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Theyoungman
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I am who I am and I love it. I never felt ashamed of it, but I never wore it proudly either. I will learn to wear my preference in men proudly in the future.
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Being gay: Ashamed or Proud of it?
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Hot Hector
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I'm ashamed... Esp. when dealing with straigth people, I feel shy and inferior.
I just hate to admit I am gay, I have no structure to accept jokes and stuff, so at the moment I'm trying to improve that.
Sorry guys you are all great, but I do have serious troubles to deal with it.
I just hate to admit I am gay, I have no structure to accept jokes and stuff, so at the moment I'm trying to improve that.
Sorry guys you are all great, but I do have serious troubles to deal with it.
Christopher123
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Don't apologize. We understand. And it'll get better. And if you need to talk, we'll listen.
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Best way to put it. We may not have control over being gay, but we can choose how we deal with it, and making the healthy one (and living it) is an achievement.
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Life's too short to be ashamed or care what other people think. If you're ashamed of who you are, I would suggest some therapy and quick - time's a wasting.
FREDDIE187
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I am extremely motherfucking proud of being gay...Do you have a problem with that?
I have read all the comments here and I still go with this comment by Elvin.
Must add: I am also extremely motherfucking HAPPY to be gay!!!!!
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I wouldn't say proud, I would say I just fucking love cock and guys in general.
Insatiable sex pig if you will. If that equates to proud, then yes.
Insatiable sex pig if you will. If that equates to proud, then yes.
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teh_nathan
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Ugh..I like people (non-gender-specific), that doesn't mean I'm proud to be bi.
My sexual orientation doesn't define who I am so personally sex isn't a big part of my life.
It's a part of who I am, yes, but it's not a big part of my life.
My sexual orientation doesn't define who I am so personally sex isn't a big part of my life.
It's a part of who I am, yes, but it's not a big part of my life.
Being proud of one's sexuality is like being proud of one's heritage, or proud of one's family... you had nothing to do with it, but it's still something worth taking pride in.
And, like your heritage or your family, your sexuality is who you are. Your identity is made up of thousands of overlapping totalities... not facets of a stone, but layers and layers of elements commingling their separate colors into a dazzling unique color. And each element is a whole identity, not a part of an identity. That's what makes people so interesting.
And, like your heritage or your family, your sexuality is who you are. Your identity is made up of thousands of overlapping totalities... not facets of a stone, but layers and layers of elements commingling their separate colors into a dazzling unique color. And each element is a whole identity, not a part of an identity. That's what makes people so interesting.
Leidian
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I would say I'm neither proud nor ashamed. Conversely, I am both. It depends on the day, the company, the weather (?), who knows.
I have nothing against my gayness. I do not think I or anyone else is less of a person in any way because of it. I highly respect people who are so out it hurts, for I would never have the courage to do that (though, that isn't who I am anyway). I don't think there's anything wrong, immoral, etc. with being gay.
On the other side of it. It seems like so many people out there don't agree, so I'm not the kind of person who announces to everyone that I am gay. In fact, I've still only got a toe sticking out of the closet. I can't help feeling like maybe it would disappoint my parents - no wife, potentially no grandchildren, I was always mama's baby boy and never daddy's little man. I wouldn't say that makes me ashamed, though. I don't wish I was straight. I don't hate myself or think there's something wrong with me.
Just...confused, maybe, on how exactly to reconcile the difference between being the best I can be as I am and the best I can be as everyone expects me to be (which can never happen).
I have nothing against my gayness. I do not think I or anyone else is less of a person in any way because of it. I highly respect people who are so out it hurts, for I would never have the courage to do that (though, that isn't who I am anyway). I don't think there's anything wrong, immoral, etc. with being gay.
On the other side of it. It seems like so many people out there don't agree, so I'm not the kind of person who announces to everyone that I am gay. In fact, I've still only got a toe sticking out of the closet. I can't help feeling like maybe it would disappoint my parents - no wife, potentially no grandchildren, I was always mama's baby boy and never daddy's little man. I wouldn't say that makes me ashamed, though. I don't wish I was straight. I don't hate myself or think there's something wrong with me.
Just...confused, maybe, on how exactly to reconcile the difference between being the best I can be as I am and the best I can be as everyone expects me to be (which can never happen).
I'm not ashamed of it. But I don't know if proud of it is true either. I'm very happy with who I am. But I'm not proud of having brown eyes... it just is. I'm not proud of being gay... it just is. I wouldn't change either.