Being the object of someone's lust...

[Sunshine]

They have to be dirty thoughts? Uuuugh.

If I'm crushing on someone that is seriously the last thing I would think about. But, to answer the question... nope no one's ever done that to me. It almost seems stalkerish.

 

[kevbo]

I know it happens... Unfortunately it hasn't been the person I'm lusting after... yet...

 

[jd8686]

Has it ever crossed your mind that sometime, somewhere, someone is having the nastiest, dirtiest thoughts about what they'd like to do to/with you?

I doubt it would happen with me, but I am confident that the men in white coats would soon be on their way to help such poor desperate individuals get the help they need.

 

[Croynan]

if he were he would have to be out of his f*****g mind.​

eM.

 

[GL]

if i was ever the object of someone's lust i'd be surprised.

 

[evil_danger]

I doubt anyone has ever lusted after or had a crush on me, It's always my crushing on someone else.

 

[seamusnewwest]

It has happened to me more than once, which is interesting, because I'm not a 10 or anything.

 

[theatreboi]

I do think about it every now and then. especially when i'm doing the same to someone else.

 

[alley]

I only find out after it's too late--in college I had a guy practically kiss and I had no clue till I saw him with this other guy and realized they were now a couple and I had missed a chance I was too blind to see.

Another time I was managing a restaurant and one of my female employees came in dressed up with a full coating of make and a brand new dress and a heels---I said hi and kept on working---later another employee came up and told me that the display had been all for my benefit..lolo---she was way off base.

Today this guy at the pool, who is totally my type made an effort to say hi and we exchanged a couple of glances. He took forever toweling off before heading back to the lockerroom, lots of looks in my direction---and I freckin' did not cut my swim short--I'm a total idiot --he was so cute--hope I run into him again. I have no confidence.

 

[Pringle]

What an interesting thought.

Erm - I think it unlikely anyone has ever actually jerked off over thoughts of me - but I have been made aware that there have been people (mainly girls) who used to think I was cute -

- but I am friend material really - not the stuff fantasies are made of.

However - I doubt the people that I used to imagine in interesting situations were actually aware that they were the object of my affections

 

[Endlight]

Yup, when I was in college. I was in a boarding institution after our house burned down. This guy, I came up during some debating team exercise, took a liking to me. and he followed me around like a puppy, just would not let go. I tried being nice, and even went so far as evading him on purpose.

One day he asked if I could help him with one of the subjects he was heading for a fail grade, on.

I took the opportunity to, as gently as possible, tell him, I had a circle of friends, thought he was ok, but that following me around like that was weird.

He broke down and started crying, blurring out that he "loved" me and would do anything I asked, no matter what. Then he said he was well hung and would I like to see, touch it? At this point my gentleness crashed. I became firmer in my statements, as I was not but not interested in a relationship with him. I still don't know how I kept my cool except perhaps I felt sorry for him.

During debates in the next two years, when we were on opposite teams, he was very vitriolic and never gave an inch. Sometimes he was a bit too personal when I faced him. Guess he carried the torch up to graduation.

I never saw him later in life. ( he really was like a dirty diaper. I could not shake him off)

 

[texpatriot]

Has it ever crossed your mind that sometime, somewhere, someone is having the nastiest, dirtiest thoughts about what they'd like to do to/with you?

If they are they'll need to let me in on it, I'm usually as thick as a brick on these topics.

Though there have been a couple of times where I've been "objectified" and later told about by guys who we doing the objectifying.

It was kind of nice actually, but in reality that's all that it was. They just wanted me for my body, or dick, nothing else.

Oh well, maybe it's better that I not know.

 

[teddy14]

i like the idea of being thought of as nothing but an object of desire, but I doubt its ever happened.

 

[evil_danger]

What an interesting thought.

Erm - I think it unlikely anyone has ever actually jerked off over thoughts of me - but I have been made aware that there have been people (mainly girls) who used to think I was cute -

- but I am friend material really - not the stuff fantasies are made of.

However - I doubt the people that I used to imagine in interesting situations were actually aware that they were the object of my affections

Well I'm guessing those photos in your profile are of you and you can now say you know for sure your the object of someones lust, mine!

 

[pocono]

This is kind of a difficult topic. In high school I was overweight and president of the stage crew. Definitely not hot stuff. The weight came off in college and I aged well. That's all great, but there is still this fat dweeb in me. I can't get used to thinking anyone has the hots for me, but... every few months/weeks there is something that gives me pause.

A guy (friend) got drunk and cornered my friends. He told them that he was "not worthy" of me! (Ok...WTF do you do with that)

This woman from work (10 years younger than me) was getting divorced. She literally threw herself at me. (OK...WTF do you do with that)

There are lots and lots of other stories too, but the fat little kid in me is clearly doesn't understand or react well. The attention kind of freaks me out.

Most of you are likely to say is this guy complaining or bragging and it's good to know I don't look bad. It is, however, unsettling to think that folks are talking about you, noticing way too many details about your life...even if it's positive.

 

[Paathogen]

I know of a number of my patients (inmates) that are sexually attracted to me. But then again, they'd be sexually attracted to a broom if they knew it would put out for them. So their standards aren't that high!

It's still flattering though. Some of the more... shall I say... "enthusiastic" ones require extra security in my office, however.

 

[justsimon]

It happens to me a lot. It's often rather uncomfortable.

 

[Paathogen]

You mr Paathogen are much hotter than a broomstick.

Awww... thanks!

Lucky for me, the inmates don't care that much about looks! As long as the object (object being a person... or... well...an actual object) has a functioning hole- they're considered prime material!!!

Sadly, I don't even have that anymore! LOL. When I return to work, the inmates will be sad to learn my anus got sewn shut! Hahaha.

 

[xxmen44]

I wanna be lusted after. . .

 

[FirePhoenix]

Well, how many of you have given thought that maybe YOU are the object of someone else's lust/desires or whatever?



Has it ever crossed your mind that sometime, somewhere, someone is having the nastiest, dirtiest thoughts about what they'd like to do to/with you?

ya right!

if he were he would have to be out of his f*****g mind.​

eM.

yup thats what I was thinking.