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Being with someone while still being in love with another

New people and surroundings are good. I have had a couple of heavy crushes on guys I never ended up dating. In fact I ended up holding hands with one of them and realized I didn't feel anything for him! I was in fact hiding behind these guys to get some affection and attention because I was scared of getting hurt after a bad relationship breakup, also my job was making me unhappy so you can see how toxic this was becoming. The guy I was crushing on left my workplace and without having him to distract me, within 3 months I realized I had to get out of there and got myself a new job! I do still think about my workplace crush sometimes but I just realized you need to take a step back and work out what caused it in the first place, e.g. what were you lacking at the time and what do they do that keeps you interested.
 
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