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Bad First Time

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So I had my first experience with a guy the other day in a restroom. I don't know if it was him or me, but I pretty much hated it. I think I am a lot more gay than I am straight, but it was not what I was expecting it to be. Hate to be a downer, but anyone ever do anything with a guy and realize it wasn't really what you wanted anymore?
 
I'm assuming it was a hookup? Either way it was in a bathroom. Doesn't sound comfortable/fun at all. I've had a few hookups with guys because I was so horny I needed to fuck, EVERY single time after the sex I would feel gross, dirty, and hate guys in general LMAO.

It sounds more like the situation itself and possibly the guy..Also, it was your first time.
 
Not to put you down, but I hardly see how a random hook up with a stranger in a restroom will ever be anything but disappointing.

Get to know a guy, have some fun. Spend some time together and let the sex happen later (In a bed perhaps, if you have one handy).

I've had a hook up or two and I've been with a couple guys I actually cared about. Hookups can be fun sometimes, but I've never enjoyed anything more than being with my loving boyfriend.

Hang in there man, it'll get better
 
It wasn't like I fucked him or anything, he jerked me off at a urinal. But i get what your saying. The thing is, I didn't even like the feel of his dick in my hand when I touched it. It just didn't feel as good as I had hoped. And the environment wasn't the best either. There were 5 guys in the bathroom so it was a little nerve racking. I just don't even feel like I wanna do it anymore though. :confused:
 
Well nobody is making you do anything.

Just take some time and see what happens. If you decide to try it again later, you'll know better than to do something like this in a crowded bathroom.

Live and learn
 
If that had been my first time I'd be questioning things too...I really lucked out and had a very caring guy that was hot, sweet, and took the time to do it right even though he was a total horndog. "Will the Marine", if you're out there, I owe you one.

There were a lot of experiences after that that, if they had been my first time, I would have given up.
 
I know for me the first time was not not what I expected either. But it was okay. It was with a guy I knew for a while and dreamed about being with. Sometimes, I think we dream about it being so prefect and everything must go a certain planned way. Just let it go with the flow. That helped me and I am very happy.
 
random hook ups will only be fun like maybe 10% of the time as opposed to hooking up with someone u get to know first

not only do you get a vibe for a persons interests.. like say whether or not he will be aggressive in bed and take charge or more submissive and want u to do all the work... but you also get the chance to back out of the situation entirely because you two don't click...

almost every guy i've been with where it was random no strings attached sex has been a disappointment for me and i usually end up jerking off again after they leave because it just wasn't good enough
 
bored22492 said:
I'm assuming it was a hookup? Either way it was in a bathroom. Doesn't sound comfortable/fun at all. I've had a few hookups with guys because I was so horny I needed to fuck, EVERY single time after the sex I would feel gross, dirty, and hate guys in general LMAO.

It sounds more like the situation itself and possibly the guy..Also, it was your first time.
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i will second that bit in black. this has happened a number of times to me and i think it's just what we personally are comfortable with. sounds like this type of guy/guy action is not really for you. try a date and see how it goes from their.
 
ok, don't necessarily give up on hookups. just don't do it in public in a bathroom and with a probably sketchy guy. i had many private bedroom hookups before trying out the bathroom. and bathrooms are never fun.
 
Glorified "hookups" suck! I'm in the airforce and hooked up with a navy guy i wasn't really into but one thing lead to another, it was my first time in a WHILE like 6 years a while and my second time bottoming, first time with a white guy...... needless to say after he came 3 times and asked how it was i was speechless and not in a good way lol.. point being sex is SO much better when it is with someone you click with and have a bond with, or actually have feelings for not just lust. But hey thats just my humble opinion

DADT=6 years of wondering if i'd get caught and kicked out
 
Bathrooms get soo many interruptions. Not as fun. You don't even need sex to enjoy being with a guy. I know quite a few guys who don't feel the need to have sex...so never feel pressured :)
 
well i think everyone have up and downs on first times... to me not the first time but later the 3rd time :P oh my god i still remember that its burned in my brain for ever lol.

I met this man from some nude profiles (the site is awesome!!) i was watching the mature men there and i saw this one that lives in my city.. (weeks later) he was preparing and started doing me (because he got somewhat hard and he wanted to do me first)

No problem with me, i dont know what happen i wasnt expecting something like that, he says he's close to finish and he started screaming/groaning and saying stuff like (translating to english) "ooww baby, ah baby, ohh god" all at the same time!! i was just there like this O_O *random cough, cricket chirping* i lost the hard-on lol i got up, clean myself and said "i have class in 1 hour, so i have to go".. he said it was nice if i loved it because he did and i just let the questiong hang there lol

now i think about it and i just laugh but i was annoyed and scared at the same time lol now i ask them politely what are the habits when orgasming if they say "oh i'm loud" lol i just go like "Um... RRIIIIIIIIIIIGHT!!.. bye bye :)"
 
Alex55 said:
Bathrooms get soo many interruptions. Not as fun. You don't even need sex to enjoy being with a guy. I know quite a few guys who don't feel the need to have sex...so never feel pressured :)
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That's good advice right there.

My boyfriend and I have not had sex yet, but we are very close and love each other very much. Sex is great and all, but I really love just laying in bed holding each other, or going out and having some fun.

Funny thing is, we met on craigslist. I think most people know what guys on there are looking for, but every once in a while a good one pops up. I just got extremely lucky and snagged an amazing man. Point is, it can happen anywhere, and it doesn't have to be about sex if you don't want it to be.
 
Yeah I would go with trying it not in a scuzzy bathroom if you want to find out if you like it or not. It isn't that hard to find someone to do somewhere more pleasant.
 
Jackt1987 said:
...anyone ever do anything with a guy and realize it wasn't really what you wanted anymore?
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after years of wanting to suck one ov ma str8 friends cock (a nice 8") and it finally happened, and he only lasted about 3 to 4 mins before he nutted. i was very disappointed that I waited all those years for "that"!](*,)
 
It really falls down to the chemistry you feel with the guy. I've had times where I thought I was into the guy, only to find out during the "deed", that I didn't feel connected at all. That's when you honestly say," I'm sorry, but this isn't going to work. I'm sorry we let it get to this point". "Maybe we can try again sone other time". Point is, you have to feel comfortable about what and who you're "doing"....
 
Did you even want to be with the guy that jerked you off?
Or was it like one of thoes things that just happen and you can't stop it until its over?
Sounds to me like it was more of the who then the where?
 
bad sex happens. i remember the first time i got head from a dude. i froze and made him stop because i was thinking "fuck i'm with a dude" but we smoked some put then i chillaxed and later fucking came all over his face.
 
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