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Being discrete

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Croft85

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So I was out with some friends the other night at a straight bar/ pool hall. Well I think i walked in to two guys blowing each other in the bathroom. They came out of the stall as I walked in so I was wondering how do I discreetly let other guys know I'm down to do stuff next time I go?
 
Re: Being discreet

Do whatever you perceive other guys doing before they blow each other.

I'd be careful, it might not be legal or otherwise appropriate where you live to commit such an act there.
 
Re: Being discreet

Harke the Boeotarch said:
Do whatever you perceive other guys doing before they blow each other.

I'd be careful, it might not be legal or otherwise appropriate where you live to commit such an act there.
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But I don't know what they did before. I don't see that part
 
That may not be what they were doing in the bathroom but that what it seams like. But I'm still curious how do you discreetly flirt?
 
It's more likely they were doing drugs or buying/selling in the stall.
 
That maybe but but what if I'm out and about. And I see a guy I like how do I discreetly let him know I'm interested? My biggest fear is I see a guy and I want to flirt but I'm afraid he might be straight and get mad. So what's a discreet way of letting someone know you're interested
 
Croft85 said:
That maybe but but what if I'm out and about. And I see a guy I like how do I discreetly let him know I'm interested? My biggest fear is I see a guy and I want to flirt but I'm afraid he might be straight and get mad. So what's a discreet way of letting someone know you're interested
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The problem is that if you are in a predominantly "straight" environment like a "straight bar/ pool hall", you should assume that there is a 95% chance that the other guy is straight.

If someone is interested, they're going to make eye contact, smile or approach you. If you're interested, you do the same.

But again- much of this interaction is about context. If you're in a place that is more gay-friendly: a coffee shop, an arts venue, a library or a gym- and a guy is making looking at you and making eye contact, it's more likely to be a situation where he's interested. On the other hand, if you're in a sports bar or a pool hall, you should assume that it's not a venue where you're going to find guys to flirt with or who might be interested in some man-on-man play.
 
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