly, that's exactly how I feel.

 

[Soilwork]

I look straight myself.

Yeah, I've heard that from SO many guys who are so obviosuly gay... they think they're totally stealth, but anyone with two clues knows they're a big fag.

Not saying that's you..

I've said it so many times that I feel sick to my stomach. There are plenty of gay men out there who don't show those outward signs of being gay.. other than having sex with men. All this crap about gay people all being one way and straight men all being another is SO lame it's bordering on pathetic.

I know plenty of neurotic striaght men and plenty of laid-back gay men. You just need to pop your head out of your ass to meet them.

 

[foolish082]

I've always been into straight seeming guys. A lot of guys I assumed were gay weren't and a lot I thought were straight were gay. My rationale is that if I wanted a girly man, I'd just date a girl. I like guys who seem more masculine. I'm not a queen and I don't want to be with one. No offense to anyone. All about being your true self, I just couldn't see myself with anyone like that romantically.