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Best friend in army

chace1617

chace1617

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So i'm in the army for the past 5 months and i will be there for the next 3 months. i have met this guy and we became super close friends. he is drop dead gorgeous and the nicest person i have ever met, a perfect combination i'd like my boyfriend to have. of course my life wouldn't be so nice with me as he seems to be straight. he actually has a girlfriend and we went out all together once.

this guy, lets call him ''Liam'' is such a good friend and i know i love him and i don't want to lose him from my life. he cares for me as i care for him, i have slept in his house many times and we went out together, to the movies, for a drink etc. i know he is straight but i loved spending time with him.

the thing is that i've seen things that could make him at least bisexual but maybe i'm not judging right just because i love him...and i don't know if i love him sexually or in a friendly way. for example we were talking about sex and if an old guy payed him to have sex with him he said that if he had to have gay sex he'd only be a top never a bottom. i mean how can a straight guy know about the ''top and bottom'' thing? the other time he asked me not to eat a food cause he didn't like the smell of it and i was like ''why are you gonna kiss me?'' and he replied ''yes'' and i was like ''well i'll brush my teeth first then'' i know all of these were in a humorous way but is it?

i know he cares for me and misses me when i'm not there cause when i had to leave from the army for a week he asked permission to leave too. he brings breakfast for me in the morning sometimes and does many things that prove how much he cares for me. but i feel the same way for him for example i cover him with the blanket at night when i'm awake and i see he is not covered while sleeping...
a few weeks ago we had taken a picture together and then i realized he made that picture his profile pic on facebook! i told him i was surprised when i saw the picture as his profile pic and that i really appreciate it. a few days later he changed it and i'm sure his girlfriend asked him to. cause the picture he replaced it with was him and his girlfriend!

his girlfriend is a total bitch! i know most of you would say that i just hate her cause she's his gf but she is a bitch. i've seen text messages on his cell phone where she doesn't talk very nice to him. i know she won't work cause she's lazy and spend his money. then he made him change his profile pic. the fact is that they're together for 3 years. he is 22 i mean come on! you're so young and hot and you like spending you're life with this bitch? there are so many hot women out there who'd like to be with you..(and me lol)

of course i've never told him all that. i mean he's is an adult and if he's happy with her i'm happy with it.what do you think i should do? stay like that and hide all my feelings for him? cause i really don't want to lose him from my life.
 
we've never talked about that. i'm a closet case lol. well i told him i had a gf in the past but i think he suspects i like boys too
 
Perhaps see how he feels about bisexuals, and if all is good, come out to him.
 
If you come out to him, it will either kill any chance of anything sexual happen between you two or increase those chances, depending on his opinion of homosexuality.

I've had a straight friend who made comments like that saying "if I was with a guy, I'd have to be the aggressor." Straight guys will never come forth and say exactly what they want if they're curious. They just drop little hints.
 
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Yes. Yes I will be.
 
With this post, I am hereby subscribing to this thread. ..|

Not going to comment, yet. Would like to hear more before I go sticking my foot in my big mouth! And, of course, littering up the place with bunches of smilies! :slap:

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
chace1617 said:
So i'm in the army for the past 5 months and i will be there for the next 3 months. i have met this guy and we became super close friends. he is drop dead gorgeous and the nicest person i have ever met, a perfect combination i'd like my boyfriend to have. of course my life wouldn't be so nice with me as he seems to be straight. he actually has a girlfriend and we went out all together once.

this guy, lets call him ''Liam'' is such a good friend and i know i love him and i don't want to lose him from my life. he cares for me as i care for him, i have slept in his house many times and we went out together, to the movies, for a drink etc. i know he is straight but i loved spending time with him.

the thing is that i've seen things that could make him at least bisexual but maybe i'm not judging right just because i love him...and i don't know if i love him sexually or in a friendly way. for example we were talking about sex and if an old guy payed him to have sex with him he said that if he had to have gay sex he'd only be a top never a bottom. i mean how can a straight guy know about the ''top and bottom'' thing? the other time he asked me not to eat a food cause he didn't like the smell of it and i was like ''why are you gonna kiss me?'' and he replied ''yes'' and i was like ''well i'll brush my teeth first then'' i know all of these were in a humorous way but is it?

