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Bad sex rant.

I think I'm a bit confused. Is this supposed to be a bad rant about sex, or a rant about bad sex? And usually isn't the receiver of the bad sex the one to rant about it?
 
lucky7 said:
If you think anyone is being judgemental here, you dont know the OP's history.

This guy needs serious help.
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Indeed.

Considering how many times he's come onto these boards to bash gay men, I hardly think he deserves our sympathy or respect.
 
At some point, continuing to kick the obviously mentally ill is just gauche.
 
Seriously, go see a therapist who's not a quack and ask about personality disorders. I'm thinking you have Histrionic and/or Borderline Personality Disorder alongside some sort of rapid-cycling bipolar disorder, possibly bipolar type II.

I'm not a psychiatrist, but I think you should go to a different therapist and ask about those things. Also, for God's sake, Adderall isn't doing you ANY good. That stuff is a form of amphetamine (speed, ice, bennies, uppers, etc.). Get off of that stuff and onto a drug that will actually do you some good.

http://www.drugs.com/adderall.html = information on Adderall. A side-effect that's not listed on that site, that I know of only from my research on street drugs, is that excessive amounts of amphetamines can result in irritability and extreme mood swings, which are two personality quirks that you have displayed quite frequently here on JUB. In my unprofessional opinion, the amount of Adderall you're taking is probably way too high; you've mentioned the dosage being increased before. Go see a new therapist, explain what the problems are and ask him about personality disorders and bipolar disorder. And please, ask him to get you off of the Adderall and give you a drug that actually works for you.
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Extremely good advice.
 
lovewill said:
Well...Yall feel free to keep arguing over my life... Umm... In case you all need an update...I'm making tea... Can't wait to hear how wrong I am for it. hahaha...
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You know, I honestly can't iMAGine why I thought you were an attention whore. :roll:
 
lovewill, I say this with full compassion--you are your own worst enemy on these boards. You don't really ever show any signs of truly "listening" or absorbing real and solid feedback; there's no sense of growth or enlightenment in your words when people do try to be understanding and offer something constructive. And yet, you flame out completely and throw yourself on the martyr pile as soon as someone says something incendiary.

You're the kid on the playground who shares/leaks heavy shit with everyone, but doesn't show the appropriate corresponding emotion, so everyone is left feeling either awkward around you, or suspicious about your intentions behind sharing in the first place. It feels like you have this hole inside of you, and you're willing to just provoke any kind of reaction to fill it, but really only respond to the ones you can use to show how wounded and misunderstood you are.

But here's the thing, lovewill--the people on this forum didn't create that hole inside of you, and ultimately we can't fill it either. We all get the idea that you're wounded, and we even understand far more than you think we do. But you've burned numerous chances here playing both misunderstood victim and attacking harpy at the same time. It's not really any of the things you've listed above, but rather, they way you portray all of those things without ever really saying anything about yourself that feels real.

That's just my humble opinion, and it's coming from a place of caring as well. Do with that information what you will.
 
lovewill said:
Adderall got me an 89 on my hardest midterm...and keeps an extremely wonderful smile on my face... not going off it for anything.

Yes...a fabulous pre-nump. Not going to specify as i'd be seen as bragging.

And...As for those ppl who say that I was wrong for mentioning my rape when I did...well...thats not the type of thing you mention when you first show up somewhere...everyone would have claimed that i was looking for sympathy.and if I just came to my own terms and found a way to file the reports...what made you all think that you should have been the first people to know if I hadn't gotten over it myself?..when I was really looking for how to make the best of gay sex...and when I asked questions and when i was forthright about being formerly anorexic...I was bashed...I mean...lilbit? Where with you with advice on how to enjoy sex with guys? no where to be found...along with matter of splatter...and several other people who find multiple causes to denigrate me on this forum. I don't really know if it has anything to do with what I choose to do with my life...as you all seem to have enough intelligence to know that telling me i'm wrong for choosing to marry wont change my choices on that big of a subject...but it seems that it may stem from the fact that I may have been a model at some point...or that I may have been raised in one of the best places in the world...or the fact that I may mention that I like material things...but I mean...it really doesn't seem to stem from any of the questions I have tried to ask... And quite frankly...so what if I was always drunk or high? does that mean that I dont have enough intelligence to have my questions about gay culture or sex answered with an objective opinion? Does it mean that I should be denigrated to the point where I begin to dislike everything gay> and does it also mean that every time I post any marginal thing that I should be ridiculed? I mean...think of the people who lurk here and read some of the outright hateful comments you make...how does that make them feel about registering? Furthermore...Instead of offering objective opinions about problems i may or may not have...you constantly refer to me out of name and resort to schoolyard tactics.
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Too long didn't read.

