Say what?
How do you know we go to the same school? I've never mentioned it here. You must recognize me.
Hmmm...small world.
Yeah, I recognized your profile picture, and then looked you up on facebook. We have a couple of mutual friends, apparently.
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Being gay in college without a boyfriend...
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Yeah, I recognized your profile picture, and then looked you up on facebook. We have a couple of mutual friends, apparently.
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Yes, yes and yes.
It can actually be a depressing experience sometimes, because there are many hot guys to be seen at college. Sure, some of them may be bi-curious, bi or gay, but sometimes it's really, REALLY hard to tell.
I myself was looking for a relationship while I went to colleges both times. I had no luck either times...
Happy posting, buddy. ^_^b
It can actually be a depressing experience sometimes, because there are many hot guys to be seen at college. Sure, some of them may be bi-curious, bi or gay, but sometimes it's really, REALLY hard to tell.
I myself was looking for a relationship while I went to colleges both times. I had no luck either times...
Happy posting, buddy. ^_^b
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I was in a very terrible car accident 2-1/2 ish (more 3) years ago, which led to the deaths of the driver of the other car, three of the five in the car I was in, and my breaking my Sternum, both Rib Cages, and collapsing my right Lung. I had to have two steel bars surgically implanted under my shattered Sternum and beneath both of my Rib Cages so that I could heal properly. The damages were so extensive that I had to learn how to walk again.
I've basically lost the Freshmen through senior years of my college life having to have been bed ridden for more than a year and then spending nearly two years rehabilitating myself physically. I weighed only 103 lbs when I started walking again, and after my Physical Therapy I developed my muscles back but never was able to bulk back to my normal 130-145.
***Sorry for the loooong back story ! but after proof reading what I wrote below I felt it answered some questions I unintentionally posed***
Hey guys, first post here! My case has been a tad different but I feel I can add my experiences non the less. I'm a very effeminate person. I love fashion, and make up, I shave my legs and arms; to sum it up - I'm a walking female mannerism.
After my accident I found it extremely difficult to maintain a relationship with anyone. They all said that they couldn't get close to me. I was basically a china doll for a while there where people were too afraid that they would hurt me if they touched me. I don't know what's worse: not having love in one's life - or constantly having it then losing it. I felt very alienated not being to express myself physically, emotionally, and even sexually with another person.
What comforted me the most was realizing that I was capable of making my own self happy and that the contentment that I thought was coming from a relationship was really just coming from within myself. Hope it helps =o)
I've basically lost the Freshmen through senior years of my college life having to have been bed ridden for more than a year and then spending nearly two years rehabilitating myself physically. I weighed only 103 lbs when I started walking again, and after my Physical Therapy I developed my muscles back but never was able to bulk back to my normal 130-145.
***Sorry for the loooong back story ! but after proof reading what I wrote below I felt it answered some questions I unintentionally posed***
Hey guys, first post here! My case has been a tad different but I feel I can add my experiences non the less. I'm a very effeminate person. I love fashion, and make up, I shave my legs and arms; to sum it up - I'm a walking female mannerism.
After my accident I found it extremely difficult to maintain a relationship with anyone. They all said that they couldn't get close to me. I was basically a china doll for a while there where people were too afraid that they would hurt me if they touched me. I don't know what's worse: not having love in one's life - or constantly having it then losing it. I felt very alienated not being to express myself physically, emotionally, and even sexually with another person.
What comforted me the most was realizing that I was capable of making my own self happy and that the contentment that I thought was coming from a relationship was really just coming from within myself. Hope it helps =o)
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I was in a very terrible car accident 2-1/2 ish (more 3) years ago, which led to the deaths of the driver of the other car, three of the five in the car I was in, and my breaking my Sternum, both Rib Cages, and collapsing my right Lung. I had to have two steel bars surgically implanted under my shattered Sternum and beneath both of my Rib Cages so that I could heal properly. The damages were so extensive that I had to learn how to walk again.
I've basically lost the Freshmen through senior years of my college life having to have been bed ridden for more than a year and then spending nearly two years rehabilitating myself physically. I weighed only 103 lbs when I started walking again, and after my Physical Therapy I developed my muscles back but never was able to bulk back to my normal 130-145.
***Sorry for the loooong back story ! but after proof reading what I wrote below I felt it answered some questions I unintentionally posed***
Hey guys, first post here! My case has been a tad different but I feel I can add my experiences non the less. I'm a very effeminate person. I love fashion, and make up, I shave my legs and arms; to sum it up - I'm a walking female mannerism.
After my accident I found it extremely difficult to maintain a relationship with anyone. They all said that they couldn't get close to me. I was basically a china doll for a while where people too afraid that they'd hurt me by even touching me. I don't know what's worse: not having love in one's life - or constantly having it then losing it. I felt very alienated not being to express myself physically, emotionally, and even sexually with another person.
