Being a mind-blowing bottom

[vetterx021]

I met a guy recently and I reaaaaaally like him We haven't had sex yet, but he's a top and I'm sure when we do I'll have to bottom for the first time in my life.

This topic isn't about preparation (I know all about enemas, practicing with toys, taking it slow at first, etc.), but more about tips for being a GREAT bottom What are the things I can do to turn him on? What special tricks have you guys used that have always kept guys coming back for more? Tops, what's the hottest thing your partner has ever done for you? What have been your most memorable sexual experiences?

I know I'm not going to be good at it right off the bat, but any tips would be so helpful! Thanks guys!

And I know this will potentially be a very slutty thread, so if I posted it in the wrong place, please move it lol. I haven't been here in forever!

 

[MysticTortoise]

Here's the best advice I can give you:

I'm don't often bottom, but when the need arises I can. Generally speaking though, men aren't the hardest to please when it comes to sex. Let's face it, it doesn't take a whole lot to make a guy feel good.

Just take things at your own pace, and be a bit selfish, make sure you're enjoying yourself. I know it sounds crazy, but as a top it's hard not to enjoy myself. If you're into it, he'll be into it as well.

Not to mention if you're both into each other before things even get started it can be the most awkward worst sex you've ever had and still be enjoyable. I've been there, where we both busted out laughing before things even really got started. It was just an awkward situation, but once we got things going it ended up being some of the hottest sex I've ever had.

Don't over think it. If you're trying too hard to make sure you're "good" at it, you'll end up focusing more on that than him. This can lead to all sorts of problems, and if you're anything like me you'll be so nervous about making sure he's enjoying it that you won't get much, and probably won't even be able to orgasm. It happened to me a lot before I realized that I just need to relax and let whatever happens happen. After I figured that out things got to be a whole lot better for me, and the guys I've been with.

 

[hotb0d]

just learn to squeeze it tight.

make that booty bounce.

moan and stroke his ego.

ask for more.

 

[bokan800]

drop it like it's hot.

 

[jensu846]

if you can, make eye contact and kiss him. if youre on your back, hold him tight, throw out a few dirty moans, tell him how good it feels. and when he is about to cum, tighten your ass as hard as you can, clamp down on that dick. (if he doenst pull out).
Also, like Hotb0d says, stroke his ego. enjoy it.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

Lay him down on his back, sit on his cock, and ride that sucker like you're on a mechanical bull trying to win the blue ribbon.

 

[vetterx021]

Thanks for the advice guys

And 500+ views but only 5 replies?? Does nobody here get laid? Lol

 

[Nomenclature]

Just thrash around and sing show tunes at the top of your lungs.

 

[diamondstar]

drop it like it's hot.

Am in tears with this comment.

 

[EasyRory]

I'm not really happy as a top unless the bottom is having a good time. He doesn't need to know any special tricks; he just needs to let me know he likes what's happening. Then I'm happy, too.

 

[breakfast4sex]

i had my first time 3 days ago. its gonna hurt as he goes deeper! i honestly couldnt stay quiet. moans and screams were coming out on their own.

 

[vetterx021]

i had my first time 3 days ago. its gonna hurt as he goes deeper! i honestly couldnt stay quiet. moans and screams were coming out on their own.

Did you practice beforehand with a toy or just go with it? Did it feel good after awhile or was it just painful the whole time?

 

[glasvegas]

i had my first time 3 days ago. its gonna hurt as he goes deeper! i honestly couldnt stay quiet. moans and screams were coming out on their own.

Yea, when he tried to go deeper, it freaking hurts. I lost mine 2 days ago.

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Don't let your indecision take you from behind...
trust your inner vision
don't let others change your mind.

 

[ChickenGuy]

You gotta speed it up
And then you gotta slow it down
'Cos if you believe that a love can hit the top
You gotta play around



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