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Barebacking.

KagomJack

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I'm curious as to who here has actually tried barebacking? I know it's a risky thing and I don't advocate doing it unless you and your partner are clean and, as a personal thing, are with someone you're committed too.
 
I would think most gay men have tried it at one time or another. It actually feels way better than using a condom not that i'm advocating unsafe sex. I have done way more without than with but only in a long term bf situation. I was surprised when i bttm for the first time without one how good it felt. As a top you kinda know barebacking will feel real good but as a bttm it never crossed my mind that there would be a difference.It's like a blow job. Does head feel good with a condom on? do you like giving head while someone is wearing one? it's the same thing. but know who you are with.barebacking is not to be done with a stranger or a brand new bf. gotta trust that he truely is negative to go there.Cumming in my bf or visa versa is just between us and not something i would do if we "played" around like a lot of couples on here do.trust is key.
 
my partner and I have always bareback with ourselves, but when it comes to others, we play safe.
 
Tried it in high school with my boyfriend. Didn't really know any better. But that was so long ago.... Use condoms all the time now even though my partner and I are monogomous. Less chance of a UTI.
 
You can be a virgin but be born with herpes. You could then pass on herpes to your partner. Other STDs that can be passed on during birth: AIDS, Herpes, Syphilis.
And when you say "virgin" are you including blow jobs as well? Because you can catch things giving head.
 
I have done it, I do it, and I like it. :-)

Not saying it's right, but I'll only do it with someone I have been with for a long time.
 
I've done it in relationships after a while. Never for casual sex. I vastly prefer fucking raw than fucking with a condom, but in this day and age it isn't about what I want to do. It is about what I NEED to do.
 
gaywill19 said:
i never got why so many people who swallow wont do bareback
im not really complaining about it but has anyone noticed this and think its weird to since in my opinion its the same amount of risk
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it isn't the same amount of risk. swallowing is much less risky than catching. there's no where near the same amount of abrasion, immunoglobulins in saliva greatly decrease the virulence of any bug, and once it hits the acid bath of the stomach, it's toast. That said, it's far from risk free. And you are far more likely to get gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes or syphilis from oral sex than HIV. therefore, like barebacking, swallowing is best confined to a committed relationship with a healthy partner.
 
Even including the fact that some guys have cuts in their mouth, just had dental work, etc. the overall risk of contracting HIV from oral is still between 100 and 1000 times less than with receptive anal sex. Hard numbers are hard to come by, but even with some sort of open wounds in the mouth, oral sex is less risky than anal.
 
I have barebacked and do prefer it to condom'ed sex. However, I only reserve bareback for someone whose as monogamous with me as I am with them. If I am playing around, it's no-glove-no-love. [-X
 
I sooo don't agree any risk is the same risk. Even when you compare barebacking to itself. I think the meth-addicted gay men that can't control themselves ruin it for the innocent dudes that are honestly curious, which is normal and healthy.

I mean we really need to stop lumping the gay men that try barebacking occasionally with the gay men that go to clubs and get fucked a billion times in one night. But in our repressed and obsessed culture with sex, it's hard to find a balance.

So to reiterate, crossing the road is not the same as taking 1,000 loads in the arse. But likewise, taking one or two loads in the arse is not the same as taking 1,000 loads.

I wish people would try to self-educate themselves more and stop listening to everything they hear on the media. =/ Use common fucking sense and listen to what your heart is telling you. It's normal and healthy to be curious about barebacking, but unfortunately we've gotten so politically correct about the whole issue that young gay men rarely get the advice they need.
 
I did it with a mutally virgin fuck buddy back when I was younger, but not anymore. Way too risky and bad practice.
 
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