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Will, if you recall, I provided you with some constructive feedback when you first arrived on these boards. I warned you that you were on your way to making yourself incredibly unpopular, and I offered some suggestions for how to avoid that. You ignored me, I found you incredibly irritating, and I put you on ignore. That's why I didn't respond to any of your advice requests.

I took you off of my ignore list because I forgot how useless the ignore function is. You began to get on my nerves again, and this time I decided to respond.

BTW, in response to a few accusations you made under your previous incarnation:

No, I never made any comments, negative OR positive about your modeling career. Honestly, being the attention-seeker that you are, you seem well-suited for it. However, given your history of eating disorders, I worry that it would have a negative impact on your health.

And no, I most certainly did NOT tell you to go fuck yourself because you were raped. I expressed sincere sympathy for you in that regards. Nobody deserves to be raped, and I said so. The reason I told you to go fuck yourself was because you took that experience and used it as a flimsy excuse to bash gay men. THAT is inexcusable.

Honestly, up until shortly before you deleted your first account, I just found you irritating. Now I find you abhorrent.
 
Well, to be fair, I generally give people the benefit of the doubt for much longer than I ought to. If I say that I took an instant dislike to someone, it usually means that it only took me a month to realize that I didn't like them.
 
lovewill said:
Sorry I haven't been able to keep up with your fabulous and wonderful support....I'm kinda still recovering from a party I attended Friday night...Few bumps and bruises from slipping down the stairs and things. People really need to learn not to spill liquid on stairs of all places. Anywho. you all were saying?
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Pretty much just proves my point, unfortunately.
 
lovewill said:
Sorry I haven't been able to keep up with your fabulous and wonderful support....I'm kinda still recovering from a party I attended Friday night...Few bumps and bruises from slipping down the stairs and things. People really need to learn not to spill liquid on stairs of all places. Anywho. you all were saying?
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Wow man... you got some pretty thorough and detailed feedback from your rant about how no one supports you (KillJoke and Lilbit) and THIS is your response? :eek: I find that disgusting.
 
As we were saying--he doesn't want advice. He wants attention. And yes, I know I'm feeding the troll. As a former troll myself, I do have a smidgen of empathy for him.
 
Give him another chance. He was having an off night, that's all.
 
DominoHarvey said:
He's been having an off few months, judging by his posting history on JUB. FYI, this is his second account; I think he first joined three or four months ago, and has been spreading bullshit drama and outright disrespect for that entire period.
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Oh, I was referring to the dude he fucked but didn't enjoy.

I'm just being silly, really. My 'real' life is dramatic enough. I refuse to step my foot in the online bullshit. :gogirl: ;)
 
lovewill said:
Sorry I haven't been able to keep up with your fabulous and wonderful support....I'm kinda still recovering from a party I attended Friday night...Few bumps and bruises from slipping down the stairs and things. People really need to learn not to spill liquid on stairs of all places. Anywho. you all were saying?
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Tell me you don't just slam your steer away like that! :grrr:

I've tried my best to stay out and not to say anything piercing, yet you swing your attitude in a loathsome way like a murky water on a rotting lotus leaf. Where are your fucking brain? Think with it, don't let it rot---oops, too late, you have.

And if you have nothing to say to defend yourself or if you're not dignified enough to crawl back to your grotto, please...just keep quiet. That queen-of-the-dance-floor attitude of yours will derail you some day---oops, too late, it have.
 
whoa, i didnt know he delete his first account, soundlike he is the most hate JUBBers! and i agree with LIlbit
 
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