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Bareback vs condom (bottoms)

feels better to me. not that it means anything
 
Am I the only who thinks both feel great?

Yeah sure bareback as a top feels better but i've never noticed much difference as a bottom.
 
I guess I just have very little experience, but i've bottomed once bareback and once with a condom. With a condom is just fine to me; His dick still hits my prostate, I still feel really tight for him and it's a lot more sanitary for him. I find it's easier to relax knowing that, but that's just me.

I highly doubt i'll ever find a guy who's willing to use a condom every time, though.
 
Nomenclature said:
I highly doubt i'll ever find a guy who's willing to use a condom every time, though.
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Well, this may surprise you coming from me...but it's your choice. You don't ever have to let anyone fuck you bare if you don't want to. NOT EVER.

This thread shows that there are plenty of guys - including tops - who don't feel a difference. They won't mind wearing a condom every time.

In a relationship, of course, it becomes a matter of making each other happy. I certainly would require both monogamy and testing for continual bareback sex.

In terms of casual sex, make sure you discuss it before you're in bed. There are stealthers (guys who fake using a condom in various ways) out there. And as a bottom, you should learn to put the condom on HIM. That can be sexy if you do it right.
 
Críostóir said:
Well, this may surprise you coming from me...but it's your choice. You don't ever have to let anyone fuck you bare if you don't want to. NOT EVER.
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All i'm saying is that the vast majority of guys HATE condoms and will make every excuse in the world not to use one. I thought we all knew this.
 
Nomenclature said:
All i'm saying is that the vast majority of guys HATE condoms and will make every excuse in the world not to use one. I thought we all knew this.
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Yeah. But unless they're rapists, you don't have to let them get away with it.
 
Meh, I only like to bottom if its bareback.

Condoms are uncomfortable to me. But I'm not the kind of person who sleeps around with everyone and I don't bottom everytime something sexual happens. I only bottom if I'm dating someone and I absolutely trust them.
 
True debateable issue. Before the age of AIDS it was the bareback generation. Feeling of lube cock up the ass and pleasure of top and bottom.

Came the age of AIDS and safe sex wrap it up and enjoy fucking with condom.

To me would beareback with a trusted and loving partner which at time don't have. If chose fuck with stanger its going be with condom to protect me and my top.
 
Bareback DEFINITELY feels better for me and there IS a notceable difference in sensaion on my dick. I have a partner that I have been with for many years and we don't use condoms, mainly because of the awkward feeling/interruption (like someone mentioned above) of getting the condom, taking it outta the wrapper, putting it on me, and applying more lube...and also because we only go bareback with each other and we have had that "talk" about what we do when we play with other guys (we have open relationship). It is understood that if we play with someone else, that we will always be safe---so I rarely have anal sex with "other" people because I don't like the feeling of condoms. If I do mess around, I usually just do oral or jack-off...but if the bottom wants to be fucked, I will "endure" a condom just enough to give him a feel of my dick, then finish by jacking off on his chest/dick/face/etc.

But it's all personal preference I guess...and knowledge of your partners' status and the use of common sense regarding safety assessments. Contrary to popular belief and attitudes on this forum, my partner and I are living proof that you CAN bareback and still be 100% safe and remain HIV negative...if you plan carefully and have an understanding with your partner(s), you don't have to be one of those "I NEVER have sex without a condom" people, for the rest of your life.

As for the "condom makes cleanup easier" statements...I really don't see a big difference....from a top's perspective of cleanup, the bottom shoud clean his ass out regardless if a condom is used or not! And even if your argument is that you don't get shit on your cock by using a condom----if the bottom is dirty, there is still a chance of getting shit on your balls and/or pubic hair---so either way you're gonna have to end up cleaning/showering your genital area anyway. And plus you are gonna have the "burnt rubber smell" on your cock anyway, so unless you enjoy walking around smelling like a condom, or you are just plain nasty and don't ever clean up after any sex---you are STILL gonna have to cleanup regardless of whether a condom is used or not. As far as cleanup for the bottom, the top doesn't always have to cum inside you--and even if he does, you should not be holding it inside you (and letting it leak into your undies--as someone mentioned above) unless you know your anal retentive capabilities. GO TO THE BATHROOM AFTERWORDS, people---it's not that complicated!!! And whether he cums in you or not---or uses a condom or not...you will still have lube inside your ass, so you STILL have to cleanup regardless, regardless, regardless!

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I just posted about a big dick in a topic further up the main page. I actually had to ask the guy if he was wearing a condom when he fucked me with his giant dick. So for me as a versitile bottom/top, I can't tell any difference when a wrapped vs unwrapped dick is in my ass.

As for topping. I can tell a major difference. My bare cock feels so much more in my partners ass. No question that the penitraitor (sp?) loses the most sensation.
 
Obviously, I can tell the difference when topping without a condom.

But when I bottom, I tend to be less sore after a good pounding if he wears a condom.
 
