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Best Day Of My Life.

SEEMENow

SEEMENow

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Hey JUB :),
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me because I finally told her I like having sex with men and women. And, that I am still attracted to men. But, I still love her. Welcome 2010 ..| Oh yea, btw. I was going to ask her to marry me next month (*8*)

Just wanted to share that with my buddies:kiss:.
 
Thank god you told her before asking her to marry you.

She made her choice.

Move on.
 
damn dude!! I'd have probably broken up with you too!

What the hell were you thinking being that honest with a girl? Even if she didn't get pissed right then, she'd definitely save that juicy morsel up for a fight six months down the road, and out of the blue!

Six months down the road, and out of the blue:
You'd be watching the Steelers and Cowboys playing and ask her politely like, "Honey, would you mind grabbing me another beer while you're up please?"

And she'll be PMSing with cramps and a broken nail she's trying to repair, so out of nowhere you hear, "HAVE ONE OF YOUR GOD DAMN MALE OR FEMALE LOVERS GET YOUR FUCKING BEER YOU LAZY PIECE OF SHIT!"

See, girls do not forget ANYTHING! Believe me, I know this for a fact! And they tend to use things you tell them in the heat of passion as ammunition, whenever it suits their needs.

Anyways. There's no turning back now.

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I don't know, maybe she just needs a little time to think?

Whatever happens, be strong, and never give up your passion for life. And never bend and change for anybody but yourself. Whatever you do, don't crawl back and start kissing her ass (however fine that ass may be), she'll sense that you're weak and the next break-up somewhere down the road, will be even worse. Been there/done that.

That might sound cold and insensitive, but we have to be who we are! That's why people fall in love with us, because they see that unbridled passion that expresses who we are and makes us bright and funny, mysterious and intriguing and irresistibly sexy and attractive.

It's the ones around us that desire us most that we in turn become attracted to, and for that same reason. We see the raw energy that ultimately makes them a sexually charged sensual presence to us. But we both have to share that life force every moment of every day, or we become lazy, complacent, and vulnerable.


When the euphoria begins to fade we do crazy things trying to recapture our happiness while we're sad, and you just can't do that. We start to do things for people that we don't really want to do just to please them in the moment, and as we're kissing their ass they can sense we have become pathetic and weak, and that's unattractive as hell.
Ironically, we can't respect someone who kisses our ass. That's not love. That's dependence, and it's just sad and destructive.

So just be yourself, and she'll respond to that joy and passion that first triggered her lust for you, and all those little nuances that make you so attractive will shine from you like lasers at a Pink Floyd concert.



P.S.: And get you own beer when she seems edgy and sensitive.
Good Luck.:kiss:It'll all work out okay.


Sincerely yours,
Griff
 
SEEMENow said:
Best Day Of My Life.
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It very well could be, if that is what you want.
 
SEEMENow said:
Hey JUB :),
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me because I finally told her I like having sex with men and women. And, that I am still attracted to men. But, I still love her. Welcome 2010 ..| Oh yea, btw. I was going to ask her to marry me next month (*8*)

Just wanted to share that with my buddies:kiss:.
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You did the right thing. If you had let it become a secret, it would have been destructive to your relationship, long term. I had the same conversation with a girlfriend years ago, she understood... and married me. You deserve a girl like her.
 
I'm lost. But, now that I'm becoming 20 in a couple of days. I spoke to my mom about it and she said I was too young and that if she cannot accept you how can you commit your whole life to her. But, I'm okay. Thanks for the positive and negative feeds.
 
well in my opinion, it's a good thing that you didn't get married before even being 20 at least... you're too young. I'm too young lol.

Now you can have fun ;). She didn't accept you, so like rareboy said, move on.
 
So lemme get this correct. You were going to ask her to marry you but she broke up with you first and it saved you from having to ask?

Plus you're only 20 and you like both men and women and you were considering getting married?

None of these sound good to me. You should go out and find yourself on your own. You're lucky she broke up with you because all you were doing was aiming to make your bad situation worse. Good job for being honest to make her.
 
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