i know he cares for me and misses me when i'm not there cause when i had to leave from the army for a week he asked permission to leave too. he brings breakfast for me in the morning sometimes and does many things that prove how much he cares for me. but i feel the same way for him for example i cover him with the blanket at night when i'm awake and i see he is not covered while sleeping...
a few weeks ago we had taken a picture together and then i realized he made that picture his profile pic on facebook! i told him i was surprised when i saw the picture as his profile pic and that i really appreciate it. a few days later he changed it and i'm sure his girlfriend asked him to. cause the picture he replaced it with was him and his girlfriend!

his girlfriend is a total bitch! i know most of you would say that i just hate her cause she's his gf but she is a bitch. i've seen text messages on his cell phone where she doesn't talk very nice to him. i know she won't work cause she's lazy and spend his money. then he made him change his profile pic. the fact is that they're together for 3 years. he is 22 i mean come on! you're so young and hot and you like spending you're life with this bitch? there are so many hot women out there who'd like to be with you..(and me lol)

of course i've never told him all that. i mean he's is an adult and if he's happy with her i'm happy with it.what do you think i should do? stay like that and hide all my feelings for him? cause i really don't want to lose him from my life.
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i am surprised that its croossing over.

as any other guys expeerienced this?
 
I kinda feel the same way as you do with Liam. Oddly enough, I'm in a similar situation with a guy in the army. I just hope in the end everything works out. I suppose what's in the plus for me is that my guy's single and I'm out.

Regardless of all that, though, it can be rather frustrating. Not knowing what to do...
 
Focus on the friendship, be a good friend to him and put aside any sexual thoughts for now. If he is interested in you for sex, he will let you know in some way. It might not even be verbal, it could be as subtle as a lingering look in his eyes. He might not even want to discuss it, even if he wants to do something. It may not ever happen, though, and even if he has some attraction to you, he might not act on it, especially while he has a girlfriend. I know, it's hard to put aside those sexual thoughts, but get your sexual needs fulfilled elsewhere and just maintain the friendship with him that you have been. That's all you can do anyway. You can't force anything to happen. Let him be the one to initiate anything sexual. And be ready to respond to it, in a positive way, if he does give you a clear signal. But otherwise, and until that ever happens, put all that out of your mind and just be friends with him.
 
Be careful of the girl friend. If she feels that you are taking time or attention away from her, she is likely to guess that you are gay, and try to poison him against.
 
Just let everything happen naturally. Obviously you guys care for each other so, just go with the flow, sometimes talking about it just ruins it. Also finds indirect ways to get closer physically.
 
sitting miserable in my house i can't stop thinking about him. i'd spend the day and night with him today as i had planned to stay at his house today but unfortunately my plans got canceled.
when i told him i can't stay at his house today he said ''never mind i'm probably spending the day with my girlfriend today'' she wanted to take him to the shops and walk around in the city all day long. i was like ''oh that's so nice you're gonna have so much fun today'' and the fact is that it was a beautiful Saturday morning. i pretended i was fine with it and totally happy but inside me i was like http://whatgifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/funny-gifs-my-first-day-of-school.gif Inside me i wanted to blow up! i felt so jealous that she would spend such a beautiful day with him and i'd sit miserable in my house. he told me he didn't really wanted to go to the shops cause he finds it very boring, as most straight guys do, but he had to go cause she asked him... he then told me i could go with them if i wanted to and i started laughing just to have the time think something clever to say. of course i hate that bitch i won't go out with her again, i was like ''nuh i don't like being the third person between a couple'' and he thought it was funny and said ''come on don't be stupid, it's not like we're going to have sex in front of you''

now i realise that that bitch isn't as bad as i think. i mean she is mean but i only call her a bitch cause she's his girlfriend lol

why why why do i have to feel like that? it's so tiring... but i know that it's what a couple naturally would do. spend a beautiful day together. what i wouldn't give to be in her shoes... even though they're high hills lol

so i have this plan for tomorrow. i can't tell him what i did all day was sitting home miserable so i'm gonna pretend i'm tired cause i was out with friends all night long. i'm gonna pretend i have a life
 
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