AllMan said:
Bareback DEFINITELY feels better for me and there IS a notceable difference in sensaion on my dick. I have a partner that I have been with for many years and we don't use condoms, mainly because of the awkward feeling/interruption (like someone mentioned above) of getting the condom, taking it outta the wrapper, putting it on me, and applying more lube...and also because we only go bareback with each other and we have had that "talk" about what we do when we play with other guys (we have open relationship). It is understood that if we play with someone else, that we will always be safe---so I rarely have anal sex with "other" people because I don't like the feeling of condoms. If I do mess around, I usually just do oral or jack-off...but if the bottom wants to be fucked, I will "endure" a condom just enough to give him a feel of my dick, then finish by jacking off on his chest/dick/face/etc.

But it's all personal preference I guess...and knowledge of your partners' status and the use of common sense regarding safety assessments. Contrary to popular belief and attitudes on this forum, my partner and I are living proof that you CAN bareback and still be 100% safe and remain HIV negative...if you plan carefully and have an understanding with your partner(s), you don't have to be one of those "I NEVER have sex without a condom" people, for the rest of your life.

As for the "condom makes cleanup easier" statements...I really don't see a big difference....from a top's perspective of cleanup, the bottom shoud clean his ass out regardless if a condom is used or not! And even if your argument is that you don't get shit on your cock by using a condom----if the bottom is dirty, there is still a chance of getting shit on your balls and/or pubic hair---so either way you're gonna have to end up cleaning/showering your genital area anyway. And plus you are gonna have the "burnt rubber smell" on your cock anyway, so unless you enjoy walking around smelling like a condom, or you are just plain nasty and don't ever clean up after any sex---you are STILL gonna have to cleanup regardless of whether a condom is used or not. As far as cleanup for the bottom, the top doesn't always have to cum inside you--and even if he does, you should not be holding it inside you (and letting it leak into your undies--as someone mentioned above) unless you know your anal retentive capabilities. GO TO THE BATHROOM AFTERWORDS, people---it's not that complicated!!! And whether he cums in you or not---or uses a condom or not...you will still have lube inside your ass, so you STILL have to cleanup regardless, regardless, regardless!

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sshhh!! You can't say that. [-X
But truthfully, what you say is more complicated than pull out the condom n' go. Apparently the motto of today's sex ed is that safer sex is easy and non time consuming because afterall patience is lame.
 
I'm in a committed relationship. We prefer bareback. I know that with bareback you can feel his cock going up into the anal. That feeling that he is inside me is really turning me on. Don't get me wrong I think safety should consider first before thinking the pleasure.
 
there is a big difference during sex and after sex.

Im a Top, but once or twice had try to bottom to please my partner on different occasion..but I can distinguish well between the difference.

Infact, I had my boyfriend put a condom on for the first round..then take it off for the second to tell the difference and also teach him the differences.

The difference can be tell only if you're being fuck by the same person, same dick... and then you can tell.

Perhaps you guys should find out one day with a very trusty partner, ofcourse.

With the top wearing a condom, it feels harder, no pun intended. Its like sticking a more firm and hard silicon dildo up your ass, versus a softer and more comfortable silicon material. The condom creates a more firmer dick, and especially if you're new to bottoming or not gotten used to, it can be hard to try and get used to the insertion. The condom needed to be well lubricated because it creates a lot of friction.

Another thing that I seem to notice is the hair around the anus, being tugged and irritated by the condom.

And then after sex with a condom, you feel sore and raw, perhaps the friction cause this.

Bareback sex has a much comfortable feeling and uses a lot less of lube.

The same guy, same dick, without a condom, his dick will feel softer, atleast for the dickhead and the initial insertions.

It feels smoother, no friction, and it doesn't give that burning effect that most of it gets from getting fuck with a condom.

Finally, after sex, your ass feels fine... perhaps sometimes you can even go for round two immediately.
And let be honest you guys, how many of you are willing to go for a round 2 after you've been fucked with a condom on? Either or ass is burning or its overly sore from all the friction that damn thing caused inside you.

That is why, always stack up on lube.

BUT, hopefully like I said, bareback sex is more comfortable and better but..

HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX!! until you find the perfect guy that you KNOW is CLEAN and you can trust him.
 
bananaguy808 said:
I'm in a committed relationship. We prefer bareback. I know that with bareback you can feel his cock going up into the anal. That feeling that he is inside me is really turning me on. Don't get me wrong I think safety should consider first before thinking the pleasure.
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I think what he means is the feeling of a natural cock going up your ass..

you can feel the bump ridge of the mushroom head, each and every veins on the shaft of his dick, and the smooth sensation of skin against skin..

That is what should be turning you on.

Knowing and recognizing my cock up your ass..

than just feeling a wrapped up dick up your ass, which provides no specialness...

ALL wrapped up dicks feels the same with the condom on...
 
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