What comforted me the most was realizing that I was capable of making my own self happy and that he contentment that I thought was coming from a relationship was really just coming from within myself. Hope it helps
)
I've basically lost the Freshmen through senior years of my college life having to have been bed ridden for more than a year and then spending nearly two years rehabilitating myself physically. I weighed only 103 lbs when I started walking again, and after my Physical Therapy I developed my muscles back but never was able to bulk back to my normal 130-145.
***Sorry for the loooong back story ! but after proof reading what I wrote below I felt it answered some questions I unintentionally posed***
Hey guys, first post here! My case has been a tad different but I feel I can add my experiences non the less. I'm a very effeminate person. I love fashion, and make up, I shave my legs and arms; to sum it up - I'm a walking female mannerism.
After my accident I found it extremely difficult to maintain a relationship with anyone. They all said that they couldn't get close to me. I was basically a china doll for a while where people too afraid that they'd hurt me by even touching me. I don't know what's worse: not having love in one's life - or constantly having it then losing it. I felt very alienated not being to express myself physically, emotionally, and even sexually with another person.
What comforted me the most was realizing that I was capable of making my own self happy and that he contentment that I thought was coming from a relationship was really just coming from within myself. Hope it helps
)
boy0boy
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hey hunt, you told me not to worry my head off and here you are! haha just playing....
i know this is late from the original post but i felt a lot like that during my first semester. i was the single guy in the group of couples, and i never once was interested in anyone... kinda empowering because everyone around me was so desperate for a relationship and there i was, little mr. content. but that was then when i had things to do and kept myself busy. i've found that now that i am not going back this semester it really has weighed more on me that i'm single.
Fact is. its pretty common apparently. loneliness is a problem for most at some time. if you believe in it.. i think it will work out.
i know this is late from the original post but i felt a lot like that during my first semester. i was the single guy in the group of couples, and i never once was interested in anyone... kinda empowering because everyone around me was so desperate for a relationship and there i was, little mr. content. but that was then when i had things to do and kept myself busy. i've found that now that i am not going back this semester it really has weighed more on me that i'm single.
Fact is. its pretty common apparently. loneliness is a problem for most at some time. if you believe in it.. i think it will work out.
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Today's "one of those days" for me. I'm feeling a little lonely...saw way too many couples holding hands on campus today. The sad thing is, *if* there even was someone around that I was interested in, I'm too damn shy to make a move. ](/images/smilies/bang.gif "Brick wall ](*,)")
Yup. It's the single life for me.
Yup. It's the single life for me.
ugh I hate when it when this happens. I had this really cute guy trying to hit on me today in the library. He came up to me and sat down at my table and started to talk about guster (I was wearing a guster tshirt and he was talking about how its one of his favorite bands). Then he started to talk about how he was a Freshmen out looking to meet new people and possibly a relationship and so on; but I basically brushed his advancements off because I was so focused on completing my homework that I didn't even realize that until he had left.
Don't you just hate it when you are so involved in an activity that you don't even realize what is going on around you?
Maybe I'll run into him again on campus. Who knows.
Don't you just hate it when you are so involved in an activity that you don't even realize what is going on around you?
Maybe I'll run into him again on campus. Who knows.
Hey guys,
I just wanted to touch base about something I've been thinking about a lot lately.
I'm in my last year of college and I haven't been in any kind of relationship this entire time. Granted, i've had a buddy or two during my freshman and sophomore year, but there hasn't been anyone into a relationship.
The thing is...I think college is one of the worst places to be for someone who actually wants a relationship.
I feel that we have to constantly see guys that we *know* we can't have. It's even worse when I see couples around campus, and think to myself "why can't I have that?" or "what's wrong with me?"
I just think that this would be a great time of my life to be sharing with someone. Not to mention, I am so stressed constantly about trying to get my life in some sort of order...it would be nice to have someone to be with. Not just for emotional support and comfort, but for general reasons.
I guess it all comes back around to things happening in their own time. There's no rushing a relationship.
but basically, I feel like i'm missing out. And I don't like it at all.
Sometimes it doesn't bother me, but some days I hate it.
can any of you relate to this?
Hi, just curious here! Has your situation changed? I do hope you would have hitched up with someone by now.
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OMG THAT'S MY PROBLEM! I'm so freaking dense I don't realize that I was being hit on till way afterwards! Example: me and friend went to a club and the Bunny Hope song came on and I really wanna learn how to do it so me and my friend stood on the side looking and trying to get it down. Well this one guy comes up to us and starts on my left right after my friend who was on my direct left, and he makes jokes and eventually ends up on my side. I WAS SO INVOLVED with the freaking DANCE I COMPLETELY ignored the fact he was hitting on me. My friend was a little slow as well and reminded me after we left the club. So sad...
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I have high hopes for grad school as I was single all through college.
