Bareback sex

[Cormac135]

We do love each other and have a fantastic relationship, sex is the only thing missing. He is not bothered too much about it because of his low libido.
So its only me in the playing field, very few people want to have sex with me now, the only few guys who do seem to be very relaxed about safety therefore I worry about doing with them.
I do intend to wear condoms, however I cannot get my head around what to do with oral sex.( pointless to do it with a condom right?)
I guess the safe answer is to sexually retire.
Does being Gay sucks when one gets old?

You could always pay for it, that way you set the rules.

 

[kallipolis]

Does being Gay sucks when one gets old?

If one ignores health related issues...yes.

Diabetes, and elevated blood pressure impact negatively on ones sexual abilities.

Taking care of ones health can guarantee a healthy sexual life into ones eighties.

 

[jbrown329]

If one ignores health related issues...yes.

Diabetes, and elevated blood pressure impact negatively on ones sexual abilities.

Taking care of ones health can guarantee a healthy sexual life into ones eighties.

So far (knock on wood) the diabetes hasn't lessened the ability. And thinking back, I'm pretty sure I've had undiagnosed diabetes for at least 3yrs. I've had high blood pressure (controlled) longer than that. But my sex drive was never an every day type of thing. 2-3 times a week is enough for me. Sometimes it's more and sometimes a little less. It mainly depends on my mental mood(s). That I've found is the biggest boner killer.

Uncontrolled blood sugar (glucose), especially if it's constantly high, will cause erectile problems.

My grandparents couldn't do it into their 80s. Grandpa had bad arthritis in his hip, and grandma's knees were shot, so they couldn't have sex (yes, she told me).

My ex up until a year and a half ago had a very high sex drive. But at the age of 68 he had a bad stroke and that took his sex drive completely away.

 

[JPGhost]

The only time I brb when I was younger than now, too drunk.. so I didn't remember I was humped with condom/no condom- doesn't feel different that much..

after that I paranoid for a week, afraid I'm catching something which thank cod Im not.
Don't be like me when I was 22

 

[kallipolis]

So far (knock on wood) the diabetes hasn't lessened the ability. And thinking back, I'm pretty sure I've had undiagnosed diabetes for at least 3yrs. I've had high blood pressure (controlled) longer than that. But my sex drive was never an every day type of thing. 2-3 times a week is enough for me. Sometimes it's more and sometimes a little less. It mainly depends on my mental mood(s). That I've found is the biggest boner killer.

Uncontrolled blood sugar (glucose), especially if it's constantly high, will cause erectile problems.

My grandparents couldn't do it into their 80s. Grandpa had bad arthritis in his hip, and grandma's knees were shot, so they couldn't have sex (yes, she told me).

My ex up until a year and a half ago had a very high sex drive. But at the age of 68 he had a bad stroke and that took his sex drive completely away.

Rupert Murdoch's recent marriage indicates that there's still some spunk left in this old man.

Our health physical, and mental often dictates our sexual abilities. Stay healthy, remain sexually active.