Back in the Game

[BowtieGuy]

Well, I would have to get to know them first. It's all part of the mating ritual. You do the dance and get to know them. Anything could happen. Learning if they are cut or not, is also one of those things you eventually learn.

When I was playing sports in high school and college, we would shower. You see it, you know it and you move on. Doesn't change the fact that many guys are good guys. Just changes whether or not you would want to explore with them sexually.

 

[BowtieGuy]

Alright, well I am back in Boston, NYC and SFO in October. Who wants to grab a tea?

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

YEah, I always wait until I've dated them for a bit before I get them naked and THAT is when i find out what the dick looks like.

SO not important to me.

 

[Corny]

^ it is for the OP, that's why I said it. otherwise it would be quite sassy, even for me

 

[BowtieGuy]

It's not that important to me, but I do want them cut. Aside from that, size doesn't matter. Average will suffice.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

It's not that important to me, but I do want them cut. Aside from that, size doesn't matter. Average will suffice.

I mean... I prefer uncut dicks. But I date men... Not body parts.

 

[G-Lexington]

Ah. I wouldn't call that "pretext". To me, that implies pretense and deception and what not. I call it "getting to know him".

>>>It's not that important to me, but I do want them cut.

The thing is - it's surprising how many "deal-breakers" end up NOT being deal-breakers when it comes down to it. Chances are, if you met a guy, really hit it off, got to know him, really found him appealing, went to bed with him, and found him uncut...you wouldn't throw it all over. I've found it best to keep your options way open. My list of dealbreakers is pretty minimal - no major criminal record, no litany of spectacularly failed relationships, no heavy drug use, and so forth. Then I just see who I connect with.

Lex

 

[BowtieGuy]

I mean... I prefer uncut dicks. But I date men... Not body parts.

Ah. I wouldn't call that "pretext". To me, that implies pretense and deception and what not. I call it "getting to know him".

>>>It's not that important to me, but I do want them cut.

The thing is - it's surprising how many "deal-breakers" end up NOT being deal-breakers when it comes down to it. Chances are, if you met a guy, really hit it off, got to know him, really found him appealing, went to bed with him, and found him uncut...you wouldn't throw it all over. I've found it best to keep your options way open. My list of dealbreakers is pretty minimal - no major criminal record, no litany of spectacularly failed relationships, no heavy drug use, and so forth. Then I just see who I connect with.

Lex

I understand what you guys are saying. Just like I would expect no criminal record, no drug use, no liquor abuse, etc; I think I have just come to realize that this is what I am looking for, just like others have come to expect certain other conditions. For example, size is an issue for many. It's not an issue for me. As far as a deal breaker is concerned, sex is part of a relationship. If the sex isn't good, then it would ultimately lead to the relationship falling apart. Furthermore, someone who is spectacular in bed isn't going to win any awards if he's running from the fuzz.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

I'm not sure I'd put having a foreskin in the same category of being an addict or a felon... but I guess everyone's got their "things."

Seriously, though... dating is more than finding a guy who fits a set of parameters... you're looking for a soul mate, not a house keeper.