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Been ignored at work by straight guy?
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reece86

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I started a new job about 6 weeks ago and there is this guy at work that never talks to me he is friendly to everyone else then the other day I walked past him and I heard him say quitely" hey cock sucker" has anything like this happend to anyone else at work, to bad he is so hot!
 
I've never had that happend. I can say that he is risking creating a hostile work environment. If it offends you I would hope the fact that he is attractive to you would not deter you from discussing the matter with either your direct manager or someone in human resources.

If the comments do not bother you they may bother someone else within earshot. That could still wind up getting him in trouble from a human resource viewpoint.
 
Ignoring you is one thing - no one at work is obliged to like you, or be social, they only need to be professional - but calling you derogatory names is most definitely unprofessional, unacceptable and more likely than not contrary to public policies and work discrimination and harassment laws. If you're uncomfortable, raise the concern with your manager, then on to HR is nothing is resolved.
 
reece86 said:
I started a new job about 6 weeks ago and there is this guy at work that never talks to me he is friendly to everyone else then the other day I walked past him and I heard him say quitely" hey cock sucker" has anything like this happend to anyone else at work, to bad he is so hot!
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Please tell me you won't let this fly just because he's "hot." I agree with what everyone else said so far.
 
This should be reported to management, under no circumstances should happen to anyone -period.

My honey was in management and had to deal with this and there are strict rules if management is told and they do nothing about it.

So this asshole needs to be put back in his place. If he has not talk to you seince you have been there, you have not lost anything from it, keep it that way.

And make sure there is no retaliation from either party him/boss.

Dont let this gone on the sooner it's reported the sooner it stops..
 
You stop by his desk.

You look him straight in the eye

Are you scheduled to be my trainer for that? Then you smile and mention
the incident to a 'friend' or supervisor in the office.

Maybe he is not as straight as you think....if he is and the remark was mean,
well you just took the sting out and avoided a homophobic moment as well.
 
wow i never dealt with anyone like that. Theirs one guy and we make fun of each other and its pretty bad and he calls me that.



Just call him a breeder when he calls you a cock sucker. Or tell him you must have a good gaydar to notice im gay.
 
I bet he wants a blow job! That's his really stupid way of teasing/flirting with you. Before you make an enemy of him, flirt back just to test him. Say something like "wouldn't you like to know" or you can say "So, you like talking dirty...Interesting" or "At least ask me out for dinner and drinks first". If he's really a homophobe he'll insult you, If he flirts back, he's interested.
 
Thanks guys great comments from all of you, if he does it again I will try one of those comments and report him.
 
He's being a bully. Report him.
 
JasunStrikesBack said:
NO!!

Do not engage him. Calling him names just gives him the excuse to go to management and say the fag is harassing him.

just report it to management and let them deal with it.
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Exactly right. Could very easily turn into you being the one harassing him. Don't engage him in any way. Go directly to HR and make an incident report. If he were interested in you or flirting he wouldn't have ignored you for 6 weeks. He would have let you know by now that he wanted something. Don't let this turn into you being the problem.

Steven.
 
There will always be some people who will ignore you because you're gay, but there's always going to be some who will ignore you because of a lot of other reasons too.

This is an opportunity for you to resolve to strengthen your opinion of yourself so that people who reject you will not matter. I'm working on this very issue myself, so I can relate.

As far as him calling you that name, that is outrageous abuse. I'd go right to his superior and/or your HR person and file a written, formal complaint. That is power.

Good luck.
 
reece86 said:
I walked past him and I heard him say quitely" hey cock sucker" has anything like this happend to anyone else at work, to bad he is so hot!
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More details....What did you say when he said "hey Cock Sucker"? Did you smile or laugh? Did he laugh? Did you talk to each other? You're not too offended if you still think he's HOT after the fact..
 
In what context did he say it? That makes all the difference.
He could be hiding in the closet to see what your response would be.
 
What is WRONG with you?! Seriously?! He already insulted him by calling him that name, ignoring him, and making him feel 'less than'!!

Get to your manager and do NOT fire back with any comment, if it happens again. Acknowledge that you heard him, and head to the supervisor or HR rep.
 
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